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JUST PUT DOWN THE FIRST RESPONSE! EARLY TESTING DOESN'T MEAN YOU ARE UP THE DUFF, THAT WAY DOTH MADNESS LIE!

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OracleInaCoracle · 19/06/2008 13:59

don't waste another penny, wait until your period is late. support here!

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OracleInaCoracle · 20/06/2008 22:59

how is everyone doing? im so crap, already symptom spotting. which is pants because had a hysteroscopy on tuesday and still bleeding!

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ceedub · 22/06/2008 20:58

Hi everyone, just to let you know (and this is completely aginst the spirit of this thread, I know) but I tested yesterday and...BFP!!! Hope it lasts!

OracleInaCoracle · 22/06/2008 21:01

thats fab news! (how many dpo are you?)

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OracleInaCoracle · 22/06/2008 21:03

and BFPs are very welcome here

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ceedub · 23/06/2008 10:19

Thanks! Am 14 dpo today, did another test yesterday and still BFP! But after horrible experience in january, am trying not to get too excited...still, hope this is lucky for everyone else

OracleInaCoracle · 23/06/2008 19:36

thats fab! im sure you will be finethis time, praying for a sticky one x

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mummy2olivia · 23/06/2008 20:17

Hi lissie!!!

have been looking out for you!!!!

Are you ok?? how is life treating you???

QueenyEisGotTheBall · 23/06/2008 20:24

hi can i join in?
i need some persuading to NOT POAS early!! my problem is basically that in the past 3 cycles i have POAS and had BFP and then had an early MC as i hit 5 weeks my GP says it is an implantation defect and has referred me to LWH in liverpool for some further investigation. i am hoping to avoid the disappointment again by not testing until i am past the 5 week mark without AF. but then should i test just in case it is another and needs documenting?? (see i always try to convince myself of a reason why i should test!!) but either way i need a hand to hold (or someone to hold my hands away from the HPTs) as these early BFPs and then speedy MCs is starting to make me
congrats to ceedub on your BFP
xx ei xx

mummy2olivia · 23/06/2008 20:31

EI, you poor thing!!! To have the BFP then taken away.....

Hope you get sorted hun

xx

OracleInaCoracle · 23/06/2008 21:08

mummy2olivia, Im fine thanks, how are you?

ei, i know exactly how you feel. i have to test on CD28 in order to get myself in the system, just in case. however, i often feel that id rather not know. how many dpo are you now?

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mummy2olivia · 23/06/2008 21:18

I'm fine now. have had a bad couple of months though.

After 15 months of TTC finally got a BFP on 14th april.

On 12th May I found out i had had a mmc and ended up being admitted to hospital with heavy bleeding.

only just stopped bleeding and got a negative test

but back to normal now

OracleInaCoracle · 23/06/2008 21:21

oh sweetheart, im so sorry

have you seen a cons?

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mummy2olivia · 23/06/2008 21:26

no- should i have? its 1st mc.

OracleInaCoracle · 23/06/2008 21:28

no, sorry, think i got you confused

anyway, Im really sorry

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mummy2olivia · 23/06/2008 21:34

thanks lissie.

how is ttc for you??

OracleInaCoracle · 23/06/2008 21:41

bit crap tbh. rapidly slowly losing hope, untill CD26 comes round of course! see cons in 2m for results of hysteroscopy and biopsy, in the meantime relax (yeah right) still we go away on friday for a week and have job interview on weds, soits not all bad.

are you ttc at the mo?

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mummy2olivia · 23/06/2008 21:51

oh hun, it does get very soul destroying doesnt it? I remember how I felt at christmas- absolutely wretched.

please keep hope.

I cant talk, after this awful experience of miscarrying at home, haemorraging everywhere and having to fish my baby out the loo I am convinced I'm being punished for something! Just dont know what yet....

OracleInaCoracle · 23/06/2008 22:00

oh sweetheart, it does get easier, i promise. you are not being punished, you have been very unlucky xx

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mummy2olivia · 23/06/2008 22:02

It is shit. never ever realised what women went through when they had a miscarriage. will never forget.

What is the biopsy to check for lissie?

OracleInaCoracle · 24/06/2008 08:34

they found a lesion (irregular tissue) in the uterus

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QueenyEisGotTheBall · 24/06/2008 21:24

sorry to hear about the need for biopsy lissie but hopefully they have found the 'reason' for your MCs! you sound like a very strong person from all the threads i have read and posted on with you on them and i sooo hope you get what you want very soon xx
mummy2olivia sorry to hear about your MC i hope you are starting to feel stronger about things and if not we are here to hold your hand if you need us xx
i am still waiting to ov this month but i am doing my temp every morning by doctors orders to get a better idea of my cycle (even though this is my 4th cycle temping) i know my cycle but the doc wants to double check as my luteal phase appears to change each month from 8 days to 22 days so she said she thinks i am not doing it right (even though the 2 cycles with a long LP were my MC cycles and she is still counting them GPs around my way are useless!!) my LP seems to be about 8/10 days which is quite short apparantly! anywho i will still have a few weeks til i need restraining from the HPTs and i am not holding out much hope for this cycle but well see eh??!!
hope you are all ok
xx ei xx

OracleInaCoracle · 24/06/2008 21:26

lol, i have an erratic lp too! its so frustrating when they wont listen isnt it?

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mummy2olivia · 24/06/2008 21:28

Thank you EI.

Your wedding photos are gorgeous!! yours too lissie!!

love weddings!!!!

OracleInaCoracle · 24/06/2008 21:46
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OracleInaCoracle · 28/06/2008 21:06

well, if my lastw cycles are anything to go by, due to start spotting tomorrow and period due tuesday. still not tested!!! [proud]

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