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Anyone in their TWW?

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ChaE05 · 01/04/2025 11:24

👋 Hey!
Just wondering if anyone is in their TWW and want some company and support? Currently 3dpo after 2 back to back miscarriages. Extremely nervous this time around x

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Playmobil4Eva · 08/04/2025 16:44

Durhamgirlie · 08/04/2025 15:03

I had a chemical in January but it was a completely unexpected pregnancy, we weren’t trying at all and were in the middle of moving house though it made us realise it was definitely what we wanted. In Feb we agreed to try properly but got a BFN so I bought us both the proceive vitamins and the ferti-lily so I was confident this month would be it but now I’m not so sure - we’re both almost 38 and now I’m stressing out that I’m too old 😭😭

Why are our bodies so bloody complicated and temperamental! I’m too impatient for this 😂

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I’m 34- my husband is 29. I just wish I could switch our ages!

Hol1st · 08/04/2025 18:16

Maybe TTC will have to wait for me if I’m not already pregnant.. found out this evening our landlord is selling the house and we have to find somewhere else to live. Got some tests from the shop, but it’s too early for me I think!

Durhamgirlie · 08/04/2025 20:13

@ChaE05 Thanks for that, it’s reassuring to know our chances aren’t much worse than someone younger.

Im going on holiday in May so if no luck by then I’ll try and get a drs appt when I get back. Has anyone here been for a fertility check up before? What sort of things do they ask/check for?

Durhamgirlie · 08/04/2025 20:15

@Hol1st Aw but you know what they say… new house new baby!
It will hopefully all come together at the perfect time!

Hol1st · 08/04/2025 20:21

Durhamgirlie · 08/04/2025 20:15

@Hol1st Aw but you know what they say… new house new baby!
It will hopefully all come together at the perfect time!

You aren’t the first person to say that to me today!
done a test just to see (only 8/9dpo though and not FMU) was BFN obviously 😂

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ChaE05 · 09/04/2025 07:00

BFN again this morning 11dpo...just want period to come now so we can start the cycle again 😣

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Playmobil4Eva · 09/04/2025 07:05

ChaE05 · 09/04/2025 07:00

BFN again this morning 11dpo...just want period to come now so we can start the cycle again 😣

Sorry to hear that. This wait is really difficult.

FigPig · 09/04/2025 08:13

ChaE05 · 09/04/2025 07:00

BFN again this morning 11dpo...just want period to come now so we can start the cycle again 😣

I’m sorry to hear that. It’s so shit, isn’t? Next month is a new start though. A baby to brighten January would be lovely!

Me too re period. Mine hasn’t come yet (due tomorrow) but since we’ve been trying it’s always been early! I should be glad that my luteal phase is lengthening but honestly, just want to reset.

Durhamgirlie · 09/04/2025 08:25

ChaE05 · 09/04/2025 07:00

BFN again this morning 11dpo...just want period to come now so we can start the cycle again 😣

So sorry x

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ChaE05 · 09/04/2025 09:30

FigPig · 09/04/2025 08:13

I’m sorry to hear that. It’s so shit, isn’t? Next month is a new start though. A baby to brighten January would be lovely!

Me too re period. Mine hasn’t come yet (due tomorrow) but since we’ve been trying it’s always been early! I should be glad that my luteal phase is lengthening but honestly, just want to reset.

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Same! I would be due today. I won't be mad if it is tomorrow as that also means my LP is lengthening! God knows I've been taking all the supplements to help it! But at the same time I just want it to hurry up. I don't feel like it's coming though. Very strange x

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ChaE05 · 10/04/2025 07:19

How's everyone doing this morning? Another BFN at 12dpo. And no sign of AF yet. Frustrating. Hope it comes today x

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Playmobil4Eva · 10/04/2025 07:41

ChaE05 · 10/04/2025 07:19

How's everyone doing this morning? Another BFN at 12dpo. And no sign of AF yet. Frustrating. Hope it comes today x

17 DPO and still no period here. Husband said about doing another test but I think that will just compound my misery.

Durhamgirlie · 10/04/2025 07:43

Morning @ChaE05 sorry to hear that.

I did a cheapie this morning and it couldn’t be more negative if it tried 😭😭

Im only 11dpo & it wasn’t an early test but I still feel like there would have been a faint line if there was a chance.

Onto the next month we go 😞 x

Durhamgirlie · 10/04/2025 07:45

Urgh

Anyone in their TWW?
Playmobil4Eva · 10/04/2025 07:47

Durhamgirlie · 10/04/2025 07:45

Urgh

It’s always so disappointing isn’t it? Even when you feel mentally prepared

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ChaE05 · 10/04/2025 07:49

Playmobil4Eva · 10/04/2025 07:41

17 DPO and still no period here. Husband said about doing another test but I think that will just compound my misery.

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When did you last test? I'm out of tests now so no more for me haha x

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ChaE05 · 10/04/2025 07:52

Durhamgirlie · 10/04/2025 07:43

Morning @ChaE05 sorry to hear that.

I did a cheapie this morning and it couldn’t be more negative if it tried 😭😭

Im only 11dpo & it wasn’t an early test but I still feel like there would have been a faint line if there was a chance.

Onto the next month we go 😞 x

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Oh sorry 😒 still not out yet though and as its only a cheapie I guess not as sensitive? If we are out this month atleast we can all go into next month together x

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jelliebean9 · 10/04/2025 07:53

ChaE05 · 10/04/2025 07:19

How's everyone doing this morning? Another BFN at 12dpo. And no sign of AF yet. Frustrating. Hope it comes today x

Same DPO as you, 12. Definitely don’t feel pregnant. Still tested early despite my best efforts of restraint and usually wouldn’t have purchased tests this early. But it’s DH bday today and thought it would be a nice surprise for him. But of course BFN 😩 just want AF to hurry up cos i feel a BFP would show by now 😩

Playmobil4Eva · 10/04/2025 08:00

ChaE05 · 10/04/2025 07:49

When did you last test? I'm out of tests now so no more for me haha x

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Tuesday. I would be testing again if I didn’t have that extended cycle last month.

LucyLou0527 · 10/04/2025 08:29

AF started last night for me🥲

FigPig · 10/04/2025 08:32

AF here for me too. On we go! Nice that we’re all lining up for the next cycle though, maybe we can keep each other company 😊

jelliebean9 · 10/04/2025 09:01

FigPig · 10/04/2025 08:32

AF here for me too. On we go! Nice that we’re all lining up for the next cycle though, maybe we can keep each other company 😊

Least we all have each other on this frustrating journey 🥰 I’ll look out for the May group!

Playmobil4Eva · 10/04/2025 09:05

jelliebean9 · 10/04/2025 09:01

Least we all have each other on this frustrating journey 🥰 I’ll look out for the May group!

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And January babies will be lovely! Cosy days in and lovely brisk walks with a pram!

BlondeMummyto1 · 10/04/2025 09:24

I’m sorry to see AF has arrived for some of you.

I am already on CD5 with ovulation in 9 days.

Couchtattie · 10/04/2025 09:30

Hey 👋 negative test at 9dpo (I think). Period due tomorrow. Sorry to hear AF has arrived. Think mine will too as I’m cramping and feel just the same as I always do before it!