December TTC Support Group (pt2)

[MummyV2021]

Hello! Setting this up to carry on from the previous thread that's now full!

This is a space for those that are:

• TTC in December
• Got a negative in November and are preparing to try again
• We're trying in November and testing in December

All are welcome, fingers crossed for more BFPs!!

@MummyV2021 its good you got seen to, but annoying that they only do so much. Keeping fingers crossed that all is well when you manage to have a scan

Thanks @Sunch 🥰 had my scan this morning and they confirmed it was a complete miscarriage, uterus empty and closed and lining back to normal. Also did another pregnancy test which was negative so confident there isn't a pregnancy hiding somewhere it shouldn't. Whilst it's obviously not the best outcome, it's the best in the circumstances and I can now move on from this rollercoaster cycle! How are things with you?

Very sorry to hear this, but thankfully you are safe and don't have an ectopic x sending you well wishes and again, i am so sorry for your loss xx you are not alone x

@MummyV2021 oh, so sorry you are going through this. My gosh, us women are so strong, honestly this journey that we are on, we literally have to just keep getting back up. I’m glad you’re physically okay but how are you mentally and emotionally?

Im okay, gearing up to go at it again in January. Have had a good break and also been reading up on acupuncture which I think I’m going to give a go. Read lots of good things and worth a shot, at the very least will help with trying not to stress x

@Sunch I'm doing ok! I'm ok emotionally about the CP, had my cry and know deep down it was never going to be viable so try not to dwell, as clinical as that sounds. I know I'm definitely a little fragile mentally as had 2 early losses before my little boy and that hit me hard anxiety wise and massively impacted my entire pregnancy. I now have the added fear that I'm going to keep having CPs because of my age and the quality of my eggs so I need to step back from tests - both pregnancy and ovulation. Going to just go with the flow these next few cycles and listen to my body. My cycles will probably be all over the place anyway so no idea when I might ovulate or have my next period!

Sounds like you have a good plan in place. My friend who did IVF was recommended acupuncture so it's definitely a thing! It definitely can't hurt to try things that might help things along! Really hope this cycle brings you a BFP 🥰 xx

@MummyV2021 aaaaawww I’m sorry that you went through the CPs and it’s okay to feel how you’re feeling.
I agree sometimes it can get overwhelming and trigger anxiety so removing yourself from testing may free you mentally. Our babies are on their way - let’s hold on to that. Your mental health is of upmost importance - take care of that and everything else will fall into place. Wishing you a fabulous new year x

Hi ladies! ✨✨✨
I have 1 boy (9)
OH has 2 boys (9&13)
Planning for one together ❤️

CD 9

1DPO (1st + today!)

We are like 🐇 regardless of trying, always have been, catching the fertile window won’t be a problem 😂

Back to the TWW 🙃💃

Getting pregnant seems to be taking forever! 🫠

Anyone experiencing the same thing https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/conception/5248274-supplements-messing-up-cycle