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4dpo need company for the dreaded tww

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bbymama12 · 15/10/2024 13:43

Anyone else symptom spotting like crazy and wondering when’s the earliest I can test !! 😭

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MrBigsCat · 19/10/2024 20:22

I’m out I’ve started spotting
@bbymama12 that last test looked convincing- there’s still hope you are still early 🤞🏻🤞🏻

bbymama12 · 20/10/2024 10:29

9dpo Bfn. I know it's still early but thought I'd get some hint of a line. Feeling sad and have a gut feeling I'm out this month. I'm not going to test again now, iv got all my usual AF symptoms, which I know are similar to pregnancy but you know when you just know it's AF symptoms.
Feel so demotivated as dtd every day in the fertile window and even a day After ovulation.
With my other two pregnancies I got pregnant within 2 months both times so I guess I was naive thinking the same thing would happen again. I was 24 and 27 for those too, I'm now 31. Baby dust to you all hoping we all get our bfps xx

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Reyttc · 20/10/2024 11:10

I’m out too. Negative this morning and I’m pretty sure AF is going to start.

Hope you all get your BFP soon xx

1woodpecker · 21/10/2024 08:20

I’m either 6 or 7DPO and had a temperature dip today, but I know implantation dips only mean a slightly higher probability and could be nothing!

1woodpecker · 21/10/2024 10:06

Does anyone find it impossible to not spend ages analysing each test to see if there’s any hint of line? It seems so unhealthy but so hard to not do! I’ve had slight shadows on easy at home tests before that never turned into anything so seems a bad idea to even look 🙈

Lovelesslily · 21/10/2024 10:36

1woodpecker · 21/10/2024 10:06

Does anyone find it impossible to not spend ages analysing each test to see if there’s any hint of line? It seems so unhealthy but so hard to not do! I’ve had slight shadows on easy at home tests before that never turned into anything so seems a bad idea to even look 🙈

I do this every time 🤦‍♀️ Squinting, torch, held up to light.... I know it's pointless but it helps me pass the time!

I'm now 6DPO following a chemical last cycle. Got lower back ache and some weird abdominal feelings that I wouldn't quite call cramp but not sure how I'd describe them. Also noticed very sore boobs since literally 2DPO which is early for me but I have read that following a chemical hormones can act differently and so different symptoms 🤷‍♀️

Keep waiting to see if I "feel" implantation as last time I think I definitely did - closest I can describe is like when you get something pierced- a short sharp yet distinctive shock on the inside. That was followed by a tiny amount of pink/brown "snot like" (sorry!) discharge. Last cycle this was 11DPO which is why I think it led to a chemical, simply too late implanation.

Baby dust for everyone waiting this cycle 🤞

S95 · 21/10/2024 11:09

@MrBigsCat im the same as you 7dpo and keep testing , negative it’s so early 🤣🤣 cramping like mad and lots of discharge, fingers crossed for us all!

LuckyDuck93 · 21/10/2024 11:33

I'm 9DPO today and still managing to hold off testing..i'm going with the "if I don't know, I can't be disappointed" mindset 😂
Although I also have absolutely no symptoms whatsoever any more, so I'm not holding out much hope.
Fingers crossed for you all x

bbymama12 · 21/10/2024 13:09

@1woodpecker @Lovelesslily
I think I've found my people haha, the torch on my phone omggg. I'm 10dpo today tested neg again even though I said yesterday I wouldn't test again Grin
I can clearly see it's a BFN but I'm stood by the window with the torch on my phone staring at it. Taking pictures of it editing it and trying to convince myself I see something. It's actually really draining I wish I could stop!!!!

Has anyone gone on to get BFP after a bfn at 10dpo. I honestly cannot remember going on like this my last two pregnancies

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bbymama12 · 21/10/2024 13:11

@LuckyDuck93 you're stronger than me!! 10dpo and did like 3 tests already this cycle. Soo annoying. Well done for holding out though!! Ive got sore boobs and that's about it, which I always get around a week before my period is due soo probably not a sign. Baby dust 🤞🏽💫🤞🏽💫

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bbymama12 · 21/10/2024 13:12

@Reyttc aww I'm sorry, on to the next cycle, I think il be joining you very soon!

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S4mmyj90 · 21/10/2024 13:18

I'm just starting my 2ww. Fingers crossed for everyone x

blackberryhill · 21/10/2024 14:02

bbymama12 · 21/10/2024 13:09

@1woodpecker @Lovelesslily
I think I've found my people haha, the torch on my phone omggg. I'm 10dpo today tested neg again even though I said yesterday I wouldn't test again Grin
I can clearly see it's a BFN but I'm stood by the window with the torch on my phone staring at it. Taking pictures of it editing it and trying to convince myself I see something. It's actually really draining I wish I could stop!!!!

Has anyone gone on to get BFP after a bfn at 10dpo. I honestly cannot remember going on like this my last two pregnancies

Yes, I got my BPF first time round at 11DPO after a negative at 10DPO.

That said...think I'm out this cycle, resting heart rate is super low and this morning's test was negative. I'm on progesterone supplementation so my period likely won't start until I stop them, think I'll take tonight's, test tomorrow morning and then stop if that's negative.

bbymama12 · 21/10/2024 16:21

@S4mmyj90 good luck hopefully the tww flies by for you! 💫

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bbymama12 · 21/10/2024 16:32

@blackberryhill what dpo are you?
Ah okay, that's somewhat reassuring but I just feel like I'm out, really sad as literally dtd every day of the fertile week and the day after ovulation, safe to say I was exhausted haha

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1woodpecker · 22/10/2024 06:55

bbymama12 · 21/10/2024 13:09

@1woodpecker @Lovelesslily
I think I've found my people haha, the torch on my phone omggg. I'm 10dpo today tested neg again even though I said yesterday I wouldn't test again Grin
I can clearly see it's a BFN but I'm stood by the window with the torch on my phone staring at it. Taking pictures of it editing it and trying to convince myself I see something. It's actually really draining I wish I could stop!!!!

Has anyone gone on to get BFP after a bfn at 10dpo. I honestly cannot remember going on like this my last two pregnancies

@Lovelesslily @bbymama12 haha yes that’s me too. Ita obsessive! The thing is I’m convinced I do regularly see a slight shadow but it must be my imagination as never turns into anything more.

bbymama12 · 22/10/2024 09:41

11dpp today held out and didn't test this morning. realised iv been not been using the early detection tests. I might pick one up today if I get the chance and do it tomorrow morning. Or do I just wait and see if AF comes😭🤦🏽‍♀️

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LuckyDuck93 · 22/10/2024 13:23

@bbymama12 well done for not testing this am!
I'm not sure whether its worse testing or not, I feel like i'm just avoiding testing because I don't think it's worked, which is fairly miserable, but then, I also don't want to confirm it hasn't worked either.. gosh it really does mess with your head doesn't it!

bbymama12 · 22/10/2024 15:09

@LuckyDuck93 thank you!! I'm gonna butchery detection possibly clear blue today if I can and test tomorrow morning I'll be 12dpo

Have you tested yet? Or do you know when you're going to.

Just want this cycle over with now x

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bbymama12 · 22/10/2024 15:09

@LuckyDuck93 excuse the auto correct 😂 I meant I'm gonna get clear blue early detection test 😂😂

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LuckyDuck93 · 22/10/2024 15:35

@bbymama12 😂
That's a good plan, think I will test Friday, i'll be 13 DPO then & AF due Saturday so shouldn't be much second guessing

bbymama12 · 23/10/2024 21:24

@LuckyDuck93
I think im 13dpo tomorrow.. my period is due on Saturday. Didn't test today!! Proud of myself haha xx

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1woodpecker · 24/10/2024 07:05

I’ve tested a couple of times this week but bfn. But think im 9dpo today so a bit early 🙈 had some cramps when i woke up today, but hard to know what’s possibly implantation or just wind or something 😂 it did feel like a short period cramp though

bbymama12 · 24/10/2024 10:10

@1woodpecker Awww I'd give it maybe 3 days? And test again?
Easier said than done I know!

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bbymama12 · 24/10/2024 10:11

AF is due in 2/3 days I believe
Tested fmu today and a very big FAT negative
Think I'm defo out
On to cycle 3 I go x :(

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