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TTC May '24

195 replies

ButItHasCheese · 03/05/2024 02:33

Thought I'd start one for people TTC in May - fingers crossed for lots of BFPs!

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GoldieMam · 17/05/2024 11:12

Sorry to hear of the negatives/AF arrivals 😫 hope you all have nice weekend plans and fingers crossed for next month.

I’m super confused by my BBT chart so far this month, anyone got any advice? Does it look like ovulation is today?! It’s predicted on 22nd so not sure what to make of it!

TTC May '24
jt130593 · 17/05/2024 11:36

@RhubarbCrumble12345 sorry to hear your out as well!
Onto the next month 😮‍💨

Dereksscrubcap · 17/05/2024 21:18

I'm out too :( AF arrived on Tuesday. Feeling very deflated

ButItHasCheese · 17/05/2024 23:45

Hi all, sorry to hear about all the BFNs :(

I think I ovulated yesterday, so on to the TWW for me now

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jt130593 · 18/05/2024 08:20

@ButItHasCheese sorry you were out as well! None of us had much luck this month did we 😔

I got my peak today which is the earliest it’s ever been 🤷‍♀️ no clue what’s going on with my body but onto month 2 I suppose

Happysoul111 · 19/05/2024 18:01

Hi, my mind is going crazy as usual during the 2ww, sending love to everyone going through the same! I am due my period around tomorrow or next couple of days and the past 4 days I have had terrible cramping and spotting, and one particular day quite heavy red spotting. But I'm so confused, I have taken an premom ovulation test yesterday just to see what my levels are like and yesterday it was 0.29 but today my lh level is 0.49. Is this normal for this to rise before period? Currently going through fertility appointments as we have been trying for a year. If anyone could offer any thoughts on a risen LH before period I would be interested to hear. Sorry for long post

coffeeislove · 22/05/2024 10:03

Hi everyone, I've been lurking and reading for a little while and just wanted to share my experience in the hope that it might help someone, as I know I had so many questions about symptoms etc!

Me and my partner stopped being careful from January this year but weren't actively trying and were using the pull out method as I had a work trip to America in April that would be quite boozy (once in a lifetime, paid for, etc) then decided we would try properly once I got back

Once we started trying, I'd read somewhere that Brazil nuts and pineapple core could help with implantation and I started taking folic acid and vitamin D. I've been eating 3 Brazil nuts a day since the beginning of my last cycle

AF was due on Saturday the 18th but I have had a bit of fluctuation in the past 6 months with my period coming a few days earlier or later, so I thought nothing of it but I do normally have spotting at least 2/3 days before I come on. My boyfriend had also said I taste different down there (sorry, TMI) and he was convinced I was pregnant a couple of weeks before.

Had every symptom I could think of that AF was gonna come, quite bad cramps, back pain, nausea, low cervix, but I was also incredibly emotional (I don't cry much and I've cried more over the past few weeks than I have in a year) and a bit snappy which I'm not normally

Tested on Monday night with a cheap strip Tesco test, faint positive, tested again last night with another Tesco one but the midstream one, another faint positive, tested this morning with FMU with a digital clear blue and it was positive 2-3 weeks pregnant!

I have NO idea if it was the nuts or the pineapple that did the trick or if we got lucky, but fingers crossed things go well 🤞🏻 we've also decided not to tell anyone yet because I'm a bit of a worrier, so I needed to get it off my chest 😂

Irish812 · 22/05/2024 10:26

@coffeeislove aw huge congratulations so so nice to see some positive news this month on the thread. And thanks for sharing the tips I'll be sure to try those post O day. I've taken a step back this month (cycle #5) as it was getting too much. I'm only CD7 so will try dtd every other day starting today. Best of luck and fx for a happy and healthy pregnancy x

AmyM87 · 22/05/2024 10:50

Hey there everyone! First time posting on Mumsnet. TTC for #1 - this is the first cycle we've tried after a MMC in February. I'm 36 about to turn 37 later in the year, so definitely anxious! I had some cramping at 7DPO which went away, and I am now 11DPO with my period due tomorrow. My tests today and yesterday are both BFN so I'm more than likely out, but still holding on to hope!

coffeeislove · 22/05/2024 10:57

Irish812 · 22/05/2024 10:26

@coffeeislove aw huge congratulations so so nice to see some positive news this month on the thread. And thanks for sharing the tips I'll be sure to try those post O day. I've taken a step back this month (cycle #5) as it was getting too much. I'm only CD7 so will try dtd every other day starting today. Best of luck and fx for a happy and healthy pregnancy x

Thank you so much ❤️ to be honest, my partner had a bit of trouble feeling pressure so I was so sure we were out because based on my predicted O using Flo we didn't DTD for 3 days over that time. Fingers crossed it happens for you this cycle!

Thismonthplease · 22/05/2024 16:53

Positive test this morning 🫢

Can’t believe it worked! Nearly six months of trying but we have got there today and are delighted. Sorry to hear that others haven’t been so lucky this month but there is always hope. God knows if our changes this month did the trick or if it was just random…

bsummer · 22/05/2024 18:17

Hope it's ok to join.
I had a late miscarriage with my 3rd baby at 17 weeks in November.
Trying to convince again since beginning of the year and having no luck😮‍💨 convinced all other 3 pregnancies first time and getting very stressed now !!
Currently 6dpo and feeling crampy already so not very hopeful again this month😩

retrievermum · 22/05/2024 20:26

@bsummer welcome! I’m also 6DPO, been sick all last night and this morning which my husband optimistically declared morning sickness…more like a stomach bug as DD has been sick too!

Feel like even if something did happen this month, no way would it survive how ill I’ve been so counting myself out before I’ve even counted myself in really

Laurenx1x1 · 22/05/2024 20:39

hey everyone,

just jumping on. First month TTC after copper coil removal.. my period came a week early!! So I was so positive thinking it was implantation.. nope it wasn’t 😤😤 negative and 14dpo.. I stressed myself out testing a lot so I need to relax. My first happened in one night! Second took five months.. here’s to cycle 2 CD5.. we should have a WhatsApp or something for June TTC.. we can support each other ♥️♥️

Lisa3192 · 22/05/2024 21:09

Hi everyone! I have two kids now #TTC3!
I am on the second month of trying. I am 2 dpo today!! Feeling positive this month!

Hevalla · 22/05/2024 22:26

@Lisa3192

I’m also 2dpo. Fingers crossed.

BeWhereYouAre · 22/05/2024 22:46

17th month of TTC with no luck so far (still waiting for our NHS fertility referral appointment to come through) but currently on Day 26 of cycle when it tends to fluctuate between 21-28 days. So at least it's getting closer to being potentially overdue, lol. Not felt any cramps just yet of impending AF.... hope feels too luxurious sometimes, but I'm letting myself wonder 'what if'... Good luck to everyone in the limbo 😊

Hevalla · 24/05/2024 16:13

4dpo. TTW is reeeeally dragging this time.

retrievermum · 24/05/2024 20:44

8DPO here and had quite a bit of brown spotting today. Hoping for it to be implantation bleeding but feels very period-y, so wondering if AF is going to show early

Hevalla · 25/05/2024 02:00

@retrievermum from the stuff I’ve read 8dpo is average implantation day. So could be a good sign. Does AF come early often for you? If not another point toward implementation bleeding. Fingers crossed for you.

ButItHasCheese · 25/05/2024 03:13

@retrievermum I'm 8DPO and had some cramping (no bleeding though, but I don't think that's uncommon)
Fingers crossed it turns into a BFP

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retrievermum · 25/05/2024 07:26

@Hevalla I’m not sure! I’m still breastfeeding DD so my cycles are all over the place. Luteal phase is usually 13 days and according to my app the shortest it’s been has been 11 days (including before I had DD so fingers crossed!)

retrievermum · 25/05/2024 07:27

@ButItHasCheese when are you thinking of testing? I didn’t have any implantation bleeding when I was pregnant with DD so I think it’s just chance whether you get it or not!

ButItHasCheese · 25/05/2024 07:32

@retrievermum I'm going to hold out for Monday I think... if it's a BFN then at least I'll have the manic week to distract me. Also my birthday later in the week, so don't want the BFN on the actual day

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retrievermum · 25/05/2024 08:09

@ButItHasCheese that sounds like a good idea! Got all of my fingers crossed for you! I’m going for Tuesday I think (at a wedding on Monday). Had to have a wee as soon as I woke up this morning to avoid temptation!

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