Ttc may 2024

[TicklishDreamer]

I have searched and can’t find a thread for anyone who’s Ttc this month!
I’ll be onto month 4 since I had a mmc of trying to conceive! I won’t lie when AF showed yesterday I had a full blown meltdown about it and felt like I would never get pregnant when in reality 3 months really isn’t that long!
I am very lucky to already have 2 wonderful little boys age 7 &3 but really would like a 3rd to make out family complete!

Absolutely LOVE this idea. I might have to try this 😊 thank you for this lovely idea!

Keep everything crossed!

Hope I can join you all! Moved over from April TTC page. AF supposedly due tomorrow. Got cramps so feel it’s imminent! Sending you all lots of luck for this month 🤞🏻 and hope it’s all our month. It’s so devastating each month, I definitely want to treat myself to something each month when AF shows to cheer myself up!

@Shellbells44 welcome! Have you tested negative or just know AF is coming?

Too scared to test after 18/19 months of trying. Just feel it coming! Hope you’re lovely and relaxed after a holiday and that means a good outcome for you!

How's everyone feeling today? I woke up at 5am last night with intense period cramps (even though I'm on day 8 now and my period has ended 🤔). My body is acting so strange since my miscarriage 🥲

Period is here and waiting for it to finish, I’m super nervous about ttc. I feel like I could do with loosing 10kg first but then it’s putting it on hold even longer. I feel a bit conflicted about ttc (then over think if it’s what I really want)

@Bb542 my period just ended so we are getting ready for ovulation week 🤣 this part goes really fast it’s the TWW that’s drags

@Georgethecat1 im so sorry you feel so conflicted it must be awful to just not know 😞

I haven't tracked ovulation this month but typically pre MC I'd get a surge today so I tested (as I have no willpower) and it was quite faint. Given my cycles are around 2 days shorter and EWCM has dropped the last day or two I reckon I might have ovulated a day or two early. Not going to test again but will have sex tomorrow just in case I get a surge then instead!

Still going to consider today ovulation day as it's my due date for the baby I lost I'm October, and it seems to be potentially the most likely (surge could have happened yesterday)

@Georgethecat1 ❤️ I know how you feel... all sorts of emotions going through you. I think just go for it girl. Xx

@TicklishDreamer sounds like we're on similar days of our cycles. I totally agree, this part does so quickly and the TWW is hell 🙈

@ThelastRolo20 sending you lots of baby dust 🩷

I've got to say my periods are still pretty regular after my MMC but they are heavier and more painful. Just want to get this round of AF out of the way asap, plus the previous due date and get on with another try. Guess we all feel somewhat frustrated by it at times.

@ThelastRolo20 oooo your entering the TWw then! 🙈
@Bb542 how long are your cycles! I’m lucky I have relatively short cycles of 25 days so I ovulate around day 11 usually!

@Objectiontime my periods became lighter post mmc! It is so frustrating trying to get pregnant I hate it! No more babies for me after this one!

@TicklishDreamer I am! First one since December due to taking a 3 month break 😬 I'm going to try and not test until AF is due (11th May)...will see how long that lasts...

I’m 6dpo and starting to get some twinges and some cramps? On the other note we sold our house making us one step closer to our dream home. I’m so anxious how will we handle ttc and building a house, I’m really hoping this doesn’t postpone ttc as I’m desperate to be pregnant again.
Also do any of you wish for twins? I don’t know why but I totally see us with twins.

@emmatcc1 congratulations on the house sale! All I'd say is don't worry about problems before they even happen (in the sense that you'll figure it out once you conceive!).

I absolutely do not wish for twins 😂 2 is plenty of children for me, not sure I could cope with 3!

I keep thinking I'm destined for twins and have no idea why 🤣 they don't run in our family and I know it would be so hard especially having a toddler already but somehow I'd like them anyway!

@emmatcc1 my eldest wants us to have twins he’s obsessed with the idea of twin brothers I have no idea why! 🤣

congrualations on the house! Don’t worry about the move and Ttc I’m sure it will all work out fine!!

@ThelastRolo20 I actually want 3-4 if given the chance and if not then at least two. I feel like every kid needs a sibling.
@TicklishDreamer I think kids just love babies, I remember being that way when my mum was pregnant.
@jellyfish2 That’s exactly how I feel. Also no twins in our family and I didn’t feel that was last pregnancy but something just clicked in my head and now I want twins. My partner on the other hand is very much against it. My SIL has three kids and he always says there’s no way he could handle multiples.

@emmatcc1 my partner is the same. What will be will be! I've always said I'd like 3 but after the MC I'd be happy to just have one more.

My cycles are usually 28 days but since the miscarriage I've had 2 cycles and they've been 30-35 days 😫 I normally ovulate around day 16/17 but it'll probably be day 19/20 this time 🤨 sounds like you're going to ovulate sooon 😍😍 sending lots of baby dust 🩷

@Bb542 oh that sucks that they’ve got longer hopefully they sort themselves out and go back to normal soon! I’ve always had short cycles I’m lucky my miscarriage didn’t change that!

I will be entering my fertile window next few days which is exhausting 🤣

It's so exhausting 😅 I remember the month we got pregnant we were so exhausted but had to keep going 😂 good luck to you 🤣

@Bb542 with my second it took us 6 months to fall pregnant and we didn’t touch each other for about a month just enjoyed going to sleep with no pressure 🤣

Lasted the weekend with no Af, still have a feeling in lower abdomen but didn't arrive..have lots tests ordered from.boots and there usually fast on delivery so will see what happens when they arrive unless....
but this isn't normal for me so will see....but can't say i've any symptoms.....
But fingers crossed......anyone else testing?
See the April thread is abandoned....

Really struggling here, my partner has been having unbearable abdominal pain for two days now and all tests and scans are clear. I’m really anxious for his health, don’t know what to do since no pain meds are helping.