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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Ttc may 2024

434 replies

TicklishDreamer · 25/04/2024 13:42

I have searched and can’t find a thread for anyone who’s Ttc this month!
I’ll be onto month 4 since I had a mmc of trying to conceive! I won’t lie when AF showed yesterday I had a full blown meltdown about it and felt like I would never get pregnant when in reality 3 months really isn’t that long!
I am very lucky to already have 2 wonderful little boys age 7 &3 but really would like a 3rd to make out family complete!

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CatLady1994 · 14/05/2024 20:34

Ok I clearly have no impulse control and decided to do a digital test this evening... Grin

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TicklishDreamer · 14/05/2024 20:36

@CatLady1994 massive congratulations!! Hope the next 9months go very smoothly for you! What symptoms did you have? 🙈

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jellyfish2 · 14/05/2024 20:40

@CatLady1994 congratulations!! 💕

soymilknosugar · 14/05/2024 20:40

@TicklishDreamer start as you mean to go on! AF due next Weds for me - this is going to be a looong week

@CatLady1994 yay huge congrats!! Lovely news

CatLady1994 · 14/05/2024 20:56

Thanks all! Now just need to keep fingers and toes crossed it sticks!

@TicklishDreamer Symptoms so far are bloating and tender boobs! Had a bit of mild cramping yesterday as well.

Bb542 · 14/05/2024 22:03

CatLady1994 · 14/05/2024 20:34

Ok I clearly have no impulse control and decided to do a digital test this evening... Grin

Awww huge congrats @CatLady1994 🩷 so happy for you!

I'm going to test again in the morning at 9dpo but expecting it to be negative 🙈 I don't know how people hold off testing... I need to test every day so I know and don't like off hope 🤣

emmatcc1 · 14/05/2024 22:36

@T0r11210 It looks like you have different temperatures logged in on cd13. Not sure how to explain but on ff its 36.4 and on cd16 your temp dipped below that and technically post ovulation temps shouldn’t be lower than pre ovulation temps that’s why it moved the date.

Bb542 · 15/05/2024 06:04

9dpo and BFN. Think I'm out this month.

TicklishDreamer · 15/05/2024 07:31

@Bb542 sorry it’s negative again! But you could implant late so you never know! I never test positive till after AF due (one of the reasons I don’t test early)

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emmatcc1 · 15/05/2024 11:23

Not sure what’s going on, my LH is consistently higher than usual and so is my bbt. Opks are always below 0.15 when not ovulating and bbt is at 36.3. Cervix is closed and lots of watery cm.

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KittyFantastica · 15/05/2024 11:52

Hi all, I got a smart watch recently and though we're not technically tracking this month, I thought I'd try temping to get my head around it and see if I actually ovulate this month. My cycle was really thrown off by the D&C.

Is it me, or does my temperature generally look really low? I've seen other people's charts be mostly in the 36 degree range. I don't have any thyroid issues or anything. I don't think I've ovulated yet, I've had no signs. Will be interesting to see what happens in the next 2-4 days.

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T0r11210 · 15/05/2024 13:14

emmatcc1 · 14/05/2024 22:36

@T0r11210 It looks like you have different temperatures logged in on cd13. Not sure how to explain but on ff its 36.4 and on cd16 your temp dipped below that and technically post ovulation temps shouldn’t be lower than pre ovulation temps that’s why it moved the date.

Ah thank you, I’d copied it over from FF and hadn’t recorded that one correctly. Now all sorted but still showing CD 16 on FF (dotted crosshair) and CD 14 on Femometer. Which day would you say I ovulated on? If at all?

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emmatcc1 · 15/05/2024 13:20

@T0r11210 I would say you ovulated cd14 judging from the big dip.

TicklishDreamer · 16/05/2024 16:04

How is everyone feeling today!

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Marshmallow99 · 16/05/2024 17:03

Hi Guys, I would love to join you all while I am in my TWW. So lovely to see a BFP already in this forum, congratulations!

I am 33, trying for my first baby. We have been TTC for about a year now, we have had a few tests at the doctors and all looking fine so I guess its a matter of time, they are going to look at a few other tests they can do just to be sure all is OK.

I wanted to ask.. Do you think focusing on DTD everyday in the fertile week is enough or should we be DTD through out the whole month?

I travelled to the US recently and bought Mucinex so giving that a go this month, I see lots about it on TikTok! x

soymilknosugar · 16/05/2024 17:14

@TicklishDreamer less and less optimistic but trotting on! How about you?

welcome and good luck @Marshmallow99

TicklishDreamer · 16/05/2024 17:15

@Marshmallow99 welcome!!
I DTD every other day from when my period ends till I’m sure fertile window is over! I don’t use OPKs though I just rely on egg white Cm & my body signals! I find any amount of testing or trying to DTD everyday far too stressful!

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Bb542 · 16/05/2024 17:36

I'm 10dpo and testing negative so I'm pretty sure I'm out. Going to stop testing now and wait for AF. Feeling sad 😣 how's everyone?

TicklishDreamer · 16/05/2024 17:38

@Bb542 also 10DPO starting to get the itch to test though but I’m going to hold out till at least the weekend
have no real symptoms to be honest so think I’m out too!

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Marshmallow99 · 16/05/2024 18:11

@soymilknosugar thank you 😊

@TicklishDreamer I’ve been using the clear blue ovulation test and waiting for that smiley face does stress me out 😂

10DPO you are so close, fingers crossed for you. The past few months I’ve tested early and spent so much on tests, I’m determined to wait until after AF is due this month.. I need to work on my will power! I am only 5DPO so I feel like I have a longgg wait ahead of me.

TicklishDreamer · 16/05/2024 18:24

@Marshmallow99 i am so close I’m determined not to test until
Monday when I’m due on even then I might wait till Tuesday if I can!
those early days of the TWW are the worst I just feel like your wishing your life away 🤣

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CSmith1 · 16/05/2024 18:36

Hi folks! So glad I've found this thread. I'm currently on my 2nd cycle of clomid, currently 6dpo so every twinge I feel my mind goes into overdrive and I think is implementation cramps!! Likely not as I had the exact same last month and didn't conceive.
I know it's a bit early but will start testing at 8dpo. Does anyone else struggle with sleep when it's test day? I wake up sooo early with excitement/nerves.
Sending luck to all this month and congratulations to those who have been lucky ☘️🤍

Marshmallow99 · 16/05/2024 19:15

@CSmith1 that happens to me too 😂 I have dreams of testing then I’ll wake up in the middle of the night to do one. I also over analyse every twinge I get, I tell myself every month not to get excited but I can’t help but hold on to the hope 🤞. Fingers crossed we all get our BFPs very soon 🤍

@TicklishDreamer You’ve got this 💪 xx

Currentlykittymom · 16/05/2024 21:09

Hi hope it’s okay to join, it’s just been my first TTC month and period hit today feeling pretty low. I know it’s unlikely first try but you’re always optimistic. Still a bit hit and miss on the acronyms if someone could do a break down for me 🫣 also I am 28f and this will be first hopeful pregnancy!

emmatcc1 · 16/05/2024 22:51

@Currentlykittymom Welcome!! Are you tracking ovulation or just guessing? My first mistake was not tracking and we completely missed ovulation.
You’ll catch on to acronyms quickly.
DTD-do the deed
OPK-ovulation prediction kit
BBT-basal body temperature
EWCM-egg white cervical mucus
FMU-first morning urine
AF-aunt flow (period)
BFP/BFN - big fat positive/negative
DH- dear husband
CD- cycle day
LH- luteinizing hormone
DPO- days past ovulation
TWW- two week wait
CM- cervical mucus
POAS- pee on a stick
MC- miscarriage
MMC- missed miscarriage
Can’t remember more but I’m sure I missed some.