TTC WAITING ROOM OPEN FOR BUISNESS!!! over heeeerrrreeee ladies[grin]

[EiWishFor3MoreWishes]

hi ladies
i hope nobody pipped me to the post on creating a brand spanking new thread
let try our best to have a full head count of BFPs this thread
theres a big table full of cakes and biccies and a pot of tea ready for the taking help yourselves and get comfy in the layzee boy recliners i have shifted over from our last thread
il go and get the list wont be long
xx ei xx

Time for a name change because someone had a very similar name to me.
Thanks for updating Eleveld

Oufton CD2 Cycle 5 TTC#1
LittleSquirt CD3 cycle 3 TTC#1 (MMC July 07)
MollieMooma CD6 Cycle 3 TTC#1 (m/mc Jan 07)
PicknMix CD6 Cycle 10 TTC#1 (mc Jan '07)
Madoldbird CD8 Cycle 10 TTC#3
SparklyGirlFriday CD10 Cycle 7 TTC#2
Moonlit CD11 Cycle 18 TTC#2
ClairePO CD11 Cycle 8 TTC#1 (mc Sept 07)
Caspercat CD12 cycle7 TTC2
shayerahol CD12 cycle 2 TTC1
jaamy CD19 cycle 9 TTC#3 (CP Mar 08)
Fruitloop79 CD18 cycle 4(8 months) TTC#2
beaniesteve CD20 Cycle 7 TTC#1
JosieJellybean CD22 Cycle3 TTC#2
Eleveld CD23 Cycle 4 TTC #1
toytownmum CD24 Cycle 10 TTC#3
McDreamy CD24 Cycle 10 TTC no 3
tinkerbellbringingsexyback cd25 cycle 2 tt#2
Glastochick CD25 Cycle 7 TTC #1
Treats CD26 cycle 6 TTC#1
Babychicken CD26 Cycle 6 TTC#1
JollyBear CD27 Cycle 5 TTC#1
LuckyT CD29 cycle 4 TTC 2
lou2311 CD33 cycle 9 TTC#1
Mentalpup CD37 cycle 3 TTC#2
xxhunnyxx CD37 cycle 5 TTC#1 (MC Dec 05)
kate3677 CD37 cycle4 TTC#2 (MC sept 07 & nov 07)
Tantik CD37 Cycle 5 TTC#2
EiWishFor3MoreWishes CD39 cycle 5 TTC#2
blackrock CD50 Cycle 7 TTC#2
Anniemac CD51 Cycle 16 TTC~2
Loveverona CD53 Cycle 2 TTC#3 (mc nov07)
Incognito CD61 Cycle? TTC#2
Sandiesx CD61 Cycle 5 TTC#4 (mmc Oct 07)
Grinningbee CD72 Cycle 3 TTC #1 (MMC Oct 07)
bigfatmom CD73 Cycle 7 TTC#2
Barrelrider CD76 Cycle 4 TTC#2
HattyYellow CD87 Cycle 5 TTC#3
blondieminx CD102 cycle 1 TTC#1
Teeheelady CD110 Cycle 3 TTC#1 (mc Oct07)
MummyAnnabella CD109 Cycle 1 TTC#2
dressedupandnowheretogo CD112 cycle 1 TTC#2
scully waiting af

TTC GRADUATE LIST* (we WILL be on it)

Emmsy1 BFP 13 Feb (CD19 M/C3 Cycle 18 TTC#5)
Neveronamonday BFP 19 Feb (CD31 Cycle 3 TTC #2) CP Jan 08
BabyFever BFP 16 Feb (CD 29? Cycle 1 after m/c TTC #1)
Nursey07 BFP Feb 18th (CD38 cycle 24 TTC#1)
Cricri BFP 1 March (CD36 Cycle 5 after mmc TTC#1)
Piper BFP 18th March (CD32 Cycle 36 TTc#1)
Mibbes BFP 26th March (CD34 Cycle 4 TTC#1)
BrightShinySun BFP 26th March (CD34 Cycle1 TTC#2)
1littleprincess BFP 2nd April (CD36 Cycle 2 TTC#2)
LobstersLass BFP 2nd April (CD27 Cycle 4 TTC#1)

Morning all, can't say I feel any cheerier today but we've resolved to go for the every other night sex throughout the whole of the cycle in an attempt to "relax" about TTC. Honestly as if that's even possible!

Glad to hear you had plenty of sushi LittleSquirt, I reckon you should just keep going for it, your next chance will be Jan 2009!

Scully hope you're having a better day.

Hello to everyone else Jaamy, ei, Lou and Sparkly and anyone else who's around. I love all the support on this board.
x

Need a moan and winge.
On the way to work this morning my boyfriend suggested that if I am not pregnant this cycle we could have a rest for a couple of months. So I asked if he meant we would start using protection for a while and he said no. I don't think he understands that if we are having unprotected sex then there's no way I will just forget about hoping for a baby .

I'm not sure why he's suggested it. I mean he is as keen as me to have kids. I am 6 years older than him and I feel like I am running out of time so I just want to keep trying.

I just bought a CBFM and he is thinking about having a rest!

Poor beanie that's a rather bizarre attitude! It's like when people tell you to relax whilst trying to conceive - how on earth is that possible? Unless I was solid drunk for a month I'd be thinking about it because it's impossible not to when it's your own body. Unprotected sex means you're trying as far as I'm concerned!

Is he perhaps feeling a little hard done by on the sperm bank front (as in feeling like one)?

I dunno - we were generally chatting about our sex life and I said I was worried that we were going for it hell for leather while I was ovulating, but we don't seem to make the effort that much the rest of the time and I thought we needed to. Thing is it's me who's been too tired all this week, and I mean absolutely knackered. I fall asleep straight away at night which is quite unusual for me.

Anyway - we've decided on an early night tonight after some nice food.

Part of his justification was that we're going on holiday in early June, then Glastonbury and he said I would be able to have a better time if I wasn't stressing about TTC. I think his heart is in the right place but I don't want to give up

I know what you mean, we're in much the same boat, making huge efforts around ovulation and then being too tired the rest of the time. I'm instigating an every other night this month to try and get us into the routine!

tbh I think the holiday and glasto are perfect times to be ttc because you'll not be worrying about normal day to day stuff that's going on and just having a good time so it would be crazy to stop now. It's sweet that he's thinking about you though, perhaps he's just worried that it's stressing you too much bless him.

beanie - yes, perhaps DP is just trying to take some pressure off you. Bless them, men don't understand the way we can't turn off the part of our brain that builds us up every month to that much sort after BFP.

Scully - glad you are having a nice relaxing day. I agree - don't know what I'd do without my little monkeys

Oufton - here's hoping that you'll be so busy BDing that your BFP will creep up on oyu wihtout yoiu noticing.

Gosh Jan/Feb 09 is going to be a very busy time with all out newbies

Ei - how're you doing, hun?

Oufton Hope you feel better soon. xx
BS We haven't had sex since OV which was a long time ago! Men aren't very good at saying the right things but he does seem to be thinking of you. Hope you have a lovely evening tonight.
Jaamy Hello. Hope you're ok. xx

Hi everyone,
oufton beanie we are going to try that too - def feeling the whole 2 weeks of flurried activity followed by 2 week desolate wasteland of 'nolove'!
It doesnt help anything, specially the emotional rollercoaster...

Beanie let me know how you get on with the CBFM i have been using mine for a few cycles now.

thinking of you Ei xx

Hi Sparkly All ok here. Hope things are ok with you, too. Surely you are approaching that time of lurve again!

Just read my last post. Apalling typos!

ei im so sorry hon i hope this is your month. stay positive .....i know you must be devistated i am sending big hugs.
I havet welcomed sarah or lou yet so hello and welcome.
Just reading oufton and BS posts and im sorry if this causes offence it really really isn't ment that way i was just laughing to myself because its true for me aswell i practicly jusmp my DH around OV and then the rest of the time i just cant be bothered lol im asleep before my head hits the pillow and hes left wondering why im not pestering him for sex lol maybe i sould learn to pace myself XXX!!!

Jaamy Only 7 days until the lurve begins ..lets hope the pox stay away or another egg will be wasted. Glad your ok.
Josie Hi

please could someone change me to CD2 Cycle#9 (M/C July 07) next time its done? Would do it myself but scared to muck it up!
BTW have been reading some other threads on random stuff and think there are some very angry people on mumsnet! maybe I just dont like conflict!?

oops -meant cycle 10!

Oufton CD3 Cycle 5 TTC#1
lou2311 CD3 cycle 10 TTC#1 (M/C July 07)
LittleSquirt CD4 cycle 3 TTC#1 (MMC July 07)
MollieMooma CD7 Cycle 3 TTC#1 (m/mc Jan 07)
PicknMix CD7 Cycle 10 TTC#1 (mc Jan '07)
Madoldbird CD9 Cycle 10 TTC#3
SparklyGirlFriday CD11 Cycle 7 TTC#2
Moonlit CD12 Cycle 18 TTC#2
ClairePO CD12 Cycle 8 TTC#1 (mc Sept 07)
Caspercat CD13 cycle7 TTC2
shayerahol CD13 cycle 2 TTC1
jaamy CD20 cycle 9 TTC#3 (CP Mar 08)
Fruitloop79 CD19 cycle 4(8 months) TTC#2
beaniesteve CD21 Cycle 7 TTC#1
JosieJellybean CD23 Cycle3 TTC#2
Eleveld CD24 Cycle 4 TTC #1
toytownmum CD25 Cycle 10 TTC#3
McDreamy CD25 Cycle 10 TTC no 3
tinkerbellbringingsexyback cd26 cycle 2 tt#2
Glastochick CD26 Cycle 7 TTC #1
Treats CD27 cycle 6 TTC#1
Babychicken CD27 Cycle 6 TTC#1
JollyBear CD28 Cycle 5 TTC#1
LuckyT CD30 cycle 4 TTC 2
Mentalpup CD38 cycle 3 TTC#2
xxhunnyxx CD38 cycle 5 TTC#1 (MC Dec 05)
kate3677 CD38 cycle4 TTC#2 (MC sept 07 & nov 07)
Tantik CD38 Cycle 5 TTC#2
EiWishFor3MoreWishes CD40 cycle 5 TTC#2
blackrock CD51 Cycle 7 TTC#2
Anniemac CD52 Cycle 16 TTC~2
Loveverona CD54 Cycle 2 TTC#3 (mc nov07)
Incognito CD62 Cycle? TTC#2
Sandiesx CD62 Cycle 5 TTC#4 (mmc Oct 07)
Grinningbee CD73 Cycle 3 TTC #1 (MMC Oct 07)
bigfatmom CD74 Cycle 7 TTC#2
Barrelrider CD77 Cycle 4 TTC#2
HattyYellow CD88 Cycle 5 TTC#3
blondieminx CD103 cycle 1 TTC#1
Teeheelady CD111 Cycle 3 TTC#1 (mc Oct07)
MummyAnnabella CD110 Cycle 1 TTC#2
dressedupandnowheretogo CD113 cycle 1 TTC#2
scully waiting af

TTC GRADUATE LIST* (we WILL be on it)

Emmsy1 BFP 13 Feb (CD19 M/C3 Cycle 18 TTC#5)
Neveronamonday BFP 19 Feb (CD31 Cycle 3 TTC #2) CP Jan 08
BabyFever BFP 16 Feb (CD 29? Cycle 1 after m/c TTC #1)
Nursey07 BFP Feb 18th (CD38 cycle 24 TTC#1)
Cricri BFP 1 March (CD36 Cycle 5 after mmc TTC#1)
Piper BFP 18th March (CD32 Cycle 36 TTc#1)
Mibbes BFP 26th March (CD34 Cycle 4 TTC#1)
BrightShinySun BFP 26th March (CD34 Cycle1 TTC#2)
1littleprincess BFP 2nd April (CD36 Cycle 2 TTC#2)
LobstersLass BFP 2nd April (CD27 Cycle 4 TTC#1)

Morning, thanks to everyone for the good wishes, I'm feeling a little more upbeat now I'm getting towards the end of my period. I'll be starting the every-two-days jazz at the weekend, I've informed DH and he's starting to look at little nervous at the potential effort involved . I've also decided to go for acupuncture because I'm just too damn impatient to let things happen!

How are things going ei and scully, hope you're both ok. xx

Hello to all the recent posters Jaamy, beanie, lou, josie and sparkly, keep it up, it really cheers my day up popping on here!

Anyone close to testing, treats, jb?

OH

Just went to the loo and I have a bit of pinkish blood. CD22! Thing is this cycle was the first I got any real spotting at the begingin of my period so I counted CD1 as the first proper flow which was 3 days after the first spotting, so now I am confused. Are my cycles getting shorter? FFS.

10DPO and I am not stupid enough to think it may be implantation bleeding

OH it's not fair!

Lou Agree about the MN anger!!
Eleveld Thanks for doing the list again today. I meant to do it (to give you a break) but you beat me to it.
Oufton Goodbye AF-hope she doesn't come back for a while . I'm thinking of acupuncture but haven't looked into it yet.
BS Day 1 starts when AF does and not spotting .. did spotting look like this last month?. I'm keeping my fingers crossed for an implantation bleed for you. [hugs]

Hiya Sparkly: usually I don't get any spotting at all, last month was an exception and I was quite excited. I had pinkish discharge about 3 days before I got my full flow and my period was over a week late. This month it's looking like I've gone back to a 24 ish day cycle which is a bit of a disappointment seeing as my cycle was so long before. It's also my first month using a fertility monitor.

I'm so disappointed about my cycle remaining at 24 days and I don't want to tell my boyfriend about the spotting yet but at the same time I know it's probably silly of me to hope I won't be in full flow by Friday ... ho hum.

BS - . Hope you're wrong. Didn't your cycle length increase last time or am I getting mixed up?

Oufton - LOL at your nervous DH!

Hello Sparkly, Eleveld, Lou and everyone else!

Sorry BS - crossed post. Interruptions from DDs. Not silly for hoping that AF won't arrive. We have to keep hoping otherwise we'd be completely miserable all the time. Bet when you tell DB he'll be just as disappointed as you.

Hi peeps -
thanks eleveld just hope im on the graduate list before too long! I have my cap and gown at the ready!!

beanie could be implantation - whats your average over last few months?
Mine goes between 28 and 40 days!!! Stupid PCOS

Sparkly - were you reading the same thread as me?? some scary people in the world methinks!

Justjaamy and oufton, how's tricks?

everyone - sorry am pants at reading properly not trying to miss anyone out! This thread is NOT cliquey!!! (sp?)
sending virtual chocs and glasses of wine to all this evening...
xxxxxx

sorry beanie - also crossed post!

hiya

just to let you know I got a BFP today

CD34ish,

Due 25th December

Congratulations I had read this in another thread but don't think I congratulated you let. Wishing you a healthy and happy 9 months!