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2ww second month ttc

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Bex4567 · 23/09/2023 15:40

Hi just wandered if anyone wanted to join me on my second 2ww...currently ttc ..have a 16 and 12 yesr old but have a new partner so trying for baby 3 ..he has a 9 year old so not his first...currently on 2nd month of trying ...

Just wandered if anyone is asell..
We're trying preeseed and having sex every other day

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Comet1992 · 05/10/2023 08:30

@nervousn3lly I know I'm not testing until AF missed now to reduce stressing 🤞🏻 for you hun one of us needs a BFP on this thread

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Bex4567 · 05/10/2023 08:50

I dont think I implanted till 9dpo and I'm 12 so hoping its jus to early but so deflated...feel like I'm going to come on 😪

Due on tomorrow Bfn this morning ..hate this

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Comet1992 · 05/10/2023 09:06

@Bex4567 🤞🏻for you too is your AF due Tom as well?

nervousn3lly · 05/10/2023 09:14

Fingers crossed for you ladies 🫶

TTCgoingcrazy · 05/10/2023 09:15

@Bex4567 sorry to hear of your bfn. Fingers crossed for you tomorrow

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Bex4567 · 05/10/2023 09:41

Yes its due tomorrow..I was hoping I implanted at 9dpo 2 days ago as I had abit of pink discharge and sharp pains down below...which would make me 2 days after plantation im not sure when hcg levels rise by ..I guess will just see if I come on tomorrow which I probably will so disheartening rho...we did every other day through the month and every day over the ovulation days and used preeseed and ill start to think something is wrong with me if I'm not lol...

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Bex4567 · 05/10/2023 09:43

Forgot to add im 11 dpo today

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nervousn3lly · 05/10/2023 13:20

I read somewhere I think it doubles every 48hrs and the signs sound promising that u had hopefully af dosent arrive for you tomorrow and you get a Bfp, please keep us updated

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Bex4567 · 05/10/2023 13:24

I'm hoping so but not hopefully..u see so many people have early positives or atleast a faint line by now ..going away tomorrow for the weekend too would of been nice to celebrate 😪...the thought of doing it every other day again exhausts me 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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nervousn3lly · 05/10/2023 14:30

@Bex4567 haha I'm totally with you there on the exhaustion 🤦🏻‍♀️ it does feel like it's a chore after trying month after month doesn't it.
Maybe test tomorrow and then not when ur away and as easier said than done if no af try and enjoy yourself as best you can without testing and if no af test when ur home- I completely no it's easy to say and that putting in to practice of a whole different story. I was hoping to of had a positive in time for the weekend where we actually have no plans and to just enjoy the bubble but I'm doubtful that will happen for us

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Bex4567 · 05/10/2023 15:12

Thankyou for your post...yeah my partners loving it 🤣🤣me not to much lol.. yeah I'll do one in the morning then if not see if my periods late or not and maybe test when I come back...

Just Feel I'm never going to get my bfp....
I no were only month 2 in but feel we literally did it every other day..we literally couldn't of done anymore...so I'm like what's wrong with me lol..that and being 37...
I guess everything happens for a reason just with the pink discharge 2 days ago and the sharp pain I hoped that be good news

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Bex4567 · 05/10/2023 15:13

One of us definatly does lol

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moosey89 · 05/10/2023 15:34

@Bex4567 TTC is so frustrating - some people find it really easy, others don't! Just remember it's totally normal to take a year or even more to get pregnant and doesn't mean there's something wrong with you. If you get to 6 months trying, book a GP appointment and they'll get the ball rolling to check there's nothing wrong and ultimately it's the first step to getting fertility help if you did end up needing it.

I'm someone who has been on a stupidly long journey TTC so far and in my opinion it's definitely worth finding coping mechanisms for disappointment as otherwise it'll take over. Hopefully you won't be waiting too long for your BFP!x

moosey89 · 05/10/2023 15:35

P.s. there's only like a 20% chance of actually getting pregnant each month even if you do everything right and have zero issues and great health!

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Bex4567 · 05/10/2023 15:47

Thankyou for your reply .. I already have a 16 year old and 12 year old and my new partner has a 9 year old so not sure we will get help on the nhs

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Comet1992 · 05/10/2023 15:51

Well I just wiped and it's pink think AF has arrived 😢

moosey89 · 05/10/2023 16:13

@Bex4567 ah no you wouldn't get IVF but you may still be able to get some tests done x

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Bex4567 · 05/10/2023 16:23

Argh sorry to hear that 😪..I think mines coming too feel like I'm def going to come on tomorrow

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Bex4567 · 05/10/2023 19:20

I've just been to the loo and had some pink so I think im out this month 😪

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Comet1992 · 05/10/2023 19:27

@Bex4567 oh no sorry to hear I'm def out full AF has hit me while at work at least the 2week wait is over now

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Bex4567 · 05/10/2023 19:34

I'm like we could of literally done nothing more 🤦‍♀️😪this month don't get it

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Comet1992 · 05/10/2023 19:36

Don't feel deflated hun it will happen soon most of us on here have all got AF this week so we should track together

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Bex4567 · 05/10/2023 20:07

We def should...on to the next cycle girls

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LozDo · 05/10/2023 23:43

Sorry to hear this, I was so hoping to log on and hear some positive news, I'm 12dpo, run out of tests but I know it's negative and feel a bit like AF is on her way but no real symptoms. Ah well, fingers crossed for us all for next time 🤞

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Bex4567 · 06/10/2023 07:55

Sorry to hear this Lozdo I really felt posture this time...

Just wandered how many months everyone has been trying

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