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2ww second month ttc

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Bex4567 · 23/09/2023 15:40

Hi just wandered if anyone wanted to join me on my second 2ww...currently ttc ..have a 16 and 12 yesr old but have a new partner so trying for baby 3 ..he has a 9 year old so not his first...currently on 2nd month of trying ...

Just wandered if anyone is asell..
We're trying preeseed and having sex every other day

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nervousn3lly · 28/11/2023 16:26

@Bex4567 don't think that I'm sure there is a few of us on this thread of the same age or very similar from previous messages, also your still early to get a BFP this month so try and hang in there I no it's hard and deflating. Im 36 soon to be 37 I just try and tell myself there must be a reason and it will happen when the times right for whatever reason that maybe 😘

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Bex4567 · 28/11/2023 21:51

Thanks that means alot ..its def deflating..I feel so light headed currently and sickly not sure if that's a sign

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Comet1992 · 29/11/2023 09:10

12dpo today BFN 😢 hate this I don't know why I do it to myself

Beccylou94 · 29/11/2023 09:29

So with pdg tests 1 line is positive. Is this positive?

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Bex4567 · 29/11/2023 10:40

So sorry im 9dpo or 10 dpo bfn but i only had a 20mlu test strip not a 10mlu left so wasn't a sensitive one...going to get more today 🤦‍♀️...ita so hard I've got an upset stomach tho had the runs last night and thus morning so don't no if that's a sign..also getting episodes of dizziness which is weird for me so don't no

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Bex4567 · 29/11/2023 10:41

Never heard of a pregnancy test where 1 line positive..but of it is u can clearly see that's positive lol

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Beccylou94 · 29/11/2023 10:43

Bex4567 · 29/11/2023 10:41

Never heard of a pregnancy test where 1 line positive..but of it is u can clearly see that's positive lol

It isn't pregnancy it's pdg -progesterone to see if you have ovulated (I can never find my peak lh so this was recommended). Thanks I thought it was

Comet1992 · 30/11/2023 10:42

Anyone tested today mine was a BFN at 13dpo I think I'm out this month 😫 here's to the next month

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Bex4567 · 30/11/2023 15:00

Hey I tested this morning with a boots early one...thought I saw a vvfl but prob my eyes playing tricks on me lol...im currently either 10 or 11 dpo so feel I'm also out 😪...period due in 3 or 4 days

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Comet1992 · 30/11/2023 15:37

@Bex4567 you still have time it may well have been I'm still waiting for the spotting to start usually by the afternoon today it happens 😬 so still waiting @nervousn3lly how are you doing because our cycle is the same? Xx

nervousn3lly · 30/11/2023 15:53

@Comet1992 sorry to hear that, I'm the same BFN granted was midday but still not even a vvfl. Next cycle it is if my calculations are right and the cycle starts tomorrow we could find out Xmas Eve maybe 🤔
@Bex4567 you still have time for a Bfp and what you saw could be the start of your Bfp this cycle fingers crossed for you x

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Bex4567 · 30/11/2023 17:16

Thankyou idont no...its weird I just don't feel right this month...runny nose is the main things that's weird for me and dizziness on and off...but it probably will be bfn in a few days when af arrives..then on to month 5 ...made and appointment after the docters to see what they say as I'm 37 so they say after 6 months to go docters..

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nervousn3lly · 30/11/2023 18:45

Oh really I didn't no that I'm nearly 37 so interesting to know as I also am going into cycle 5. I wonder also is it a different hospital trust thing like ivf. I feel like I'd have to wait a year cause of miscarriage earlier in year 🤷‍♀️ x

Comet1992 · 01/12/2023 06:13

Just went to test because I was a day late and then AF showed her ugly face this morning 😖 here's to another month

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Bex4567 · 01/12/2023 06:41

Sorry to hear this I too look like I'm going into month 5 😪..period due in 2 days bfn this morning so def out by looks of it...I give up lol

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nervousn3lly · 01/12/2023 08:48

Af for me too this morning-
I'm looking at it now that get extra time with baby due to now trying for a September baby that extra year before they'd start school lol x

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Bex4567 · 01/12/2023 09:02

If u already have a child we csnt get ivf on the nhs 😪..thats for people who don't have children...have u been to the docters and had tests at all or are u just waiting to see what happens

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nervousn3lly · 01/12/2023 09:39

@Bex4567 sorry I ment depending on your hospital trust depends on if u get ivf for first or not and I ment I wonder if it was the same for having tests done for help if not getting pregnant- sorry just my suspicious mind of thinking they would find away out of helping 🙈

I haven't I thought had to be a year until you said so I may go after this cycle.

Tbh I've had a few health problems in last few months so maybe that's my problem x

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Bex4567 · 01/12/2023 09:41

Sorry to hear..that I have a 17 and 13 year old so I've concieved in the past just worry I'm too old now and something wrong 😪

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Beccylou94 · 02/12/2023 16:59

Am not seeing this right?

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nervousn3lly · 02/12/2023 17:13

Definitely a positive. Congratulations 🤍 x

Comet1992 · 02/12/2023 17:21

@Beccylou94 aww so happy for you definitely a BFP such a lovely near xmas too 🥰

Rainbowpeanut02 · 02/12/2023 17:23

@Beccylou94 thats a positive congratulations!!!! xx

Rainbowpeanut02 · 02/12/2023 17:26

Hi everyone! I'm new here but thought to join, I'm 10 DPO and also have the BFN. I'm trying my best not to test everyday but the waiting is killing me.

It's so strange because i had some spotting, I've got the cramps, back ache, light nausea, headaches and my positive. I'm starting to think that my body is playing tricks on me.

My app is saying I am due on Wednesday but I have a feeling it might be later.

Anyone else in the TWW? xx

Beccylou94 · 02/12/2023 18:42

Thank you @Comet1992 that was my thought too! Trying to not get too excited yet just in case.