TTC Waiting Room stay as long as you like Part 5

[Bucky2008]

I have brought the list across, fluffed the cushions and put some nice tea to brew. I baked muffins and biscuits too, help yourselves.

ClairePO CD3 Cycle 5 TTC#1 Post MC Sept 07
Grinningbee CD7 Cycle 3 TTC #1 (MMC Oct 07)
SparklyMummy CD7 Cycle 4 TTC#2
Glastochick CD11 Cycle 5 TTC #1
Scully CD13 Cycle 2 TTC #3 (mc Aug '07)
Emmsy CD15 Cycle 4 MC3 TTC#5
Cricri CD15 Cycle 5 TTC#1 (mc Sept '07)
toytownmum CD16 Cycle 8 TTC#3
LobstersLass CD17 Cycle 2 TTC#1
Mibbes CD18 Cycle 3 TTC#1
Eleveld CD18 Cycle 2 TTC#1
treats CD18 cycle 4 TTC#1
Musicgirl CD19 Cycle 4 TTC1
Scaryhairy CD22 Cycle 6 TTC#2
HattyYellow CD22 Cycle 5 TTC#3
Abbymeg CD23 Cycle 6 TTC#2
Fairysnuff CD23 Cycle 7 TTC#2
Sandies CD24 Cycle 4 TTC#4
PicknMix CD24 Cycle 7 TTC#1 (mc Jan '07)
Bucky CD27 Cycle 9 TTC#1 (MC Sept 06)
07mumstheword CD27 Cycle 10 TTC#2(CP July+Sept)
Mrsei25 CD29 cycle 3 TTC#2
piper1984 CD29 cycle 1 TTC#1
Anniemac CD35 Cycle 13 TTC#2
Madoldbird CD36 Cycle 6 TTC#3
GryffinGirl CD37 cycle 13 TTC#1
Teeheelady CD45 Cycle 3 TTC#1 (mc Oct07)
toytownmum CD45 Cycle 7 TTC#3
MummyAnnabella CD46 Cycle 1 TTC#2
dressedupandnowheretogo CD47 cycle 1 TTC#2
Fruitloop79 CD48 cycle 3 TTC#2
JollyBear CD60 Cycle 3 TTC#1

TTC GRADUATE LIST* (we WILL be on it)
BabyFever BFP 12 Jan [CD31 Cycle 2 TTC#1]
Becaroo BFP 12 Jan [CD30 Cycle1 Post-mc TTC#2]
Digitalgirl BFP 13 Jan [CD33 Cycle 4 TTC#1]
Kate2179 BFP 14 Jan CD36 Cycle 2 TTC#1 post mc Oct07
Neveronamonday BFP 16 Jan [CD? Cycle 2 TTC#2]
Colabottle BFP 18 Jan [CD42 Cycle ? TTC#2]
theowlwhowasafraidofthedark BFP 18 Jan [CD50 Cycle 7 TTC#1]
SydneyB BFP 24 Jan [CD28 Cycle 2 TTC#2]
Hedgepig BFP 24 Jan [Cycle 13 TTC#2]
MissusH BFP 25 Jan [CD36 Cycle 6 TTC#2]
Sambrads BFP 26 Jan [CD35 Cycle 8 TTC#2]
Pistachio BFP 41
26 Jan (CD28 Cycle 3 TTC #2)
MrsBish BFP 30 Jan (CD32 Cycle 1 TTC#2)
Spink BFP 1 Feb (CD29 Cycle7 TTC#2)

Hello Treats, from what I've read that absolutely could be implantation bleeding, how very exciting for you!! I'm 8dpo and have no sign of anything yet. Bah.

thanks treats and NOAM its weird but all the way through the sale of ours and trying to buy the dream house(sounds a bit barbie-esque) i have been saying i dont feel as if we are supposed to buy this house something feels 'off' if you get me. ive got my eye on another one now aswell as a 'second place' kinda house and we are goin to view it tonight so hopefully we will end up loving this house more and going for this one the only thing is we have paid out nearly £1000 on the purchase of the other one and we cant really afford to throw that money away iv decided that when we move im staying put for the forseeable future!!! no more moving for me thanks!!!
MOB nice to see you back i posted to you on the 2ww aswell but thought i would here too
xx ei xx

NOAM - I was hoping someone would laugh me off the board for suggesting it as I've now been obsessing about it - have mostly been googling 'implantation bleeding' all day..... I even rang DH at work to tell him - he was a bit taken aback!

Not sure when to test. I really want DH to be there, but he's away for a week from Sunday - it'll be too soon before he goes and I don't think I can wait until he gets back. I've got a day off work next Wednesday which is the day that AF is due to visit, so I might do it then. I'll keep you posted.......

oh yeah sorry i missed...treats ooooooh it could well be implantation i said yesterday one of our 'regulars' was going to get a BFP before thursday i bet it is you!!!
xx ei xx

Treats that sounds very much like an imp bleed to me - apparently they can happen as early as 5dpo but most likely between 8 and 12. LOL at you phoning DH to tell him ! If you test Sunday you'll be over 10dpo which can be enough for BFP with FMU - although if you are really worried about seeing BFN maybe best to wait unti next Wed. Are you impatient ???
never I have my fingers crossed that there were swimmers in there when you ov'd. At least if AF does show up (which I sincerely hope she doesn't)) you can be sure that next cycle you'll have a far better chance of catching the egg with opks and temps
MOB lovely to see you back - are you feeling better now ? It does get more exciting when ov approaches .
MrsEi I am a strong believer in "what is for you won't go by you" - I got my dream house 18 months ago and it all happened due to a string of strange coincidences so I just knew it was meant to be
No more symptoms from me - have been trying hard to imagine some but not a dicky bird - only 4dpo though !

just had a phone call from the estate agents over our dream house all is going ahead-crisis averted YAYAYAY
xx ei xx

Hurray for MrsEi25, fingers crossed there's no more obstacles now!

Thanks everyone for your kind words. It good to be amongst people who know how it feels to m/c - i don't seem to know anyone in rl who has, maybe people just don't talk about it.

Anyway, my coping strategy is to get pregnant again asap, even though they say to wait till you have had a period before trying again, the 2WW is bad enough without having to wait a month first!

So who knows, I could even be pregnant again now...

Think I'll stay off the list until af does or doesn't arrive though, cos no idea really of what cd I am. Second thoughts, I'll do this (best guess)

Bucky CD1 Cycle 10 TTC#1 (MC Sept 06)
Mrsei25 CD3 cycle 3 TTC#2
ClairePO CD6 Cycle 5 TTC#1 Post MC Sept 07
moonlit CD6 cycle 15 TTC#2
Grinningbee CD10 Cycle 3 TTC #1 (MMC Oct 07)
SparklyMummy CD10 Cycle 4 TTC#2
Madoldbird CD13 Cycle 7 TTC#3
Glastochick CD14 Cycle 5 TTC #1
Loveverona CD14 Cycle 1 TTC#3 (mc nov07)
Scully CD16 Cycle 2 TTC #3 (mc Aug '07)
Emmsy CD18 Cycle 18 MC3 TTC#5
Cricri CD18 Cycle 5 TTC#1 (mc Sept '07)
BabyFever CD19ish Cycle 3 TTC#1 (MC Jan 08)
toytownmum CD19 Cycle 8 TTC#3
LobstersLass CD20 Cycle 2 TTC#1
Mibbes CD21 Cycle 3 TTC#1
Eleveld CD21 Cycle 2 TTC#1
treats CD21 cycle 4 TTC#1
Oufton CD21 Cycle 2 TTC#1
Musicgirl CD22 Cycle 4 TTC1
Scaryhairy CD25 Cycle 6 TTC#2
HattyYellow CD25 Cycle 5 TTC#3
Abbymeg CD26 Cycle 6 TTC#2
Fairysnuff CD26 Cycle 7 TTC#2
Sandies CD27 Cycle 4 TTC#4
PicknMix CD27 Cycle 7 TTC#1 (mc Jan '07)
mentalpup CD28 cycle 1 TTC#207mumstheword CD30 Cycle 10 TTC#2(CP July+Sept)
piper1984 CD32 cycle 1 TTC#1
Anniemac CD38 Cycle 13 TTC#2
GryffinGirl CD40 cycle 13 TTC#1
Teeheelady CD48 Cycle 3 TTC#1 (mc Oct07)
toytownmum CD48 Cycle 7 TTC#3
MummyAnnabella CD49 Cycle 1 TTC#2
dressedupandnowheretogo CD50 cycle 1 TTC#2
Fruitloop79 CD51 cycle 3 TTC#2
JollyBear CD63 Cycle 3 TTC#1

TTC GRADUATE LIST* (we WILL be on it)

Becaroo BFP 12 Jan [CD30 Cycle1 Post-mc TTC#2]
Digitalgirl BFP 13 Jan [CD33 Cycle 4 TTC#1]
Kate2179 BFP 14 Jan CD36 Cycle 2 TTC#1 post mc Oct07
Neveronamonday BFP 16 Jan [CD? Cycle 2 TTC#2]
Colabottle BFP 18 Jan [CD42 Cycle ? TTC#2]
theowlwhowasafraidofthedark BFP 18 Jan [CD50 Cycle 7 TTC#1]
SydneyB BFP 24 Jan [CD28 Cycle 2 TTC#2]
Hedgepig BFP 24 Jan [Cycle 13 TTC#2]
MissusH BFP 25 Jan [CD36 Cycle 6 TTC#2]
Sambrads BFP 26 Jan [CD35 Cycle 8 TTC#2]
Pistachio BFP 41
26 Jan (CD28 Cycle 3 TTC #2)
MrsBish BFP 30 Jan (CD32 Cycle 1 TTC#2)
Spink BFP 1 Feb (CD29 Cycle7 TTC#2)
By neveronamonday

BabyFever - I know that I've been surprised in the past by people who've casually admitted to a miscarriage when previously I'd had no idea. This has happened a couple of times - mostly from women who've finally given birth and are now happy to admit to the effort and trauma they've gone through to get there, but would never have breathed a word about it at the time.

It's a bit the same with me - publicly I'm still noisily proclaiming that I'm not even sure that I want kids while busily bd'ing behind closed doors. When (IF???) I finally announce my pregnancy there's going to be some very surprised people!!

But I'm sure it must be very isolating for you at the moment, and I hope that the forum helps. but I hope you've got other sources of support and help to get you through. Conception is very stressful and you don't want the extra pressure of using it to get over your m/c as well

just had a phone call from the estate agents over our dream house all is going ahead-crisis averted YAYAYAY
xx ei xx

sorry dont know what happened there pc has gone a bit mad!!
xx ei xx

EI Glad that fate has planned the way...Dream house and a new house baby I hope!!
Treats Fingers crossed for an implantation bleed.
Babyfever I hope that you don't have to add yourself back to the TTC list but to the graduation list instead .. best of luck!
Mibbles and Oufton I hope the pg symptoms start appearing and that time passes quickly and you can test.
Piper Been thinking about you .. where are you hiding? Really hoping AF hasn't got u!
Madoldbird Welcome back. Hope you are feeling better. If you need to chat we're all here.
Hi to everyone else!
No news here really...day 8..i've gained a few days somewhere. Ordered some OV sticks yday so will be using them for the first time soon. Any tips? I'm not temping.

SparklyMummy my top tip for opks is to test twice a day on the days just before you think you ov. I had a temp dip then no +ve opk (was testing at 6pm) so decided the following morning to test and got +ve, then +ve again that evening and the following morning. That way you get more warning - but unless you use cheapies I guess it is quite pricey. I use CB Digital opks and they seem good . It is also worth remembering that not everyone gets +ve opk but still ovulate and others get +ve but don't - it is not a sure-fire thing. Best to combine with charting temps or if you'd rather not make sure you are on EWCM-watch !
MrsEi hurray for dream house - when you due to exchange ?
Treats I am in the same boat as you. When/if I tell people they will be so as have been saying for some time now that we are not having a family (it was true until last October when had PG-scare and realised I wanted a baby afterall !) I can't wait to see their faces

mibbes hopefully if all goes to plan we will be exchanging within 4 weeks i cant wait now
xx ei xx

I don't get EWCM or not enough to notice..isit day 8 in my cycle too late to start charting? I'm not even sure I am OV...my periods have been so weird and we've been having unprotected sex for over 18 months..worried I might have PCOS or annovulatory cycles so want to find out if I am OV at all. You know once you get +ve OPK do you have sex then or try to before you get result? When is best time?

I think that some women feel really embarassed about miscarriage, they feel as though they have failed 'as a woman' that's what the doc told me anyway!!
Treats I had one implantation spot of blood mixed in with mucus with my last pregnancy, that was at 7 DPO so it sound very similar to what I had! fingers,eyes and toes crossed for you x

mibbes how many days past 'o' are you?

Noam My periods range from 28-35 days...I haven't been getting periods like I used to though..I'm going to do some OPKs this month and then temp next month and if I don't think i'm OV I think I might visit the GP. Should get my OPKs tomorrow. Got 30 cheapies from Ebay so will start doing 2 a day once they arrive.
We are going away tomorrow night as early Valentines to a hotel called Gliffaes...it's beautiful. Hope to get some swimmers ready and waiting for the egg lol!

thanx NOAM i am actually hoping to get my BFP after i move in to the new house as i LOVE the moving boxes/unpacking part but i will have one before if that is on offer
v. impressive on the vast Ov knowledge aswell you are a fountain of knowledge
xx ei xx

works for me!! oooooh il have to get packing again(sorry im a bit excited)
xx ei xx

evening ladies,

I feel I've been neglecting my lovely girls here in the waiting room since my diagnosis. I've been completely self absorbed in my own problems to notice anyone else.
I can't believe we're already on page 8 of this lovely spanking new thread . Right, from now on I'm gonna make sure I pop in to check how everyone is doing.
ei looking very interesting Please come back in the morning and do another test!!! We haven't had a BFP for a while now

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