TTC after miscarriage thread 10

[mummatara]

@AwayWeGo22 @bunnykins123 @calimc83 @FfayeN @Chellooo @Indianna2006 @LuckyMoonstone @Luna57 @Margo34 @MIW01 @MrsCristiano @Pancake92 @pangolin84 @TheBirdintheCave @theblueflowers

Sorry if I forgot anyone ❤️ also hope I've done this right 😂

I just went to the loo again and it’s totally gone. Cervix was low and hard about 15 mins ago and now it’s gone up a bit. Eeeeeek I’m so anxious

@LuckyMoonstone it totally could be! Anything unusual to you could easily be implantation bleeding. I would maybe hold off a day or so (I know how hard that is!) so that you can get a definitive answer either when you test again. Got everything crossed for this being implantation! 🤞

@mummatara don't apologise - that's what this forum is for 💕 Let's think of the positives: your not bleeding. That's pretty big. Yes the scan was inconclusive but it wasn't conclusive either. There could be so many reasons (and tilted uterus could totally be a reason!) I don't want to get your hopes up but equally don't think you should be assuming the worst just yet. I suspect the reason for the long wait is that you don't have any bleeding so is considered fairly low priority unfortunately.

@calimc83 im so so glad to hear from you! I'm so happy you have made it to 13 weeks 💕 I knew it 😉 yes I've taken the meds - nothing major to report yet, had slight heartburn after the first couple but other than them tasting utterly rank, I feel exactly the same. No static for me yet so just twiddling my thumbs waiting to get into the TWW 😂

@mummatara I don't even know..they surely must have earlier appointments. In NI you are offered a reassurance scan at 7/8 weeks even if nothing is wrong. I would say Google is the devil. Private scans can cause so much worry I didn't even realise until I read some of these threads. I'd still get one though 🤷‍♀️ I will say that the ultrasound scanner with my first miscarriage (at 8 weeks) was awful even the midwives commented on it. So that is an absolute possibility especially with the uterus position.

@mummatara did you go to a reputable scan place? I went to a place many moons ago for a fertility check up (unbeknown to me AND them - they failed to spot it but I was actually pregnant). Anyhoo, they sent me on my way telling me I was infertile as I had a blocked tube. I kid you not. I did not have a blocked tube and I was actually pregnant. Moral of the story was that they were utterly rubbish and totally misdiagnosed me.

@bunnykins123 I know I feel like I shouldn’t test tomorrow and I should wait an extra day but I’m definitely gonna cos it’s driving me crazy. At least I got a double pack of FRERs!

@mummatara I absolutely agree with @bunnykins123 no bleeding, no pain low priority. It's absolutely sucks

@bunnykins123 also that is insane about that scan place!

@LuckyMoonstone @FfayeN good luck tomorrow girls ❤️

@LuckyMoonstone totally fair enough! I'm not going to even try and stop you. The FRER should pick it up now so I've got literally everything crossed for you. I know! You have no idea how much I cried after that appointment.

@MrsCristianoX thank you! I’ll shut up now I’m getting hysterical and rambling 🤣 @bunnykins123 yeah I bet! I do go to private scan clinics when I’m pregnant but I do still worry about how legit they really are

@bunnykins123 wow 😳 that's crazy and really very worrying! I have been to this place before but not for an early scan it was a late 4d scan with our son at about 25 weeks or so and it was called something different back then so maybe they've been taken over. I don't know if it's a big company or not it is called boo baby scan. I usually go to a place called numi scan or there is a window to the womb close by too which I've never been to. I only went there because they had a offer at £59 🙈 all three are only 15 minutes away from me so I could easily go to a different one.

@MrsCristianoX I think like @bunnykins123 said I'm not bleeding which I add I'm very grateful for 🤞🏼 so probably not very high on the priority list. I do need to just think on the positives. Back to work tomorrow so I suppose that will keep me busy

My sonographer was a old American lady she was def in her 70s at least and she had the shakiest hands 😳 and now I write that out it sounds so ageist and awful because she could be very experienced 🤷🏼‍♀️

@mummatara never heard of it. Probably crappy scanner. Can't even give the scans away. Go to bed you are pregnant and this worrying is not helping. Tough love now 😘

@mummatara without encouraging being a stalker (👀) was her name on the scan? I googled mine and couldn't find her at the time. It may tell you her level of expertise?

@mummatara sorry for the tough love I feel bad already 😂

You should see my trying to work when Im messaging this group. 'You want a prescription checked? Now? Ffs' and off I stomp

@bunnykins123 😂 no she didn't give me a picture or anything just wrote on a bit of paper that she could see gest sac and yolk but no FP or FH.

@MrsCristianoX I just looked at their website it says they are a independent family run business. Ok ok I'll take your tough love because I probably do need it ❤️

I'm off to bed thank you so much for chatting to my crazy self 😘

Please update us as soon as you know anything in the morning ladies 🤞🏼

@mummatara nepotism at its finest 🙄 night lovely xx

@MrsCristianoX 😂😂 xxx

@MrsCristianoX you are exactly my kind of person, you’re great 😂😂

@LuckyMoonstone 😘🤞

Now awake and stalking the forum for @LuckyMoonstone 's FRER 😂😬

@LuckyMoonstone I had pink cm around that time too with my last pregnancy so sounds promising for you, fingers crossed!🤞🏻

@mummatara sorry you had a night of worry 😔. I probably would try somewhere else too. My MMC was at a private clinic and they were great! I imagine there is such a range of experience and expertise out there.

11dpo and totally blank IC, but I don't feel any symptoms at all. Just waiting for dear AF to come back again, the horrible cow!!!

@LuckyMoonstone hoping you have a nice little frer line for us this morning.....

Morning gals, my FMU is currently sat in a glass in the bathroom cupboard because I haven’t had chance to test yet 😂 DS wants to get up and DH is around because he’s off work today. Going to usher them both downstairs for their breakfasts soon so I can test with privacy!