1DPO - Please join!

[MrsRosaline]

Anyone else at a similar stage or also in the 2WW? First month trying again after miscarriage so would love to chat it through with others and have some company!

Haha you're the same as me @RMS0209. I am considering the Ava bracelet after I saw your other post but don't want to buy it until I know for certain if I'm out or not!

@MrsRosaline Greatminds think alike!
At least we can try help each other with it IF we need to... I did some researching on 3 similar type thing's and so far the Ava seems good.

Well I caved and tested this morning didn’t I. And of course it’s negative so now I’m sad and crying. I honestly don’t know why I do it to myself. 9dpo today, to be fair my other pregnancies I’ve always had a positive at this stage so feeling like it’s not going to be our month 😢

@Hello47 sending you big hugs! BUT still early
Hope you are ok, go treat yourself and do something nice today..
I'm not feeling to hopeful for this month so don't worry you aren't the only one xx

Thanks @RMS0209 this journey is so tough sometimes!

I went a got some lovely plants for the garden and spending the day in the sun ☺️

@Hello47 9dpo today too and BFN here. I will test again tomorrow and if it's negative stop the progesterone and wait for AF.

How exciting that we are getting close to testing! 🤞🏻 I'm still only 6DPO. I'm not sure whether to test early or not. Would I want to know if I have another chemical? Not sure...

@Hello47 @PeanuttyButter 9DPO is still early!

@Hello47 ah, I know the feeling. It's still early to test so it's not over it. I feel like I'm out too and I think when AF comes I'm gna cry too. Won't be trying again until another year (looking to move etc) so this was the first and last month of 'trying'

@PeanuttyButter sorry for the bfn yesterday, I hate this part the most. I think next time I’m going to really try and wait it out. How did you get on this morning?

@Cheeeeeeeks that must be so hard. Really exciting about the move though, you looking forward to it?

@MrsRosaline not long now! I find chemicals really hard so think I’m going to change my testing habits next month. But I always say that 🤦🏻‍♀️

I’ve got a super faint line this morning with an FRER but it’s really stressed me out because I’ve got some really convincing evaps recently and I really don’t want to get my hopes up. Gaaaaah

Xx

You could always buy the clearblue "6 day early one". They are the same sensitivity as FRER but there's no line reading involved 😂 @Hello47

@Hello47 10dpo and BFN for me. Fingers crossed on the faint positive though!

I'm gonna stop taking my progesterone today now and just wait for AF to come.

@PeanuttyButter sorry for the bfn.

I got a very negative test today so I’m out too. Little bit heartbroken to be honest, taken it really badly this month. There’s always next month I guess

How are the rest of your getting on? x

@Hello47 @PeanuttyButter sending you both big hugs.

Are you both trying in April? I have seen a few people not trying as they don't want late Dec/early Jan babies.
I'll be trying until my little one is here! X

@RMS0209 bfn 11dpo so that's me definitely out.
Yes I will be trying again next month, been trying all this time I can't afford not to. Plus if i get my BFP this next cycle my due date will be Xmas day which is the same day as the due date from my first miscarriage. It didn't bother me last time x

@PeanuttyButter i hear you! that is lovely, I have everything crossed for you.
not feeling to hopeful so least I can tag on and bug you for April 💗 x

@Hello47 we haven't found a place to move out to yet but I'm hoping we do and out by the end of the year. Sorry to hear about your bfn but 11dpo is still a bit early to test no? I tested last night (just turned 9dpo after midnight) and couldn't help myself after I found a bunch of IC's I forgot I put away. BFN. I sat there in sadness for a while. Will be testing again in a few days time

Hi,

Thanks guys. @RMS0209 yes definitely still trying next month, really don’t mind what date the due date is!!

Sorry @PeanuttyButter it’s so hard isn’t it 😢 fingers crossed for us next month

@Cheeeeeeeks it is early but think by 11dpo most people get a positive. Of course everyone is different but by this time in all my other pregnancies I’ve had a strong positive by now, so going taking that all in to account I’m pretty confident I’m out.

x

@Hello47 I'm secretly still hopeful to get a BFP but I know I'm only going to be disappointed when it's a bfn. Everything points to AF coming but I'm trying to stay positive 😂 not sure how I'm gna react when AF comes. Remember we aren't out until AF comes!

@CherylPorter350

Well, I'm 4dpo...had some weird cramps today...I swear I'm not symptom spotting 🤣🤣

It's only our first cycle...after the reversal...a bfp would be a miracle but I'm trying to keep a positive mindset

@CherylPorter350 I've just come here to search exactly the same thing!

CD20, 4DPO

period / ovulation style cramps started on my way home from work and have continued for the past hour, along with a feeling of fullness down stairs.

I'm trying not to symptom spot as it's only our first month of NTNP and conditions weren't optimal this month for various reasons so I'm not expecting to catch 1st time round. Just hard not to get your hopes up.

@Hello47 as gutting as a BFN is, there's always the hope that comes with a new cycle, which I quite like. Also, remember that CD1 is counted as the first week of pregnancy if you conceived 😌 Will probably way my words when my own period comes at the weekend.

No real symptoms... bit of a backache, but that's it.

@Cheeeeeeeks I was negative at 9/10DPO with DD. Got a positive at 12DPO.

@MrsRosaline that gives me so much hope, thank you! I was getting period like cramping yesterday and then a little bit today so was thinking hmmm could be implantation? And I couldn't stop myself from testing knowing it's too early. I said to myself I will now wait until day of missed period, but I know if I start getting anymore symptoms I will be quick to test again lol

I'll keep my fingers crossed for you @Cheeeeeeeks 🤞🏻

I keep telling myself I'll wait until Saturday when my period is due. I'm only 8DPO today and I know by the time I get to 10 I'll be itching to test!!!

@Cheeeeeeeks oh my god I did exactly the same! I had cramps 4&5 dpo, felt like my period was coming. I'd just had acupuncture and not sure if that was the cause. I tested today 7dpo and obviously negative.

Thought I was out at 10dpo so stopped my progesterone. BFN at 11dpo yesterday too.
AF wasn't here in full swing this morning just spotting so did an IC and got this. Probably end up a chemical though due to stopping the progesterone but least I know I ovulated. I've put a pessery in now and hoping it hold AF off and I can test with a FRER

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