1DPO - Please join!

[MrsRosaline]

Anyone else at a similar stage or also in the 2WW? First month trying again after miscarriage so would love to chat it through with others and have some company!

@PeanuttyButter sorry to hear about the progesterone! X

Also I'd like to join if that's ok, I got my peak OPK yesterday so I'd like to think today is OV day

Hello 👋 I am 1DPO today! I'm awaiting some results from blood tests I had a the recurrent MC a few weeks ago. I just had an appointment through the door for may! I'm not going to be waiting 2 months for the results that's for sure!!!

Anyway 🤞 to us all ☺️

@RMS0209 I am having reflexology too! I decided about having it in 2WW - what do you think??

@PeanuttyButter how long is your luteal phase? Mine is about 11 days and the GP has repeatedly told me that my progesterone is not an issue.

Welcome @ladybuggoldfinch

Helloooo, please can I join. It's after midnight sooo I am 4dpo now (I think). Sorry to hear about those that have had losses, fingers crossed that this is the month of BFP!

@MrsRosaline mine is usually 10 days but can be 8. I start spotting at 5-6dpo usually. My progesterone came back fine too when the GP did it.

That's interesting @PeanuttyButter. 8-10 days definitely too short, isn't it. GP also said that 11 day luteal phase was fine, but I do think it needs to be at least 12. I keep wondering if my egg is trying to implant whilst my lining is also shedding and that's what stops them sticking! Have you tried anything to lengthen it? I have added B6 last month.

I really hope this is the month but I'm remaining cautious just because I've been doing this a year now 😔

Welcome @Cheeeeeeeks. 3DPO now for me. Dragging.

@MrsRosaline it's 1 year since my first pregnancy at the weekend so had hoped to be pregnant by now (with a sticky bean). On the months I've gotten pregnant I've had a positive at 10dpo so I think my progesterone must have been ok those months. I don't think I ovulate most months to be honest.

Hi ladies ok if I join?
4dpo and time has stood still 🙄

So then do you lose them soon after @PeanuttyButter? The first one I lost two weeks after positive test at 12DPO. The second one I lost 2 days after positive test at 11DPO. Something stops them sticking and I have no idea what!

Welcome @MrsGrealish

Hi Ladies! :)

Officially 1DPO today... let the 2 week fun begin!

@MrsRosaline Go you with the reflexology, I have booked in every Monday for the next 6 weeks so I'm feeling hopeful. She was really nice gave me lots of TTC info and wants me to temp..not great for somebody who doesnt sleep a long period of time but I'll give it a try anyway.

Sorry to hear the stories of non sticky beans but I hope everybody gets sticky beans this month.. all deserved! x

@MrsRosaline unfortunately not. I have missed miscarriages so found out we had lost the first at a private scan at 9.5 weeks and then the second we found out at 9 weeks. We saw the heartbeat at 7 weeks with the second and on both cases didn't have any sign that the pregnancy hadn't advanced. Dye stealers, morning sickness the lot. No bleeding. So had surgical management of both. The third 15dpo so 5 days after my BFP, so a chemical.

[quote PeanuttyButter]@MrsRosaline unfortunately not. I have missed miscarriages so found out we had lost the first at a private scan at 9.5 weeks and then the second we found out at 9 weeks. We saw the heartbeat at 7 weeks with the second and on both cases didn't have any sign that the pregnancy hadn't advanced. Dye stealers, morning sickness the lot. No bleeding. So had surgical management of both. The third 15dpo so 5 days after my BFP, so a chemical.[/quote]
@PeanuttyButter I am so sorry to read this, hope you don't mind me jumping on. X

Are you having it in the 2WW @RMS0209 l? I'm undecided what to do.

Sorry @PeanuttyButter it's just awful. So cruel. I really hope you get your sticky bean soon 🤞🏻So many things have to go right to get the BFP, and then to keep it, it's ridiculous.

@MrsRosaline yes I am! I told her on Monday I had my "peak" clear blue and she was still happy to see me.
She's been very good, she also would like me to go for some blood tests at the doctor just to get a better idea, so that's a job for tomorrow to try get that booked.
What DPO are you? I think you should go.. aslong as you mention x

I am only 3DPO and struggling. In my heart I feel like we won't be successful this month, and another month of failure will just break me. Trying to stay "zen" and "good vibes" but it's hard today.@RMS0209

@MrsRosaline I hear you, sending big hugs.
Hopefully this is your month though 🌟
Have you looked at those Ava bracelets or the ovusense? If AF arrives at the end of the month I am thinking of getting one.
It's just frustrating isn't it, I wish it was as easy as it is in the movies.
Try to say zen... nearly the weekend!

Yes I used OvuSense for 8 months but I didn't like inserting it after sex as I felt it tampered with the sperm. It was very good at pinpointing ovulation. I stopped tracking my temp in January as I found it was increasing my anxiety! @RMS0209

Well, I'm 4dpo...had some weird cramps today...I swear I'm not symptom spotting 🤣🤣

It's only our first cycle...after the reversal...a bfp would be a miracle but I'm trying to keep a positive mindset

@MrsRosaline

Yes I used OvuSense for 8 months but I didn't like inserting it after sex as I felt it tampered with the sperm. It was very good at pinpointing ovulation. I stopped tracking my temp in January as I found it was increasing my anxiety! *@RMS0209*

My comment may have posted twice - sorry if it did!! X

@MrsRosaline

Yes I used OvuSense for 8 months but I didn't like inserting it after sex as I felt it tampered with the sperm. It was very good at pinpointing ovulation. I stopped tracking my temp in January as I found it was increasing my anxiety! *@RMS0209*

I was getting anxious this cycle, CD13/14 line was pretty much 0 then I got that sudden peak on Monday but I spent my weekend deflated!

A bit of my story.
Im 39 (40 in a few months)
Have 2DS (20,19) and 1DD (15)
Thought I was done but had an unexpected pregnancy in March and miscarried at 8 weeks. Absolutely gutted like cried for weeks. Managed to convince DH to try again only to end up with a chemical in January and February.
I feel like this will be the last try because it's truly heartbreaking and exhausting.
Sending love to everyone with losses ❤️ and 🤞for this cycle xx

@MrsGrealish what a story 😔 sending you all the luck for March. X

Hoping I can join I'm 1 DPO today roughly. Let the 2WW begin!