Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨ lucky thread 3!

[Skl2021]

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@Skl2021 haha sorry yes it was meant for you 🙈 yes of course, I tested positive 8dpo on frer and they got slightly darker until 13dpo and I got a positive clearblue digital, I lost symptoms then and 16dpo tested completely negative and started to bleed I will attach pics for reference for you, nowhere near as dark as yours

@Cruz86 u will get there 💕✨ yes going without opk is hard but if u trust your body or look for signs I'm sure u will do fine! Or DTD every other day if u have the stamina 😝 is b vitamins not good for LP? Or have I made that up I can't remember which one now 🙈 xx

@arianasky thankyou I'm sorry u went through that it's just heart wrenching after seeing a positive. I think I'm just scared as I'm 14 dpo that there not as dark as others. I feel like I need to test everyday to be sure the lines still there? Ino that crazy and I can't test everyday. I just feel like I have no control and it's scary! Xx

@Skl2021 it's not crazy I'm the same 💕 I have everything crossed for you 💕🌈

@Cruz86, aw noo AF! I have tried vitex and think it helps me - 400mg in morning and evening either from ovulation to AF or after AF through to next AF. I've seen both recommended and personally prefer it all the way through the cycle.

Also, try some acupuncture - it really seems to help with my spotting.

(Although remember we both got pregnant with the spotting - and iirc, both of us had MMC - i.e. nothing to do with implantation, just bad luck with either sperm or egg.)

@arianasky thankyou 💕 good luck this cycle ✨ xx

Thank you @Skl2021 🤞🏻🙏🏻🌈

@Cruz86 ahh ok...that sounds pretty rubbish..sorry to hear that. When's your appointment? Hope u don't have to wait too long xx

@Skl2021 😆😆🙈🙈 there better be cake...that's all I'm holding out for! How u doing this eve? X

I’m so confused! Ewcm all week with negative OPKs, high fertility detected today and I swear I am dry as a bone 😂

@PamelaDoov could u of already just ovulated? X

Just invested in a clear blue fertility monitor to feel control/have something to obsess over...
@pameladoov I think ewcm can come before O then once O happens things dry up?
@Cruz86 I’ve personally heard vitex can go either way, though I did try it when ttc 8 years ago and I got pregnant that cycle, so dunno what it would or would not have done for cycles but was certainly happy with it. Seconding acupuncture...I like knowing I can obsess to him as well and ask him all ttc related stuff. It’s like half therapist half physical help.
@Skl2021 hope you’re feeling bit calmer...it’s hard. If I get pregnant again I am gonna have to remortgage my house to pay for tests and scans to reassure myself. There won’t be anywhere to bring the baby home to 😯

@calimc83 @Ganesh2022 that seem to be the only explanation but then why would the opks have been negative all week and high fertility today? Not even peak today, which it would be if I ovulated. So weird. I’m gonna carry on testing every day and see where it goes.

@PamelaDoov yeah keep on testing! Make sure you DTD tonight though 😉 just incase x

@PamelaDoov hmmm good point. I think sometimes those things give us a rough indication/aren't as perfect as they ought to be. I also wonder if we're now hyperaware of everything b/c of ttc and miscarriage where for all we know the things that we're noticing would've been our normal pattern before but we wouldn't have thought about it? Wish we had mini ultrasounds machines at all times!! I hate not knowing.

Hello, can I join you all please? I had a MMC over Christmas, scan saw no hb at 10 weeks on 30/12 but measuring 7. Had an MVA on 5/1 and jumped straight back into TTC as soon as bleeding stopped a week later. Previously had a 25 day cycle so going by that until proven otherwise! Fully do not expect to get a BFP this month but definitely hopping straight on board the ttc train

@calimc83 already have haha

@Ganesh2022 yeah I think especially with this being the first cycle, you’ve gotta take it all with a pinch of salt really. I mean I really hope I get pregnant but if I do have to go to cycle 2 it’ll be a lot easier to know what’s going on

@PamelaDoov 😆😆😆 not messing about then! X

@calimc83 it was strictly business lol I’m too full of a cold to actually enjoy it 😂

@PamelaDoov sounds like me last week! Desperately trying not to sneeze at the crucial moment 😅🙈 x

@calimc83 haha cake and food 😋 I'm doing ok trying to keep my shit together 🤯🤦 how's the crazy Train going? Is the tww getting to you now?! 🙈 Xx

@Ganesh2022 I'm trying to breathe and take it day by day 🙈 but yes it's a whirlwind! I'm always wanting to test and it's going to cost a fortune in tests and like u say I will probably need a scan sooner than later! Everything is so expensive! 🙈 X

@Skl2021 💯 just costing up the price of Frers as we speak..tell me about your pregnancy symptoms in the 2WW?! X

Kept refreshing the other thread all day thinking where had everyone gone, just finally seen this one 🤣 Hope we are all doing okay! Ive been back at work today after isolation so haven’t tested (been so busy and distracted) but I have a digital sat in the bathroom waiting for me to test in the morning when it would be my expected AF. My “wetness” down there is driving me insane keep thinking I’m bleeding going to the toilet constantly to check! Lots of nausea though so that’s reassuring in an annoying way 🤣

@Skl2021 your line progression looks really good especially on the FRER, I dont think the poundshop ones are that great! Please try not to worry too much I know its easier said than done

How many of you guys are on the 2WW now? Can’t wait to see some more BFPs!

@calimc83 I know IV been looking as I only have one more 🙈 there cheap on Amazon but I don't have prime 🙈 🤣 well I was on denial the whole tww 🤣 erm I had backache and one day around 8/9 I had like cold symptoms and sinus problems and a really bad headache. I have never had sinus problems before and it felt like someone was squeezing my head 🙊 not a usual headache. But then day after it was gone 🤔 xx

@Cindy974 I was wondering where you were 🙊 I did tag you! I think 🤔 yes im.just concerned why I'm not getting lines on all my other tests! Is that poundshop one the same as yours? It's meant to be 10miu 😬 ooh let us know how your digital goes 🙌 I'm too scared to take one of them! Xx

@Cindy974 you did tag me but I got lost 🤣 Yeah its the same one I got! My lines are definitely getting darker but took a good few days! Plus its the inconsistency across the different brands which is probably not good for our obsessiveness. Do you still have ICs?

@Cindy974 you have just tagged yourself 🤣 did u mean me?! I would have thought the line would be darker on them as I'm getting decent lines on frer? That's what's worrying me! No I ran out 🙈 wish I didn't! Might see if I can find some cheap strip tests tomorrow to try 🙄 xx