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Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨ lucky thread 3!

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Skl2021 · 27/01/2022 21:56

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Skl2021 · 31/01/2022 12:51

@calimc83 yes you do! 🤣🙌😝 Think positive! I don't know tbh think I'm in denial I don't want to admit that I am if that makes sense? My head is just wanting to protect me? I feel bad for even saying that when I should be grateful I am. Think it's just taking longer to get my head around. I didn't test today again X

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Skl2021 · 31/01/2022 12:52

@Bridgey8 I was going to ask how u got on!! I wouldnt worry your just 5 weeks now and it wasn't fmu! Does it feel real? How u doing xx

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PamelaDoov · 31/01/2022 13:00

@Skl2021 haha super egg 😂 I had ovulation bleeding only once before in my life, I was like daym that egg went hard 😂
@Ganesh2022 I did think that to be honest, but I’ve had so many scans and examinations in my life (including scan of ovaries) and there’s never been anything of concern. Or can they just pop up randomly?

Skl2021 · 31/01/2022 13:06

@PamelaDoov there ya go then 🤣 you just have a super egg popping out 🙊 let's hope it's good news! 🤞 X

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Cindy974 · 31/01/2022 13:15

@Han888 I miscarried Christmas day followed by a negative test. Im now pregnant again without having a period in between so it’s entirely possible and sounds like a new pregnancy to me! Congratulations x

@Bridgey8 That sounds about right, do you drink alot of liquids before bed? I always found my second morning urine was stronger

These wet knickers are driving me mad! Ive been to the toilet at work today about ten times to check I’m not bleeding 🥴

PamelaDoov · 31/01/2022 13:18

@Skl2021 well I just had to dash to the loo because I thought I was bleeding heavier but it was just loads of ewcm so that’s good! Mixed with a bit of blood but not a huge amount.
Day 4 of flashing smiley, hope it goes static soon!

Skl2021 · 31/01/2022 13:20

@PamelaDoov yes.must definitely be ovulation then with lots of ewcm! Good luck hope it's not much longer for you! Get busy 🙊 xx

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Skl2021 · 31/01/2022 13:22

@Cindy974 I'm the same! Convinced that it's blood! Terrifies me everytime I check when I wipe! X

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Ganesh2022 · 31/01/2022 14:06

@PamelaDoov for me it kinda popped up randomly but I hadn't had that area looked at in a while, so if you have that's probably not it...fingers crossed it's a super egg...or...two...? Confused

@Bridgey8 those tests destroyed me last time...! I heard these were banned in USA as they're so inaccurate. Also, we never for sure know when O was unless it's IVF/similar... I'd only look into it more if it went backwards; 2-3 seems perfect for where you are Flowers

Ganesh2022 · 31/01/2022 14:10

@Cindy974 when did you ovulate after miscarriage? I'm not waiting for period to start...don't have it in me...did you just track it with OPK and try then?

PamelaDoov · 31/01/2022 14:10

@Ganesh2022 two eggs! Why the hell not, let’s have twins, I’m open to anything at this point 😂

flowergarden16 · 31/01/2022 15:25

@Bridgey8 those CB test are confusing, I think you add two weeks to what it says as they are actually post ovulation dates - when conception occurred, whereas we count from the date of missed period which is two weeks before x it's a US/UK thing I believe

uk.clearblue.com/pregnancy-tests/digital-with-weeks-indicator

Han888 · 31/01/2022 15:58

Thank you all, I've not had a period yet since the miscarriage so didn't think it would be possible to track ovulation / get pregnant so soon - that was the plan for next month Hmm
I called the early pregnancy unit that followed my miscarriage and they said to test again in a week and see if its still positive then go in to them to see.
Fingers cross for everyone too. So bloody stressful all this testing and waiting malarky xx

Bridgey8 · 31/01/2022 16:00

@Skl2021 still doesn't feel real and to be honest I'm not sure when it will? I'm just expecting to miscarry the same as last time 😭 will we ever stop feeling like that? How are you feeling?

@Cindy974 I did drink over a litre of water on the flight and then a cup of decaf coffee on drive home (obvs peed loads on plane and in arrivals and then had a 3 hourish hold before I got home!

@Ganesh2022 gahh I know they are a nightmare. Fingers crossed mine are going the right way.

@flowergarden16 ah thanks I knew that. I'm just worried as at 5 weeks I think I should be 3+ but I guess I'm prob a bit on verge right now!

Might for a frer in the morn with fmu and see how that is looking and then my other digital a bit later in the week!

Xxx

Cindy974 · 31/01/2022 16:50

@Skl2021 awful isn’t it! I know its a good thing and normal but doesn’t help us from panicking 🤣 do you have many other symptoms at the moment?

@Ganesh2022 So I stopped bleeding around the 31st, starting doing opks but just the cheap ones because I wanted to see if and when I’d ovulate, then I got positive opks on the 12th and 13th so I ovulated around 2 and a half weeks after x

calimc83 · 31/01/2022 17:30

@arianasky @Skl2021 I have the urge to POAS...🙈🙈😫 x

Ganesh2022 · 31/01/2022 17:47

@Cindy974 Thanks! Very much hoping for the same but I think it's taking everything a while to settle...

@calimc83 I know that urge so well. I sometimes wonder if I'll still be peeing on sticks long after my family is complete...what would make you feel worse, doing it and potentially getting a negative (just b/c it's so early) or not doing it at all and sitting with the need to do it? For me they feel equally shit..!

Skl2021 · 31/01/2022 17:59

@Bridgey8 how far were you when u miscarried? I was ten weeks but found out at 12 and feel like I need to get past that point but it's ages away. I hope it gets easier as it's horrible constantly worrying! Xx

@Cindy974 I don't really have any symptoms which is making me worry but I don't think I had them last time either until 6ish weeks. Dont know if thats good or bad 🤦 have u got any? X

@calimc83 well you know me I would of done it 🙈 but I need to be a good influence on you! Thought u wanted to save your tests? 😬👀 Xx

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calimc83 · 31/01/2022 18:00

@Ganesh2022 😆 I've never been an early tester..But I feel like if test early, know it's negative, then I can just move on, not thinking 'what if' constantly until AF arrives and rains on my parade...🙈 xx

Bridgey8 · 31/01/2022 18:03

@Skl2021 I had a scan at 6+5 and they just thought i was earlier than I thought (but I knew I wasn't) so had to wait another 10 days and the sac had grown but nothing else. They said I could have got to 12 weeks not knowing and found out at scan... so glad I had to scan early. Body didn't want to give it up tho so had to have surgery. So I will be worried sick going into that scan that they will say the same thing...

calimc83 · 31/01/2022 18:07

@Skl2021 I do...but....the urge is consuming me now! 😆😆, are u going to speak to the doctor re a blood test or are u feeling a bit better today? X

Skl2021 · 31/01/2022 18:09

@Bridgey8 yes I wouldn't want to get to 12 weeks to find that out. I was thinking of getting an early scan but can't decide when to do it and I'm scared incase it's bad news! I'm hoping it gets a bit easier as time goes on we can only hope 🤞 are you telling anyone? X

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arianasky · 31/01/2022 18:11

@calimc83 I have the same urge 😂 I was literally just thinking to myself if I'm 8dpo tomorrow is it worth testing haha 😂 I think I'll try and hold off until Wednesday/Thursday but I know what I'm like haha! You had any more symptoms at all today?

Skl2021 · 31/01/2022 18:11

@calimc83 if you can handle a negative then go for it! But remember your still early! I tested from day 7 and didn't get a positive until 11 so don't assume your out straight away. But if it's postive then that's amazing! I like to find out asap! Depends what u can handle xx

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Ganesh2022 · 31/01/2022 18:16

I find negatives at like 7-10 dpo so hard b/c it's the shit feeling of the negative coupled with the fact that it isn't conclusive yet and I can't really move on :(