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TTC NOVEMBER 2021

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Lua2020 · 30/10/2021 14:34

Well… AF came and got me in a big way today so on to the next cycle anyone else TTC November 2021?

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CrumchyLeafs · 11/11/2021 11:27

@SD89 10DPO is only a 66% chance to get a positive! Don't be discouraged! You might have also ovulated a little bit later than you think so there is still a good chance you will get your BFP soon!

@SantiagoSister I am a control freak too, especially when I get really into something and want it to happen so bad! I am annoying DH daily with talks about pee-sticks and temperature and he's like "JUST RELAX! ITS GONNA BE FINE!" but I just can't relax! It's so hard to be patient.

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SantiagoSister · 11/11/2021 11:29

@Natalie2304 I hear that so much, that it happens when you relax and don’t stress about it all. I’m glad it worked like that for you before, it must be true! I too am a massive worrier, and I can’t ever imagine not being obsessed with TTC no matter how hard I try lol I really must work on it!!

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SantiagoSister · 11/11/2021 11:32

@CrumchyLeafs I’m so glad it’s not just me who is like that, it soo hard to be patient. I am wary of annoying DP with too much talk of TTC, he’s never shown that he’s getting annoyed but I just don’t want it to become that way, that’s why I’m so grateful for these threads so I can talk all my craziness out here with you guys instead 😂

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Natalie2304 · 11/11/2021 12:23

@SD89 with my daughter I got a BFN on 10DPO and then a very faint positive on 11DPO, it wasn't clear until AF was due. There's definitely still hope!

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melbxldn · 11/11/2021 12:36

I got a negative today :( but still early, I think I’m 10dpo at the latest. Felt really nauseous but could be the anxiety of waiting! Sending lots of luck to everyone

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melbxldn · 11/11/2021 12:37

I had negatives at 10 and 11 with my
Son and a positive at 13

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newjourney21 · 11/11/2021 13:47

Hi everyone! I was hoping to join this thread after being a lurker on here as I have just finished my pill only yesterday to start the TTC journey! It's so nice to read other people's experiences and be able to share my own as none of my friends and family know anything just yet 

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Theresamagicalplace · 11/11/2021 14:01

I got a blaring positive ovulation test this morning so I guess tomorrow is officially 1dpo? With how bad I've been for taking the opks I imagine I'll be testing from about 2dpo Grin

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Natalie2304 · 11/11/2021 14:03

@Theresamagicalplace welcome to the TWW! Sending lots of luck 🤞🏻

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Natalie2304 · 11/11/2021 14:03

@newjourney21 Welcome to the thread! Good luck for your first cycle! Lots of baby dust your way Smile

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MummyBear405 · 11/11/2021 14:35

Hi everyone!

I'm so pleased that there's a thread already, I'm only 3dpo & already losing my mind! Anyone have any tips on how to deal with the wait?

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Natalie2304 · 11/11/2021 15:07

@MummyBear405 my only tip would be to try your hardest not to symptom spot. It drives you insane and sends you on a right rollercoaster of emotions!
Just enjoy relaxing, you've done the hard part and if it's your month then it might be the last time you feel yourself for a while!
Good luck to you ❤️

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Whoknew22 · 11/11/2021 15:48

@Theresamagicalplace I was in the same situation. Had a blaring positive then the next day negative so took that I was then 1 DPO. Unsure if that’s even true. So I’m now saying I’m 10DPO but who knows if that’s right. I’m new to this ovulation testing. It’s a minefield xx

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CrumchyLeafs · 11/11/2021 15:55

I thought the day after the positive ovulation test is the actual ovulation day? Do you count from the test day or the day after?

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Theresamagicalplace · 11/11/2021 15:58

@Natalie2304 thanks! I hate it already 😂 just want to know! I'm so impatient haha.

@Whoknew22 yeah same, I'm guessing but have no clue if that's actually right haha. Gives us an excuse to test sooner if we got it wrong though BlushGrin

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Theresamagicalplace · 11/11/2021 16:00

Oh @CrumchyLeafs is it the day after? I honestly have no clue but I'm probably getting ahead of myself haha

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Whoknew22 · 11/11/2021 16:25

@CrumchyLeafs yeh you are probably right. Which may mean I am 9 DPO today. I’ll test again tomorrow regardless. Xx

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MummyBear405 · 11/11/2021 16:51

[quote Natalie2304]@MummyBear405 my only tip would be to try your hardest not to symptom spot. It drives you insane and sends you on a right rollercoaster of emotions!
Just enjoy relaxing, you've done the hard part and if it's your month then it might be the last time you feel yourself for a while!
Good luck to you ❤️[/quote]
@Natalie2304 thanks, I know I shouldn't but I can't help it! I've been so tired today and then I had some back pain similar to when I'm on my period ... really trying not to get my hopes up!

Where you you in your cycle?

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SD89 · 11/11/2021 17:01

@Essexnewbie @SantiagoSister

Thanks for the support and fingers and toes crossed for you both this month too!! Not getting too hung up on it is definitely easier said than done, just have to trust it will happen when it's right!

I'll hold out hope for a few more days! :-D

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SD89 · 11/11/2021 17:03

@Whoknew22

Thanks, that's so helpful!! AF is due Monday so will see what that brings!

xx

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SD89 · 11/11/2021 17:08

@CrumchyLeafs

Thanks! I'm going to stay positive :-D

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SD89 · 11/11/2021 17:09

@Natalie2304

Thanks, that's really good to know!! I have hope for tomorrow! xx

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Natalie2304 · 11/11/2021 17:33

@MummyBear405 I'm only on 1DPO 😩 so a while to wait yet!
All positive symptoms for you though!

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Natalie2304 · 12/11/2021 15:47

How's everyone feeling today? Xx

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Essexnewbie · 12/11/2021 16:26

@Natalie2304 first time BD in my first ever cycle of TTC this morning so feeling excited but trying not to obsess over things and anticipating it could be a long road ahead. You? X

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