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Here I go again...TTC Bus 45 - blood sucking dungeons, whitesnake and angry cervixes all welcome...

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larrythelizard · 16/07/2021 14:35

Your service has been interrupted as your normal bus driver has connectivity issues. Just as well there's a driver out there who's done the route as cover before...! As ever, apologies if I've got any of it wrong!

Here is the bus where anything goes, and chat isn’t just TTC it’s anything. Ranting very much encouraged to her things off your (are they sore boobs?!) chest. The last bus had loads of work promotions too & we’ve still got interviews so hopefully it’s a lucky bus in more ways than just making babies.

We are here to help and support each other & anything goes. We’ve had losses, heartache & some super fertile short ride passengers so welcome all.

The price of your bus pass is an embarrassing story please, doesn’t have to go be TTC related but can you beat breaking a guy’s banjo in a BJ or whilst DTD?! 🤞🏻🙌🏻

And if you see mention of minster's blog then blame the ladies on the thread but @minster2012 needs to carry on with it it, I’ve been lazy! #shamelessplug

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Lexber · 30/07/2021 16:34

Having an hour on the sofa and someone knows I need a cuddle... she's wrapped herself around my neck bless her

Here I go again...TTC Bus 45 - blood sucking dungeons, whitesnake and angry cervixes all welcome...
Minster2012 · 30/07/2021 16:36

@Kirky658 STEP AWAY FROM THE POKING THE FOOF 🤣🤪

@Laurenxx94 DS was 3 so quite young (and frustrated) for a lot of games sadly 😫

Juno231 · 30/07/2021 17:56

@vil10 exactly what @inkypaper said! It can fluctuate a fair bit with stress as well so they'll just want to double check it. For a prolactinoma I gather it has to be very elevated and not just borderline - so will be interesting to see what the results say! High prolactin can get in the way of conception though, that's why breastfeeding often prevents pregnancies. As for what levels to check against in general - the paperwork from the NHS will give the normal levels for each thing they tested normally.

Oh and very important for OH to keep the swimmers at body temp - they usually advise to pop it inside your shirt against your body to keep it warm.

Franklydear · 30/07/2021 19:27

Note to self, stop checking for af, food starting to feel irritated

Kirky658 · 30/07/2021 19:45

Well weeks annual leave started with me getting irritated with DH as it appears he's uncapable of cooking a meal without messing up my lovely clean kitchen 😬😅

Franklydear · 30/07/2021 20:32

@Kirky658 oh you're entering the stage where everything will irritate you🥰 you just have to remember he is lovely

I've been checking my stats and most cycles are 24 days so something should happen tomorrow, although a couple were 27

Vil10 · 30/07/2021 20:34

@Lexber aw I can imagine! It's so shit isn't it! I'm 11dpo tomorrow so if my rhr rises tomorrow I might test in the morning, but don't know if I'll just feel sad!

@Laurenxx94 stay strong!! Or order some ic's on prime😂x

@Franklydear oooo, are you feeling hopeful?? Nope nothing, cramps have stopped and so has the spotting!

@InkyPaper @Juno231 Thankyou ladies!! So what happens if the next time they're still high (if that's the case, I don't actually know if they're high or low) like is it something they can rectify? And do we know what causes it?

@Kirky658 yayy to annual leave!

kaylsd · 30/07/2021 20:45

Litterally so blessed to have this sisterhood, thank you all for your kind words and assistance with the metformin, No shits at the moment from taking it so not panicking about passing wind since taking them 💩 🤣

Just having a quick little catch up over the last 24 hour since I got busy at work last 2 days ❤️

@Minster2012 how’s your cycle coming along sweet I saw there’s no joy at the moment :(? is it being like the boys in casa amor in love island sending mixed messages 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Sending hugs thou it’s shit when our ovaries don’t behave!

@vil10 I literally scrolled back and thought of positive vibes for you then saw your recent post, god damn AF being a pain in the arse as normal showing up with no supplies & when least expect 😫😫😫😫 sending hugs

@InkyPaper sending hugs hunny, I know it might have not been the route you would have preferred to go down but hopefully the outcome is positive with it all and be successful in your TTC journey ❤️

@laurenxx94 I can see something in that ring picture :o! Provisional bit of excitement for you hopefully it’ll get stronger for you as days ahead come along 🤞🏻

@Dollybird89 good luck with your appointment I hope it’s a productive one for you like mine was 😃😃

I’m just sat with hub & BIL and his best mate whilst I’ve got a coffee and being the dedicated driver driving them all back home tonight just caught up on last nights love island (TOBY THOUUUUU WILL HE EVER LEARN) 😫😫😫 Hope everyone is okay lovely ladies and have an amazing weekend!

Franklydear · 30/07/2021 20:47

@Vil10 I don't dare, I've been here before, and even with a positive, I would need to pass the 6 weeks, is that enough? I don't know, I don't feel periody, are you? are you planning to test?

Kirky658 · 30/07/2021 20:48

@franklydear to be fair he did cook an amazing risotto so think I was a bit hangry

Dollybird89 · 30/07/2021 20:49

@kaylsd thanks... I'm really nervous, OH has to work so it's just going to be me which I hope will be ok. I have no idea what to expect, all I got with my letter was that they want fmu sample and a basic form with just my name and address filling out? I'm super scared they gonna turn round and blame my weight, or be arsy because oh couldn't attend. Would be epic if they tested and I was pg 🤣 cd 23 atm and got few minor cramps so prob af due imminent

Laurenxx94 · 30/07/2021 20:51

@kaylsd really hope it's something but can't get excited just yet!
so nervous about the recoupling tonight love island ! What do you thinks gonna happen poor teddy!

@Vil10 I don't have prime going out tomorrow to get more frer and il do it on Sunday 😦 xx

Franklydear · 30/07/2021 20:57

@Laurenxx94 the hormone doesn't double so quickly so Sunday is a better day to retest,

kaylsd · 30/07/2021 21:00

@Dollybird89 it was the first thing they pulled me into do was drop off my lovely urine sample which was in a Tupperware box 🤣🤣 and weight and height to calculate my BMI which was 25.5 so I was happy with that to say in June it was 27 but I got into my mindset of switch my wine nights with cheese for dilute pop and a baby bel light 🤣, don't be nervous though! If you've got any questions I'd take in some in advance if you've got any at hand :)? I talked my consultant off to death 💀

@Laurenxx94 Give it another 24 hour before testing and maybe try test at another time of day some people find evening readings better than mornings? My predictions with teddy & fay is fay is going to be loyal even though she's very fuming with him and won't let him live it down but I've got a feeling she'll stay loyal! Same with Millie and Liam but I think it'll come to blows when the other side stories come out espesh with Liam, could have chucked my slipper at tv when I saw him kiss!😣 what do you think will happen 🙈

Dollybird89 · 30/07/2021 21:19

@kaylsd my BMI is above 50 .. it was originally over 70 but I been working on that, do they do any physical examination at first appointment or is it all just talking?

kaylsd · 30/07/2021 21:37

@Dollybird89 I had a physical examination of feeling my stomach / lower pelvis & cervical with speculum to check if that appears normal, you've got this girl sounds like you've been doing so well already keep it up ❤️❤️

Juno231 · 30/07/2021 21:53

@vil10 if it's a little bit high they'll most likely just ignore it - if very high they might send you in for an mri to see if you have a prolactinoma on your pituitary gland. This can then be treated either with meds or a small procedure. Very manageable overall I believe and certainly fixable!

Laurenxx94 · 30/07/2021 22:12

@kaylsd yeah il test on Sunday going to get more tests. Just spoke with someone who tested on Wednesday and had the exact same line as me and everything and AF showed for her so I have a feeling it's maybe been an evap or indent 😞

What about love island though? I've never sobbed at a tv programme but that was emotional to watch! Xx

kaylsd · 30/07/2021 22:19

@Laurenxx94 I'm sick of the cliff hanger endings though! I come back every night it's on so they don't need to keep doing it to us 🤣🤣🤣 I'm heartbroken for Millie :( I wish the postcard could have shown how bad Liam truly was behind her back! But my heart broke abit for both faye and teddy! Oh the emotions 👀🥺🤣🙈
Good luck for your next testing day hoping those lines get darker for you ❤️

InkyPaper · 31/07/2021 00:30

@Vil10 so when mine came back high(er) the GP referred me to the Endocrinology department at the hospital. The consultant there listened to my medical history, looked at the results and said he needed another blood test to check if it was a stress response. So I had to have a cannula put in, the nurse took my blood, then I had to lay there with the cannula in for half an hour before she took it again. Basically, just having your blood taken can create a stress response, so by using a cannula they can see if the level drops or stays the same. If it went up, the consultant said I would need an MRI to check for a microprolactinoma as my levels weren't high enough to suggest a big one (if there was anything there). He was satisfied after those last blood tests that it wasn't one. If your test results showed prolactin levels in the tens of thousands, it would probably go as @Juno231 said and you'd be straight in for an MRI. Mine was around the 1500 mark or something, I think, and they released me with no further treatment as it'll likely sort itself out.

@kaylsd thanks lovely ❤️

bez91 · 31/07/2021 07:45

@Vil10 sounds good love a roast! I hope it's the friends your drinking with aren't these fertile ones you seem to be surround by 😅 Chilled one today and swimming tomorrow, hoping to get some major exercise in this weekend. Slacked this week with lack of time.

@Lexber wow commiserations on your 'treat' drive you're planning for today 😆 I'm due Wednesday, thurs or fri 🤷‍♀️ so will probably be with you. Hidden the only FRER I have in the house

@Franklydear hope the fun day can still go ahead, those things never seem to work out and it's a shame when they're once a year, still rubbish weather here !

@Kirky658 enjoy your week off, any plans? and @Dollybird89 good luck for today.

Here I am saying I'm not symptom spotting 🙄 but my boob pain is very noticeable, they're all puffy and sore and nips are on fire 🔥 , may have to wear a sports bra to get my little B cups through the day 😆

Franklydear · 31/07/2021 07:52

@bez91 it’ll go ahead, this is a bunch of resilient resourceful woman, much like ourselves, where there’s a will, there’s a way! The weather is here is not great but doesn’t look too bad at the moment
Symptom spot away, just don’t test silly willy, when are you due?

Kirky658 · 31/07/2021 07:54

@bez91 thanks lovely, ooooo that sounds promising 🙏❤️ we are off to Wales tomorrow for a few days as its our 2nd anniversary on Wednesday, can't wait! Currently feeling smug as the dog had a lie in till 7:45 so sitting in bed with a coffee... That never happens 🤣

blackcurrantqueen · 31/07/2021 08:32

@bez91 quietly rooting for you

@Vil10 I need an AF update 😂

@InkyPaper we are all here whenever you need us 💕 I think mixed emotions is perfectly normal for all you are going through!

@Laurenxx94 hope that line is strong for you today 🤞🏼

Juno231 · 31/07/2021 08:55

Went to bed at 9.30pm last night as I was so knackered from the jab still but only managed to fall asleep at 2am! Thought of you @Franklydear - you seem to be awake less at night atm though?

OH was out at work drinks last night and didn't know I managed to pick up a ps5 after work. Set it all up last night and had it running overnight to transfer our files over from the ps4 + downloaded the game he's been dying to play on it. All so it would be ready to go once he got up this morning. Omg you should have seen his face when he entered the living room 🤣. So giddy and happy, like a boy on Christmas day!