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Anyone else in 2ww??

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WillowRose1411 · 05/02/2021 08:49

Hello!
I’m a mummy to 2 girls ttc our 3rd rainbow baby after a loss last month. I’m officially 4dpo is anyone else in their 2 week wait who can join me?
Might be nice to get to know some other mummies to be to help ease the stress 🥰❤️

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WillowRose1411 · 14/02/2021 07:15

Bfn for me this morning on a frer. I think it would show up by now if I was pregnant so I think I’m out 😔
Happy Valentine’s Day ❤️

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WillowRose1411 · 14/02/2021 07:16

Bfn for me this morning on a frer. Think it would show up by now if I was pregnant so I think I’m out 😔
Happy Valentine’s Day ❤️

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WillowRose1411 · 14/02/2021 07:30

Didn’t mean to post twice!
@Cakelaur out of interest why do people do that with a ring ive seen it on other threads too? No more testing for me a FRER seems pretty final so will wait for af on Tuesday
Let us know if af turns up! X

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Cakelaur · 14/02/2021 07:41

So the ring gives your phone something to focus on. I only did it cos I was sending the pic to a mate who insists on me putting the ring on. I don't think I makes much difference! 😂

Cakelaur · 14/02/2021 07:41

Happy Valentine's Day everyone! ♥️♥️♥️

girlmummy25 · 14/02/2021 07:51

BFN are crappy! Sorry ladies. Still hopeful for you all though that it could be too early!

CD3 for me - next month my test is due on Mothers Day - could be a very good or a very bad one!

I think im going stop trying for 1 month next month as if I fell pregnant the baby would be due around 22nd December and its just too close for xmas for me. I know that probably sounds so stupid for some people

MeltingSnowflake · 14/02/2021 08:48

Sorry @WillowRose1411 and @Cakelaur ☹️

I’m also BFN today - but at least there’s tonnes of chocolate in the house today! 🙈

Roll on March!

MeltingSnowflake · 14/02/2021 08:49

Oh and sorry to you too @Inthetww ❤️

Cakelaur · 14/02/2021 09:02

Sorry for all the bfns. They are really pretty shit! I've just bought a ridiculous amount of stuff for this month.
Conceive plus gel, cheap opks, fertility monitor opks, 4 x frer and I've paid for fertility friend! 🙈 £100!! Hubby isn't best impressed! 😂 I told him it was his Valentine's Day present! Now I just need af to show up so I can get cracking.

Also those that do bbt. Do you take mouth temperature or vaginal?

1sttime21 · 14/02/2021 09:11

Another positive opk and no spotting since yesterday morning 🙄 when will this cycle of madness end😂 so over it this month

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WillowRose1411 · 14/02/2021 09:21

@Cakelaur I ended up paying for 1 month of ff this month too 🙈 I take it orally under the tongue. Since someone mentioned to me on here I use a corrector website for when I wake earlier or later than usual and it adapts the temperature accordingly.
Shall we start a new thread for feb/March??
Yes thank god for chocolate today! Also been bought gin by my husband so will be having a big one today with my roast dinner!
@girlmummy25 doesn’t sound silly it’s totally up to you. If we don’t succeed the next 2 months then I’ll have to stop for about a year 😭

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Cakelaur · 14/02/2021 09:51

@girlmummy25 doesn't sound crazy. We're thinking about taking a break over Dec-March births, because we around 40 birthdays across the three months! 🙈 all of hubby's family have their birthdays then, plus xmas, our first is December and the three of my best friends have kids in Feb, and two in March, plus Valentine's Day and Mother's Day! It's utter madness! But we're thinking about just going for it anyway cos this it seeming trickier than we'd planned. And we're only gonna try until the end of this year. Then we'll call it a day I think.

ContadoraExplorer · 14/02/2021 11:09

I tested this morning too and BFN. Was half convinced I could see a really faint line but DH says he can't see anything. Bit more brownish pink blood today too and although my boobs still pretty sore (when they're not normally) I think I'm just getting early spotting for AF. Still not due until the end of the week so will keep an eye but think its gonna be a no this month. Sad

Cakelaur · 15/02/2021 07:53

How's everyone doing this morning?
I'm still having weird light watery red/pink discharge. Just want AF to bloody show up!! so frustrating!

I'm all set for a super charged ttc month. Stocked up with opks, and hpts and just wanna get cracking! I should be cd3 by now! 😫

JessWi · 15/02/2021 08:15

Still nothing happening here. No AF. No symptoms. Nothing 🤷‍♀️

ContadoraExplorer · 15/02/2021 08:29

A little spotting throughout the day yesterday, it was (possible TMI) brown and quite dry although had a little fresh blood right before I went to bed. I had a weird pulling sensation around my belly button last night which obviously I googled and again it could be a symptom but otherwise I just feel like I'm getting AF early. Looking back at last month on Ovia, I started spotting around the same time for 4 days before she turned up so reckon it's just going to be the same.

I'm the same though, just want it to come so that I know but not due until Friday.

Rmd123 · 15/02/2021 08:45

10 DPO this morning and BFN! Still holding out that it will change into a BFP before AF shows 😣

Cakelaur · 15/02/2021 09:10

Sorry ladies. Sounds like a shit month all round!

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WillowRose1411 · 15/02/2021 09:54

Good morning. My temp shot right down this morning and my ovulation day changed AGAIN. Apparently I’m 15dpo so should get af today if that’s correct (which I don’t think it is!) I think the high temp on cd 16 due to a bad night sleep messed everything up so I’ve just deleted it from my chart!
Expecting the nasty bitch tomorrow or weds.
Feeing really defeated about it all- like I said before I’m running out of time a bit as my sisters IBIZA hen do and wedding are June 2022 and I don’t want to have a baby younger than 6 months really 😔 or be pregnant (think I may get a few looks!) this month would have been perfect time wise.
Still have my fingers crossed for those of you still in! And hope af turns up for you @Cakelaur have you tested? Xx

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WillowRose1411 · 15/02/2021 09:56

@Cakelaur have you tested again I mean

Anyone else in 2ww??
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Cakelaur · 15/02/2021 10:03

@WillowRose1411 haven't tested again. More Frer arrive today. But opk was negative this morning, so I figure that suggests negative hpt. I really don't know what to think. Because I tested randomly throughout the TWW with opks just to make sure I didn't get a second peak. And I didn't. So no idea what's going on. I did have a similar thing with my first son though, my period just never really came and on 15dpo I finally got a positive. So who knows. 13dpo today. I'll give it a few more days then test again.

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WillowRose1411 · 15/02/2021 10:08

Same thing happened with me with my second daughter I didn’t get my bfp until 15-17dpo. I just feel like I’m out because of my temp shooting down but who knows!
I’ve never got a positive opk when pregnant just so you know I thought they tested for 2 different hormones?
Imagine if you were pregnant with that £100 you spent on you new ttc kit! 😂

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Cakelaur · 15/02/2021 10:19

I know! Hubby will lose his shit! 😂 he's not best pleased I spent the money anyway!! 😂😂

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WillowRose1411 · 15/02/2021 10:20

There are worse things to be annoyed over if you were actually pregnant I’m sure he’d come around 😆
Ahh I just hate the not knowing and clinging on to that glimmer of hope only to be greeted with af shortly after 😭

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Cakelaur · 15/02/2021 10:41

Me too. Usually I pee on an frer and AF shows up straight after. This time round it's been days! 🙈
I was kinda excited to start temping again! Hahah! How sad is that!