TTC Feb 2021

[HattieJJ88]

Hiya lovelies 😘

I just wanted to Introduce myself, I'm Harriet I have a 10 month old and had my implant removed today! So we're going to try for another baby 🎉

I'm super excited to be starting the TTC process again and love to connect with like-minded ladies on the same journey ❤️

Hope you're all sane in lockdown 😘 xx

Literally the worst week. A work colleague miscarried and now a close friend of OH delivered a full term still born I actually feel sick and worried now for myself

@Markygirl1995 oh that sounds absolutely awful im so sorry to hear of your friends! It is a worrying time but just because its happened to them does not mean its going to happen to you and just remember there is absolutely nothing that u can do that will cause any of those things to happen, barring going and getting wasted or something like that! Just try stay positive and remember although these things do happen they are rare! Hope your ok!

@Sammmmmy1512 just in utter shock and not sure how to feel I dont even feel like I want to announce anything come 8 weeks time and I have no clue how OH is going to tell him as they're so close 😢

That's so sad @Markygirl1995 really sorry for you and them. I think there's no need to tell anyone for a long time we waited until I was 20 weeks to tel most people and 16 weeks to tell the first people so no rush there x

Morning ladies do you think this is strong enough for 12dpo ? It came up within the time frame can't believe it !

@mrssunshinexxx yep 100% congratulations!!!

@mrssunshinexxx wow that’s so exciting - it’s def a strong positive. Congratulations I am so happy for you.
I am 10 dpo and think I might test today using a FRER. Is this the first time you tested?

Thank you @Irishgirl1990 @Sammmmmy1512 I want you both to join me !
@Irishgirl1990 yes first time I tested if you possibly can try and wait another couple days ? I know it's hard ! Although I didn't use a FRER just a cheapie it's all I've got in

So ive just done another test and i can see a very very faint line. So faint i cant even get it in a picture. I thought i had line eyes but my OH can see it too. It was within the time but do u think if it was that faint its negative? Ill test again tomoro, what tests do u reccomend? This was an ovulation and pregnancy test pack from amazon so probs not the best tests

@mrssunshinexxx I did it :( and it was bfn. I just burst into tears, ttc is really hard, a lot harder than I thought it would be. I am just hoping that it’s maybe a little too early but will see. But I am so happy for you at least there is some good news today. Sounds positive for you too @Sammmmmy1512

@Irishgirl1990 don't lose hope. I tested on 9dpo and 10dpo and got bfn too! Its probs way too soon! Theres another girl in this thread who got negatives until AF was 3 days late aswell! Your not out until Af comes but yes it is really really hard. I have spent 3 years of my life so far trying for a baby, 2 years with my first and coming up to a year with this one. Its defo the most emotional thing ive ever been through! I almost convince myself im pregnant every month and then AF shows her big ugly head and it breaks me everytime! U got this! Be kind to yourself ❤

Thank you @Sammmmmy1512 for being so kind. I will try not too lose hope, in a way I feel I can wait to test as I don’t want to get another bfn. I just can’t stop bursting into tears and I have to go to work soon so I’m going to be an emotional wreck today. Fingers crossed. What dpo are you? And also to answer your question I recommend first response tests, I got an evap line on the clear blue tests once so I am a bit hesitant. Xxx

Oh bless you @Irishgirl1990 it is a rough journey I have been lucky to catch on so quick this time but it was a long or what felt like long 7 months with my first I know of course some people try for much much longer. 10dpo is really early you need to gove it atleast 48 hours so your levels can rise !

@Sammmmmy1512 pls put a picture on!

It wouldnt let me post pictures earlier but i went and bought superdrug ones because they have pink dye. Held my wee and dint drink for 2 hours and took another test and look!!!

I thought i would be over the moon but after my MC last month im plagued with anxiety and thinking its a false positive! I bought 4 tests and i am going to use them all 😂 Oviously we are so excited but im just so worried the same thing is going to happen again! It doesnt feel real at all!

@Irishgirl1990 im 13dpo today! Due AF on monday

It's not a false positive ! You are pregnant! Just take it one day at a time maybe In a week do a digital to see the progression ? @Sammmmmy1512 how amazing!

@mrssunshinexxx thankyou! Thats a good idea actually! As long as the lines getting darker ill be ok! Omg i cant believe this is happening!

@Sammmmmy1512 @mrssunshinexxx yayayay congratulations!!!! I made a november birth group on the pregnancy board xx

@mrssunshinexxx so I tested at 3:30am yesterday with a CB digital and I got my positive!!!! Me and my partner are over the moon we cannot believe it.

Praying I dont MC he just keeps saying don’t get your hopes up I have had spotting for the last 5 days but light brown not a lot but it has stopped today I have cramping in my left side but more like a twinge in my uterus and my boobs are really sore so hoping it’s all a good sign🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

Praying all is good🤞🏼🤞🏼🎉🎉

Ah that's amazing congratulations! @KLR2019 I'll tag you in the birth club thread ! Symptoms all sound good just try to relax sadly what will be will be but there is NO reason this won't be a happy and healthy pregnancy x

Can anyone else see this?

Came up at midnight last night , within a few mins! It’s very faint but it’s definitely there and it’s pink but it’s more prominent on one side, but definitely goes all the way across (the test line).

I was told literally a few weeks ago I probably won’t ovulate naturally and may need help in doing so, so I’ll be so shocked!!

Done 2 more this morning with FMU but negative.. but when I was pregnant with my little one I got positives in the evening and neg for two mornings after. Then it was pos anytime. I’m trying so hard not to get my hopes up...

Luck has it i had a blood test this morning which included HCG so I’ll find out 100% tomorrow but you ladies can surely understand how impatient I am😂😂

Must not get excited .. must not get excited !!

@Kimxo yes I can see the line- wohoo congratulations. Let us know how it goes with the blood test. My fingers are crossed for you.

I am 12dpo and unfort got a bfn this morning. Having shooting pains in my boobs and one side cramps, worried I am out this month. AF due on Thursday so will wait it out. Have one more frer left so I think I will use it on Friday if AF doesn’t show up.

I can see it too , big congratulations! @Kimxo

Hi guys just wondering if anyone is near their ovulation or tww again?! I think I’m going to ovulate around a weeks time ish!

It’s officially a year since we started ttc and trying to stay positive but super difficult when I can’t really speak to anyone I know as we haven’t told anyone

@Fraanne I missed our FW This month as hubby wasn’t feeling well so I already know we’re out this month 🙈

How exciting being close to your FW though! Lots of baby dust