TTC chat 2

[1992EM]

@apwilso @Tabbycat92 @laura2093 @TtcPhee @LRW26 @Highfalutinlootin @Mummy2girlz @laurielo @DNpink82 @Lozza85 @Dex1521 @Misty84 @Marcella84 @MiniBaker @Amy95 @MrsLauraM

I have made a new thread as the last one is almost full. I hope this ok @apwilso and have added as many people as I could find to it.

@apwilso hahah I would’ve done the same 😂😂 a showdown is a good sign!! Fingers crossed for you! Let’s hope you get a BFP!! Keep us posted x

@apwilso @DNpink82 haha I’d definitely done it in work too if I wasn’t working from home. I’ve no shame 😂

Update it was a no but either I have line eyes or what but I'm sure I saw another shadow but again couldn't really wee as I've been 3 times this morning already! No more testing now! Just going to leave it maybe you lol tomorrow x

Aw I really hope it is a vvfaint BFP but not to be a party pooper but was it anything like this in the pic I’ve attached. This was 10dpo I thought I’d got my vvvfaint BFP last cycle and then AF showed 😢 so mine ended up being an indent line

@apwilso sorry forgot to tag you above

@Dex1521 I've had similar in the past. I'm a bit numb to it to be fair because I won't believe it regardless!

@apwilso it’s heartbreaking isn’t it. The things we put ourselves through. I couldn’t believe it thought it was real I was so happy but so glad I waited until AF until telling OH as he’s have been even more disappointed than me I think. I’ve read online FRER are a nightmare for indents. Really do have everything crossed for you xx

@apwilso sorry to here about your negative test. I did laugh when you said you dipped it in the toilet as I also thought about this today when I forgot to do an opk. I waited and managed to get enough to test and turns out today is my peak which means flow is very accurate. x

@Louise2021 sorry to hear that you are worried about AF. TTC is stressful and this can impact AF. When I came off the pill I was told it can take a year to get back to regular cycles. My cycles are nothing like what they were when I first came off. Being a few days out doesn't mean there is anything wrong. This also doesn't mean you aren't pregnant and the only way to find out is to test. Good luck and please don't be so hard on yourself. 💕

Hiya ladies- been a bit quiet on here this week. I'm currently 5 DPO, for the last 2 mornings I have had (SORRY TMI!) thick creamy CM.
Tonight we DTD and it hurt, then followed by cramps and bloating which had gone after 30mins. Trying not to test early or symptom spot. I'm scared we are close to almost a year trying. Xxx

@laura2093 a bit too early to test but could be implantation. Hold of until at least 12dpo if you can before testing x

@Dex1521 it's awful isn't it! I'll just wait for my
AF now because the testing I've no joke done about 5 today. Still have the odd symptom. But not messing round all look like they had a slight shadow but not sure I'm not thinking positive until I either see the two lines instead of hoping for a line!

@1992EM fab news glad you got your reading. Nothing worse than weeing and going OH MH GODDDDDD I FORGOT TO TEST!!!!

@1992EM
Thanks so much for your response 💗 I plucked up the courage and took a test this afternoon, well I took FOUR! They was all BFP! Although on the fourth test the line showed a little lighter, could this have been because it was late afternoon urine? I’d had quite a lot of water too.. I’ve got a clear blue to take with first morning urine.. hoping it sticks! 💗 x

@apwilso it definitely is and then you have to wait all over again 🙈. X

I'm still on negative today 3 days late. I'm stressed so putting to that currently. Think I've seen some milky pink spotting so I will keep checking as per. Had bad nausea and stuff but not sure if it's stress or not

@apwilso I declared myself out a few days ago but AF never fully materialised- not enough to use a tampon or pad. So at 1 day late I took a test: negative. I’m now at 2 days late. So I don’t know what’s going on with my body. I’m usually regular like clockwork. Still feels like AF could arrive at any second and I’ve had all my usual PMS symptoms. Maybe stress causing the delay? Going to wait until tomorrow to take another test. Kept it from my OH initially but let him know this morning what was going on. So basically I’m a day behind you!! The fact that you’re feeling nauseous could be promising though?!?

@Louise2021 Congratulations, that didn’t take you long at all!😉 Very lucky xx

So it seems I'm in a similar situation to @apwilso and @Misty84! Due AF today and no sign yet, had tender boobs since 6dpo. Had some random twinges on my left side yesterday but that's it. I don't usually get sore boobs as a pms symptom.

I had an early mc in July so am feeling really nervous to test and can have cycles up to 30 days (day 29 today) so want to try to wait it out until early next week if I can. When would you test?

Congrats @Louise2021 - hope it sticks for you!

@Misty84 @Lozza85 how weird how were all in similar boats.

@Misty84 yeah not had anything to fill a pad but it's just annoyed me I'm always on the dot at 30 days and I'm on day 33!!! I've kept it from him because he's been away but he's back from work now so I've told him because I'm a bit down with other stuff so thought oh well tell him!

@Lozza85 exactly the same sore nipples since 6dpo like extremely sore. Lost that but very nausea and had some slight cramping and a heavy feeling. But I think my period is starting now.

Feel like my delay or anything will be stress related

@Louise2021 congratulations amazing news xx

@Lozza85 Maybe if you have cycles up to 30 days you should wait until day 31 to test? IF you can wait that long!!!🤪 I’m desperate to test again today but holding out until tomorrow. @apwilso I’m pretty convinced this is just related to stress too 😔 Which sucks as this is something that would make us feel so much happier if it happened! Xx

Looks like my spotting has turned into AF unfortunately. To be honest got quite a bit going on in my personal life with family and I think it might be best to take a break from the chat for w bit. I say this but ill be back by Monday. So I'll pop back in when I feel w bit better x

Sorry to hear that @apwilso, take some time out and be kind to yourself. Take care xx

Very sorry to hear that @apwilso. Rest up and take care of yourself xx

@Louise2021 congratulations, the lighter test may just be because your urine is more diluted . How was your test today?
@apwilso sorry to here AF has come . Take care and hopefully see you on here again soon x