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@apwilso @Tabbycat92 @laura2093 @TtcPhee @LRW26 @Highfalutinlootin @Mummy2girlz @laurielo @DNpink82 @Lozza85 @Dex1521 @Misty84 @Marcella84 @MiniBaker @Amy95 @MrsLauraM

I have made a new thread as the last one is almost full. I hope this ok @apwilso and have added as many people as I could find to it.

@Tabbycat92 I didn't get a faint line till 13 so fingers crossed

Update as well after being in a&e bleeding not stopped. Paid for private scan today and confirmed missed miscarriage. Heartbroken but I knew it was coming. I'm disgusted with how I've been treated by some of the staff that I've encountered. So I'm taking a break from this and hopefully I can try again soon.

Oh @apwilso I'm so sorry to hear this 😭 if you need to talk about anything , as someone who has suffered a MC too recently, I'm here. Take it easy, treat yourself kindly. Take all the vitamins your body needs to repair xxx

@Tabbycat92 thanks. I knew it had happen had a bad feeling but my boyfriend was trying to be positive so wasn't a shock. I will definitely take up a chat anytime!

@apwilso I am so sorry to hear this 😢 take care of yourself ❤
@tabbycat92 Sorry about your negative test. Best of luck in your next cycle 💕

14dpo and 4days late for AF, today but still bfn. No idea what's going on. Just want AF to show now so I can start planning for the next cycle 😞

@tabbycat92 sorry to hear this. Maybe keep doing opks incase you might ovulate again prior to a period. It is all such a mine field . Take care xx

AF finally arrived 5days late today. So glad it didn't keep me waiting any longer, desperate to start trying this cycle.
Hello again cd1...

@tabbycat92 so sorry AF has arrived best of luck in your next cycle x

I don't know how this even works now. The month I got pregnant I did nothing. No stress of testing etc so want to keep it like that but when did my cycle Start or is it a waiting game of my period to arrive and go from there x

@apwilso I ovulated between mc and period. So worth trying. Some people catch straight after! Apparently you're extra fertile after a mc (obviously didn't quite work for me)
I ovulated 2weeks and 2days after mc

Hello ladies,

I'm back after a break. We are now 1 month away from my partners 2nd SA - and our referral has been changed from routine to urgent to try and get things moving faster.

Does anyone have any 3% sperm morphology success stories? Xxx

@Tabbycat92 let's see what happens then! It's not a nice feeling at all part of me feels guilty but we've got a keepsakes box with my tests and stuff to get me through the grief!

@laura2093 hope you're doing okay! I've never heard of it to be honest not clued up at that side of things x

Hi ladies I’m back after some time away. Hope you’re all doing okay xx

So we’re currently on cycle like 15 I think, lost count now. By August it’ll be 12 months since I had a miscarriage so by then it’ll be a year and a half of trying (Its mad that I thought 6 months felt like a lifetime )

DH went for a SA and actually came back above average which was great to hear and all my tests came back fine so...why isn’t it happening?!?!? It’s really something I’ll never understand and I’m actually considering seeking some counselling because of how much TTC has affected my mental health. I’ve had a BFN today (10 DPO) and had sore boobs just after ovulation but they’ve started to stop hurting now so I just know I’m out this month.

I think I’ve not come to the realisation that maybe having a baby isn’t on the cards for us because if it were, there’s nothing really that should be stopping it and it’s just not happening for us.

Has anyone got any advice or words of wisdom please? x

Hey @LRW26 nice to hear from you again!
I'm now on cycle 10 since having my iud out. 😞
It's great to hear about DHs results, that's good news! Close friends of ours took 2 years to conceive, so you're definitely not out even though it may feel pointless at times!
I'd 100% encourage the counselling, though I've never had a need many friends have and found it very useful.
Though I've got no advice, we are all here for you on a similar journey. So come back and rant any time you need xx

I'm just entering my fertile week, and I've been so lapse this cycle. Keep forgetting my vitamins, haven't been LH testing. But I'm so relaxed so really hoping that'll help? 🤞

@LRW26 fingers crossed for you. Happy the results were good news! I've had friends take 1 month to 3 years to conceive so it's just the pick of the draw!

@Tabbycat92 I found doing nothing was the best thing!

I'm going into 4 weeks since my confirmed miscarriage. Having weird symptoms but done some testing nothing yet so don't know what point I'm at currently. Just want to know now! Feel like I've coped okay took about two weeks but feel better about it now xx

@apwilso I'm glad you're starting to feel better. 😊 do you know if you've ovulated this month?
It takes time to get over it doesn't it 😞
Its been 7 weeks since mine now, it's changed my cycle a fair bit, I really hope not doing much helps! 🤞

@Tabbycat92 I was LH testing before hand but I found a singular ovulation test in the cupboard and I did it the other day and it was dark shade as in a few days possibly before my peak but not done anymore before hand or after. I don't want to pressure myself to get pregnant quick as I'm a stress head x

How's everyone doing! X

Hey @apwilso I'm good, but been so lapse this cycle. Ovulation was supposed to be today, and only remembered to do LH strips for the last three days. None have been overly strong, so now I have no idea if I've already ovulated and missed it, or it's late. Haven't really had any tell-tale signs yet.

How are you?

@Tabbycat92 I found I stressed less not knowing and going with the flow! But then thought have j missed it!!

I'm still waiting on my period nothing as of yet. My boobs have got massive again and quite heavy and sore so not too sure if ovulation/period/pregnant 😭🤣 wish I'd just be told! Went to see a medium last night for a reading and she was like go and get tested for your fertility so that has stressed me out. I don't think I'll listen to that though!

@apwilso sounds fairly positive so keeping my fingers crossed for you!
I'm just desperate for it to happen now, I don't want any bigger gap between this baby and my son. My husband is none stop wanting a baby at the moment which isn't really helping either

@Tabbycat92 what would the age gap be?

I'm just hoping I get the chance as this would be my first. Still no sign. Been feeling off this week but not overthinking it

@apwilso he's 3 and getting very bossy and possessive of us. I feel the longer it's left the harder he will adjust to a sibling.

I have a vvvvvvfl!!! I have no idea when I ovulated, I must have definitely missed it, but we had sex one or twice that must have caught it!!

@Tabbycat92 omg! Have you done anymore tests?!xx