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Ignorance is bliss?

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ToadstoolFairy · 09/12/2020 09:56

Anyone else act like an errant child during the TWW by pretending you’re not feeling very real symptoms because you’ve symptom spotted before and have been let down by the red she-devil herself?

I had the worst cramps yesterday and now my back is sore but I’m pretending I don’t feel it and not using hot water bottles/paracetamol because I tested this morning (stupid b I am) and got a BFN.

Frustrated, angry, downright stubborn, stupid ... anyone else wanna join the crazy b club? Hmm

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KSP8273 · 15/12/2020 08:10

@ToadstoolFairy Well I believe I'm 14DPO today but could be 13DPO and I TESTED TODAY ANDDDDDDDD I REGRET IT. I'm so unsure because I can see it more today but it's still soooo 50/50.

I don't have anymore tests in the house and I'm finally not ordering any. I've spent over 100 pound on them it's a joke. I'm due tomorrow. Hopefully the b*tch don't come lol. FINGERS CROSSED FOR US. I had the weirdest pains yesterday though. I'll know first thing tomorrow morning because the past two periods I've come on in the night.

When do you think you'll test next if AF doesn't show??

KSP8273 · 15/12/2020 08:20

@ToadstoolFairy The more I look at it the more I'm convinced it's positive! I'll try and upload a pic, my camera is crap so the quality will be shit lol

KSP8273 · 15/12/2020 08:21

@Happyhappy37

Hi!! I wish I was the same, been driving myself mad. Is this your first month trying?? but not trying... ;)
Wishing you all the best also

ToadstoolFairy · 15/12/2020 08:23

@Happyhappy37 How exciting! Just making that first step towards ‘not trying trying, but not stopping it either’ is so scary/brilliant.

How are you feel so far?

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ToadstoolFairy · 15/12/2020 08:26

@KSP8273 Yay you tested! What brand? Do you have a picture? It’s frustrating as shit isn’t it when you can’t tell either way. Wish we just got a letter from the stork like “whaddup girl, no baby this month so get on the gin.” A) Practical, B) Saves money, C) Hilarious.

What sort of pains did you have? This month I had some very distinct ones which in the back of my head I knew weren’t regular but I tried my best to ignore them.

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KSP8273 · 15/12/2020 08:45

First response. It's there, I've dug out all my other tests in the bin (there's a lot) and there's nothing like this line on them. The line is pink too, I don't want to get my hopes up so I'm now terrified to test again because I've been so down the last few days. I know I said I wouldn't but I've not been myself and now that there's a chance I feel good??

YESSSSS, "HEY BOOBOO YOU'RE GONNA HAVE A BABY" We are not asking for much!! Just a few talking birds lol.

Um, just like twitches? defo not AF related, in my lower back and around my sides. Also I could feel my boobs throbbing in work yesterday which I've never experienced, but then again I've never looked for AF signs. All I know is a day before she's coming I Get those weird cramps/feelings. I always have done since I can remember and so far...nothing today but still so early.

My phone is crap and the flash won't turn on. I'm waiting for it to charge and I'll defo try to send one xx.

KSP8273 · 15/12/2020 08:45

@ToadstoolFairy

KSP8273 · 15/12/2020 08:51

My iPhone is broke so using a Tesco one ATM the pics aren't great

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KSP8273 · 15/12/2020 08:53

The third looks like that because I attempted to use the flash OUTSIDE. LOL

ToadstoolFairy · 15/12/2020 12:01

@KSP8273 I definitely see a line!!!!

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KSP8273 · 15/12/2020 12:07

@ToadstoolFairy I've ordered more. I think I am defo a POAS addict! How are you feeling?

ToadstoolFairy · 15/12/2020 12:14

I’m so excited for you!

I’m feeling a little shocked to be honest.

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ToadstoolFairy · 15/12/2020 12:16

I said to myself I wouldn’t test again until AF was late but I had a terrible nights sleep and ...

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KSP8273 · 15/12/2020 12:55

OMG!!!! That's amazing! The biggest congratulations, have you told your OH? I've tried to do 3 digitals I just get the manual sign, tips please for doing them?? lol

ToadstoolFairy · 15/12/2020 13:25

@KSP8273 thank you!

Are you dipping on peeing on them? I’d just peed on them and it worked

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Happyhappy37 · 15/12/2020 13:31

@ToadstoolFairy how wonderful congratulations 😊🎊. Amazing news. Lovely Christmas present.

@KSP8273 i can see line 🤞🏽

I started not preventing when I stopped contraception 2nd may this year. I have two boys an almost 16 year old and a soon to be 4 year old.
I'll be 38yrs on Saturday. So i am just working with whatever the universe decides.
Sending you all lots of vibes

KSP8273 · 15/12/2020 13:32

I was dipping but I've just realised the surface I was putting them on isn't flat!! I'm an idiot lol Did you use FMU on the digital???

KSP8273 · 15/12/2020 13:37

@Happyhappy37 That's amazing! I've got a 3 year old son so we are trying for a second but with him it was a complete surprise lol.

I love that 'whatever the universe decides' I think if I'm not pregnant, I'll be ditching the tracking kits. This month has been so stressful and just a bit disappointing the last few days. Wishing you all the best :)

Happyhappy37 · 16/12/2020 18:27

@ToadstoolFairy @KSP8273 how are you getting on?

KSP8273 · 16/12/2020 18:38

@Happyhappy37 AF due today and still no sign. Scared to test tbh, 15DPO lol

How are you getting on??

Happyhappy37 · 16/12/2020 18:44

@KSP8273 fingers crossed she stays away? How do you feel? Symptom wise

I am doing great. Having the worst migraine today.

ToadstoolFairy · 16/12/2020 18:58

Hi lovely ladies,

All good here thanks. Told my other half today!

Reckon AF will rear her ugly head? Taken anymore tests?

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Happyhappy37 · 16/12/2020 19:02

@ToadstoolFairy aaww how lovely. Wonderful Christmas present. Relax and enjoy the process hun

KSP8273 · 16/12/2020 20:10

@Happyhappy37 I'm feeling okay. Really sore boobs but other than that fine. I've had the odd few twinges but not that AF feeling?? And usually I will get it a whole day before I come on. I'm beginning to think the pressure I've put myself under is holding her at bay tho.
Do you usually get headaches?? What DPO/CD are you on xx

@ToadstoolFairy AHHH amazing, I need details! How did you tell him and his reaction?? Also, other than that one faint positive did you test with anything else other than the digital?? Looking for hope lol I haven't tested today, I've only got one FRER left and I think I'm going to use it tomorrow at 16DPO.

Happyhappy37 · 16/12/2020 20:50

@KSP8273 i dont know my CD, i know that AF is due tomorrow. Yes headaches is a normal thing for me (i suffer with migraine).
Sending you lots of baby dust 🤞🏽