IB???

[Noirberry19]

Having very light brown discharge today. I'm around 7-8dpo and never have this. Could it be IB?
Has anyone else had this, but ended up to be something different?

I only have a frer here so I'll use that. I think we should have at least a faint tomorrow if it's good news? What do you think?

I'm not either actually! As much as I know I never have brown cm and cramps mid cycle, I've got my hopes up so many months with other symptoms and ended up disappointed...I don't know!

Think I'm just feeling fed up and negative today!

How are you feeling? Xxx

I would think so on a frer!
I’m gonna get some on Friday for Saturday morning because the ICs are shit haha.

Feeling very fed up too! I have absolutely no feeling of coming on my af which is really strange.
I feel like I would do on a random day in my cycle! Xxx

Yeah, I'm just feeling really shitty tonight. Think it's because of a possible bfn tomorrow.
I know! Tbh though, I've been thinking of getting some to satisfy my need to poas everyday lol.

I really hope that's a good sign for you. I never have any pms, so I wouldn't know. I literally just have cramps on the day of period and that's it. No sore boobs or anything.

Only difference for me is the twinges/mild cramps and very light brown bleeding for last few days, which is why I feel more positive, but also negative because I'm used to disappointment lol. Why can't we just have a happy month with a bfp 🤦🏻‍♀️ fingers crossed for both of us 🤞🏼🤞🏼 xxx

Omg I totally get you.
It feels so unfair when people have an accidental pregnancy, 3 years in and its mentally exhausting and absolute torture I think.
It’s almost like it doesn’t make sense?!

I’ve got clear cm with a slight dark pink/brown tinge now.
I never get anything like this so I’m just really confused at this point and terrified of a bfn tomorrow then Friday and the weekend then coming on.
I could rant for days lol xxx

Yeah I know, it is! After this long, it just gets really infuriating.
It's definitely exhausting!

Did a test this morning and bfn. I'm sure a bfp would show by now even if a faint line, so don't think there's much hope for me this month. Guess my symptoms were from iui injections?! Or just weird cycle. I don't know.

I really hope you get your bfp. Sounds promising, especially as you don't normally have those symptoms. Keeping my fingers crossed for you 🤞🏼 keep me updated.
How you feeling this morning? Xxx

Bfn for me on internet cheapies.
What day are you due on af? Maybe we won’t get a second line til the day of. I think I’m 12 maybe 11 dpo and last time my test took 45 minutes to show a shadow of a line at 12 dpo. Then I didn’t test for 2 days and at 14 dpo got a positive frer.
I’m just feeling really negative now because of last times experience but we’re not out til af shows!

I expected to be way crampier by now though and there’s nothing going on which is frustrating.
I’m ok just feeling very bleurgh this morning!

How’re you?
I’m keeping my fingers crossed af stays away and you get your bfp! Xx

I'm not sure to be honest.
It's a weird cycle for me because normally I'd be due on 20th November or there abouts, but because of the injections and me ovulating a lot sooner than normal and obviously being around 12dpo today, I assume my period will also be earlier. I'm not entirely sure. I guess I thought being 12dpo, I would have a positive by now.

I know there's still time for us both so trying to stay positive and hope that we will both have bfp! 🤞🏼

Yeah, my bleeding has stopped completely and not really feeling any cramps or anything now xxx

I’m not entirely sure what IUI is and consists of tbh! Our hospital are just sooo slack. All they seem to do is take my blood and ignore my calls 😂
I want them to give me letrozole and then go from there - I just think 3 years in and they’re so slow at helping. Then in between appts I’m losing my bloody mind with it all!

I’ve nothing either, no cramps etc. Just clear almost silky cm when I wipe (gross sorry😂) xxx

Yeah I know. It is annoying. I've felt like that for a while with hosp and a lot of things we'd paid private for along the way to help with waiting time, but here we are still waiting!!
I had appt on Tuesday to discuss another treatment plan now. They're talking about next step being ivf, but with Xmas, more likely to be new year! 🤦🏻‍♀️

I hope we'll get lucky before then.

Have they discussed prescribing that for you?

Oh god, I can second that. I feel so isolated and fed up at moment. The wait is horrible. Unless you're going through it, people don't realise. So frustrating.

Nothing is gross on here 😂 no, same for me. Nothing today really. Xxx

I wish we could go private. We’re actually with a hospital who deal with private patients so we get all the investigations free but I have to pay for any treatments, it’s just that with nhs waiting times basically so it’s a lose lose for me! Where abouts are you based?
New year seems so far away doesn’t it! I hope you catch before that! I have a 6 year old son so if we go for ivf it will be full price for us unfortunately so lots of saving if we were to go down that route!

They’ve not discussed it as yet but my old hospital basically referred me to them because they’re the only one in area who deal with letrozole so it’s been mentioned I guess!

Hahaha I love reading people’s symptoms threads. There’s no modesty in ttc 😂 xxx

I know it's so expensive. We couldn't afford to have all treatments privately either. I had a few tests done privately like HyCoSy and clomid and couple of consultations then went back on nhs for treatments and further tests and monitoring.

I live in Wales. Where do you live?

Yeah!! My family are like "aww not too long then". Makes me so angry because I'm literally like "HELLO?! 3 years already and yeah, every month is a nightmare waiting and wondering and constantly monitoring my body" 🥴

I know! I'm still clinging onto hope this month for both of us! 🤞🏼

Aww that's so lovely! Oh ok hats so horrible. It is sad because it isn't your fault is it? Don't think they should do that.

I hope you'll be lucky before needing that!

Haha, I know 🤣🤣 xxx

They wanted to send me for a HSG but then changed their minds. It’s all so confusing!

We’re in Leeds! We got our dogs from Newport last year - 4-5 hour drive away! (Completely Irrelevant fact there lmao)

My family don’t even ask anymore. Our friends are supportive but they don’t get It iyswim.

Any update on your side? New twinges or anything?
When do you think you’ll test again xx

So annoying isn't it?!

Just feel like everything has dragged on!

Oh really? Newport isn't that far from me!! Prob 1 hour drive. 🤣🤣 well we share consistency and colour of cm, so why not? 😂😂

I just find myself being quite short with them now. All the stupid comments I can't be bothered for and the longer it goes on, the harder I find it to take it with a pinch of salt lol. They must think I'm turning into a right b*tch, but I don't care anymore. Lol.

Yeah, unless you've been through it yourself, you have no idea!!

A few very mild twinges and weirdly, more VERY light and pale brown cm again?? I think it could be down to injections for me. I don't know.

Possibly weekend? Saturday morning maybe. You?

How you feeling now? Xxx

Just wanted to join you on this I had bleeding at 6 dpo (pink / brown), 8dpo and 10dpo. Tested at 10dpo (yesterday) bfn.

I’m hoping it’s IB, as if not there’s something seriously wrong with my body - went to the gp yesterday and got swabbed (concern over an infection causing it - we’ve been ttc for a long time and we have got MFI)

@Grumpsy welcome!

Keeping my fingers crossed for all of us 🤞🏼
So shit when you've been trying for so long!

Think we're both feeling the same too, as this isn't the norm for us either xx

@Noirberry19 the gp, whilst giving me a puzzled look yesterday said it could just be one of those things.

My response was in 19years I’ve never experienced one of those things. She then made me bleed with a swab (also never happened before - unless for something like a smear) so I’m now wondering if there’s an issue with my cervix 🙄

I’m hoping it’s a bfp as then I can stop worrying about what’s going on with my body 🙈

Welcome! @Grumpsy 🥰

Probably test tomorrow Saturday and Sunday if I’m totally honest with myself and you 😂 I’m loathed to buy any frers until I’ve missed af tbh!

Xxx

@Grumpsy some of the things they say normally are annoying!

Hope everything will be ok for you.
When will they have your results?

Oh god, I second that!! So sick of searching through google and different sites to find info. Prob worst thing we can do, but can't help it!!

@Dixywitch19 lol I know. I only had frer ones here, but so sick of spending on them. I hate going on my Amazon to order more because it shows how many times I've purchased over the years 🥴
Have just bought a cheaper one that's coming tomorrow. Not holding out much hope, but I thought it's there if I feel I want to take another test over the weekend xxx

I cannot stop googling. Every single thing and I’m even thinking of different ways to type something so I can look at more threads 😂😂

I want some more frers but I don’t wanna spend the money to get one line.
How’re you feeling tonight? Xx

@Noirberry19 results either tomorrow or Monday. To be fair I’m actually assuming I’ve got a fibroid or something if I don’t get a VIP (it’s the least worse option)

I’m not usually a crazy person, honest 🙈

Bfp not vip

@Dixywitch19 in the past few years I think I’ve had every pregnancy symptom bar this one and metal mouth 😂🙈

@Dixywitch19 omg, this is literally me 🤣🤣 everyday typing the exact thing but adding on the 1 extra dpo for different threads 🤣
No I know! Such a waste of money to be expecting bfn on them 😩

@Grumpsy hope it will be good news and not bad for you 🤞🏼 xxx

@Grumpsy I hope it’s good news for you!
I have 0 symptoms of af or pg this month. So I’m flabbergasted (what a great word!) 😂

@Noirberry19 lmaoo omg yes! Add the 1dpo
I actually was meant to google something last night but wanted to sleep so I thought I’ll google it today and just put it as - one day dpo 😂

I’m finding I’m really tired but I think I’m usually tired in the run up to af. Had a sharp pain low down on the left about 30 mins ago but nothing else and it’s more than likely completely unrelated! Xxx

@Dixywitch19 🤣🤣 yep lol. Or in time...adding the 1dpo before the day has even got here. In preparation 🥴😂😂 y'know...in case someone, somewhere had a phenomenon 😩🤣🤣🤣🤣

Yeah. I'm finding that...I feel tired and have backache and headaches etc. But I'm reading too much into it because I'm sure I get those anyway🤦🏻‍♀️😂

I'm getting a few quick sharp twinges still, but I don't know what to think 🤔 oh well, keep our fingers crossed to keep us in lighter spirits xxx