Spunk me up! - Bus 18

[Juno231]

Come join us on our TTC journeys - all you need is a sense of humour!

Bus history:
June - 24 BFPs
July - 11 BFPs
August - 18 BFPs
September - 4 BFPs

Testing dates:
@2020mission - October 6th
@notyetamumbuttrying - October 6th
@Katao - October 9th
@minster2012 - October 12th
@nestinginNL - October 14th
@Vil10 - October 16th
@Franklydear - October 25th
@Juno231 - October 26th
@clairey844 - October 30th

@Vil10 god what a nightmare with your OH. I would do what you're doing too - he is being ridiculous, I'm irritated just reading it. Hope he sorts himself out and you can make up later tonight 🍆

@Vil10 high five to you sex starved moist lady 🙌🏻you did right. He's missing out. Sod him

@Minster2012 Ahhh look after yourself lovely lady, lots of food that you like and nice bubble baths 🤞❤️❤️❤️❤️

Aw @Minster2012 I'm so sad for you. A bfn is so hard at the best of times but its just so so unfair when youhave had to paydo much and go through so much. I'm devastated for you.

Thanksfor all the sympathy. I just felt a numb sadness when I looked at the test this morning. Then spilled my breakfast and broke into tears after that! Oh welll...

@Minster2012 @Katao no im so gutted for u ladies. Im holding on to the hope that its a bit too early ❤❤

@Vil10 totally agree. Take no shit. I know u want a child but he's taking the piss acting like one 🤦‍♀️🤣. Men can be right idiots sometimes honestly. Mine goes in wee huffs too it drives me crazy xxx

@Jaysdream7 they really can!! Thankyou!x

@Amy00 I'm irritated too so I glad it's not just me😂 we really could do with having a bonk today and tomorrow because I feel like I got my peak yesterday so probs ov today, but I really don't think it's looking likely😩

@Minster2012 not many days left of being this moist and slippery seeping lady though!!

@Catherinettc he is acting like one you're right! I swear men have bigger tantrums than us!! Af deffo got him good!!xx

@Vil10 he's defo being a dick. I am crazy thought even when my OH is angry I'm like you are NOT fucking up our baby making chances so you BEST get over here CUNT and suck it all the way up 👆 hahaha

@vil10 hate those arguments. We hardly ever argue too but like that when we do we go silent and its horrible. Esp like u said, getting into bed and going as far away as he can. Hope you make up soon. Love make up sex tho. Lol

@Katao and @minster2020 I'm gutted for you both. @minster2012 I came on today nervous ad if i was doing a test myself. Really wishing u had a bfp 😥 and ur Ds omg how cure but tugging on the heart strings there too bless 🥰
I cant even remember what I posted last 🙈 ended up pulling the tooth. I was getting sharp electric like pains in it yest.
Root canal was gona be a 3 step process (last 1 been a crown) and I just thought u know what. I'm 3 wks dealing with this crap and during that had a MMS and d&c. I just needed the shit to end. It's not a back tooth, it's a side one. But if it annoys my I'll get a false. Swear, I didn't feel a thing. I'd pull them quicker then a filling. I dread them. Bloody thing still cost me a fortune and I've no tooth left to show for it 😭 but here who cares. Gona start opk cheapies today. In see if I'll ovulate the wkend. Fri is 2 wks from d&c. Oh imagine I fell pregnant b4 getting af. I'd love clothing more.
Hope ur all well x

@Missgoldilocks can imagine you saying that in your head. Sounds like me too 😂

@2alreadywantanother thank you. You pulled your tooth out. Yourself. Hardcore woman. Is that out of sexual frustration?

Just had scotch pancakes, maple syrup bacon & egg. I'm now due a big food baby you'll all be pleased to know. 😂

@minster2012 I hate the dentist and going through all I did this last few wks. And the agony just isnt worth it. I still have hygienist fri. Hope that's me for a long time. But yes it probably is. I'm holding out as long as I can no see if I ovulate over the next wk or so. Poor DH will get an awful doing 🙈

@Missgoldilocks I feel like if I said to him look it's baby making day, and he was still angry it would be shit and he might not even be able to finish😂

@2alreadywantanother I hate it, I'd rather have a screaming match than the silent treatment!! Makeup sex is great as long as he actually wants it😂 I think if I don't get any tonight I definitely won't be expecting any bfp's this month😒

@Minster2012 that breakfast sounds divine. I had scrambled eggs avocado on toast with a sprinkle of chia, sunflower and pumpkin seeds lol. I'll need to go to the gym at some point today, trying to psych myself up for it but pondering on whether to try and find a good yoga video on YouTube 🤔. Opk blank this morning tniugh should get my peak at some point today. I did promise myself I wouldn't do opk tests 😂 but hey ho

@Vil10 I prefer screaming matches since that's the kind of house I came from lol however my partner withdraws and will fuck off for a whole night 😬 since he doesn't know how to deal with his emotions. I hate the silent treatment there is nothing worse. Baby making sex is for the most part shit anyway for me so it makes not a damn difference 😂 last night I just couldn't get into it I hate that feeling and I'm so done with sex for a purpose 😩😭

@vil10 that is shit but just for perspective I'm a huffer 😂🙈 if I'm pissed off I just need a while to get over it. I would hate to get into a screaming match and say things in the heat of the moment. To me that would be worse.

@Minster2012 yummy! I was just saying last night I really fancy pancakes but DP said no as we ate like shit at the weekend and are supposed to be on a diet :(

@Missgoldilocks thats so true! I'm suffering from what I think might be ovulation cramps and spotting but fuck knows at this point as I'm only just off BC, and not due to O until the 15th... We've been trying to BD every other day just incase and needed to last night but I really wasn't feeling it due to the pain... We did it anyway but even DP said it was the shittest sex. I felt so bad as it's normally a very intimate experience for us but I was literally like I don't care, as long as it's missionary, you don't shake me around too much and you finish quickly then it's fine. Hopefully these cramps stop and I can make up for the shitty sex soon

@Missgoldilocks mines exactly the same!! I really hate it, I feel so awkward and uncomfortable!! Ohhh thats annoying when you just can't get the feel for it isn't it!! Sometimes it feels like a proper chore doesn't it!

@Katao yeah that is the downside, sometimes you end up saying things you don't mean then have to apologise again for saying those things!

So would we say ov today??? This is so not fair, we've only had sex Saturday and Sunday😩😩

@Vil10 in say that a couple of hours does the job, he is dragging it out a bit. Unless you poisened his puppy or something I think he needs to buck up.
Ya I think you count from the start of the surge dont you? Thats stillverystrong though

@Minster2012 so sorry lovely ❤️❤️❤️ not what you wanted and I'm sure we're all very surprised. Sending big guys your way xxxx

@Vil10 sorry you guys are still fighting, I can't remember if you explained why but you know you've done what you can to resolve it, and if he chooses to keep sulking then so be it. You're awesome x

@vil10 could have been yesterday tbh (I seem to ovulate same day as my peak half the time) - in which case you got O-2 and O-3, which are super fertile days!

@Katao @Newbie0818 he's finally text!! Basically explaining how annoyed he's been but he's willing to leave it now and not drag it on, so that's a bonus but I've also told him how ridiculous and pathetic he's been so at least he knows now😂
@Katao well I've always thought ov day is the day after your peak but I'm not very sure I'll try and get the deed done tonight!!

@Juno231 I always just thought I ov'd the day after peak, but I have no idea now😩

I'm gutted for you @Minster2012 and @Katao was really hoping to see good news on here today. Hope you're both doing as ok as you can be right now. It's going to happen eventually, it has to! 🤞 💕

@Vil10 if I was you I'd be nice for now, get your action in and as soon as the fertile window is over give him some payback and don't put out for a week 😂 he deserves it for dragging that out.

@Vil10 "you're an immature dickhead but come back and gimme that sperm" hahahaha. Everyone is different with the surges and when they ovulate the only way to really know would be to temp. I know that I ovulate the same day as my positive LH test which SHOULD be today but my tests are looking blank :/

Thanks @2020mission I have eaten a LOT of chocolate biscuits. How are you doing @Minster2012? I did a second test, not even fmu obviously. Why do I torture myself!?!

The tests themselves say you will ovulate 12 to 24hrs after surge. Everyone different. U just need to have a "bonkfest" over the next 3 days basically lol

@Katao IF I CAN STEP AWAY FROM THE STICKS YOU CAN 😂❤️ mmmm biscuits you say??? I have biscuits

@Vil10 yayyyyyy can't believe you risked additional backlash though by pointing out what a twat he's been. I would have just put up (and put out) first THEN told him how much of a dickhead he was 😂

@2020mission thank you lovely

I've just viewed a house that's a no which is fine so that's killed some time not thinking bout things & got some admin done.