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CD40, BFN and no period still

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Emmie12345 · 04/09/2020 23:09

Anyone else in this limbo land ?

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Ickli · 05/09/2020 09:21

Not now, but earlier in the year I had a 65 day cycle. I spoke to a GP and from what I recall they recommended doing a pregnancy test about every 20 days in case you skipped ovulation originally but then ovulated later (I wasn't pregnant). If you haven't given your GP a call it might be worth doing so.

You have my sympathies. It's so frustrating when you either want to have a positive result or for your period to turn up so you can start another attempt.

Rumi1 · 05/09/2020 19:00

Yep

I am CD 31 , usually a 24 day cycle

I think I skipped ovulation This month

But I did do bloods at CD 21 to see if ovulation occurred so the results of this should confirm

I have almost given up on ttc

Been trying on and off for a year , actively this year for 4 months

I'm 37 and I cannot deal with the emotional turmoil it brings

So im out

But waiting for AF to arrive this cycle is giving me hope 😏which I could do without

Best of luck and keep me posted

stepmumSW5 · 05/09/2020 19:09

I've had a 60 day cycle while taking seven seas a pregnancy multivitamin

Emmie12345 · 05/09/2020 23:53

Wow both !!!
@stepmumSW5 the only thing I have done differently is take a multi vit last couple of months
Hmmmmmm Gonna stop !

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stepmumSW5 · 06/09/2020 06:35

It's best to just take folic acid separately I think, instead of pregnacare or seven seas

Dollybird89 · 06/09/2020 07:53

I'm on cd 48 atm 😭 it's so frustrating 😤 just want af to arrive so I can start again. Ttc for 7 months now, I do have irregular cycles but longest has only been 38 days

Emmie12345 · 06/09/2020 08:48

This is my longest ever cycle

Am usually 27/28 have had one or two 30 days

Gonna stop the vits

Have also been taking q10 wonder if should stop that too

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Dollybird89 · 06/09/2020 09:23

I'm not on no vits atm after seeing people have issues on them I'm not doing anything unless told to by dr

Stealthynamechange · 06/09/2020 09:34

Im with you im on day 43 bfn yesterday, waiting for my period as my gp has requested a day 21 test 🤦‍♀️ im 39 & think im peri menopausal.

Emmie12345 · 06/09/2020 10:06

Keep feeling slightly nauseous occasionally. Anyone else ? Weird !

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Emmie12345 · 06/09/2020 10:07

Hi @Stealthynamechange )

I think I am too but am old so not exactly unexpected for me

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Emmie12345 · 06/09/2020 17:47

Think I may be ovulating right now !

Sadly dp isn’t here !
I think I have missed one period and am now next cycle ...

Who knows ?!!!!

Just did opk and pos plus cm - also did hcg but bfn again

Feel so bloated !

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Stealthynamechange · 06/09/2020 18:58

Ooh 🤞🤞 im glad you have an answer - although difficult to make a baby with dp not there! 😕

Emmie12345 · 06/09/2020 19:26

@Stealthynamechange thanks lovely ) I am actually relieved as just realised it will clash with my eldest ‘s A levels and middle one’s GCSEs if I conceived now erk
Time is not on my side but this time would not be good esp as me and dp don’t live together due to our existing kids and geography !

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hopefully2021 · 09/09/2020 16:25

@Emmie12345 just wondering if your AF has now come? I'm nearly a week late, keep getting negative tests - feel sick and so tired getting so annoyed xx

Emmie12345 · 09/09/2020 16:47

@hopefully2021 nope !!!’

Gonna do a test tomorrow I think

Have you tested ? Xxxxx

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Emmie12345 · 10/09/2020 22:37

Hmmm well I got this today

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Emmie12345 · 10/09/2020 22:38

Very faint

CD40, BFN and no period still
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Iloveoreos · 10/09/2020 23:07

Did anyone experience some slight pain under boobs ? Is that one of the symptoms ?

Emmie12345 · 16/09/2020 14:49

@Dollybird89 how are you ?

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hopefully2021 · 16/09/2020 15:17

@Emmie12345 did you test again? I've tested loads but no luck + still no sign of AF, currently 12 days late so annoying!xx

ER20 · 16/09/2020 15:44

I’m CD 34, 5 days late. Usually a 28 day cycle. Got symptoms but tests are negative. So frustrating.

If I’m not pregnant I don’t know what’s going on - lower backache, bloated, feeling sick, constipated etc.

Emmie12345 · 16/09/2020 17:28

Hi all

I haven’t tested since I for a bfn on a clearblue digital a couple of days ago. I was so shocked it was negative as felt nausea , sore boobs etc!

Still no period and 49 days I think. Gonna get some rellexology points on my feet later ! Weird !!!

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Emmie12345 · 16/09/2020 17:29

@ER20 and @hopefully2021 maybe there is something in the air !!

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claireb707 · 16/09/2020 17:33

I'm on a weird cycle as well, cd38, 20 dpo (I think). Bfn! normally have 28/29 day cycles.

No boob pain this month after ovulation which has been unusual recently.

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