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CD40, BFN and no period still

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Emmie12345 · 04/09/2020 23:09

Anyone else in this limbo land ?

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Waitingforbabypage · 29/09/2020 22:11

[quote Emmie12345]@Waitingforbabypage I got mine at cd50 after doing the acupressure thing I mentioned up thread )[/quote]
It was just for that night. Haven't had anything since, just cramps. Driving me mad.
I've tried massaging all the different bits the videos have said with no avail. I shall keep going. X

Waitingforbabypage · 02/10/2020 13:05

Ah. That would explain the missing af.

CD40, BFN and no period still
Kirky658 · 02/10/2020 13:31

@Waitingforbabypage omg congratulations!!!!

Emmie12345 · 03/10/2020 15:49

@Waitingforbabypage omg congrats, lovely !

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Waitingforbabypage · 03/10/2020 16:38

Thanks ladies, digital says 3+ so god only knows when I ovulated. Tested on the 7th sept as af was late and got a bfn, So haven't a clue how to date it.

CLKELL · 03/10/2020 19:05

Saw this chain and wanted to join as having exactly the same thing so hope that’s ok! Like you @Kirky658 I have stage 4 endo and had emergency surgery in June (came from nowhere and had been feeling great). Stopped the pill soon after which we had planned to do anyway to ttc, had a bleed few days after then after that went 54 days with nothing! When something did come it was super light, lasted a few days and no pain at all so not even sure it was a period.
Now on day 46, no idea when I could or if I have ovulated as get EWCM most days in small amounts but I did have more of it on 13/14/15 sept. We dtd around those days and then on 21st my boobs started aching, felt like was getting a cold and on 23rd had this pain all day on left side like a pulling tugging which disappeared next day. Since then still havig aching boobs, low back pain, super tired but did a test on Monday just gone and bfn. Still no period but everything else. It’s soo rubbish!

Kirky658 · 03/10/2020 19:15

@CLKELL it always surprises me how many women have endo, it's crazy I'd never even heard of it till 6 years ago! I think my period that I thought could have been implantation was just a light period. I was nauseous, anxious, boobs felt heavy and had horrendous headaches. Starting to put the whole thing down to the stress of starting back at work again tbh. Had another last week and the same again. Having some relief from the endo though thank goodness so not all bad. How are you coping? X

CLKELL · 03/10/2020 22:15

@Kirky658 sorry for delay got caught up doing dinner then phone died! How funny, am totally the same, I got diagnosed 6yrs ago too in my first lap and had only heard of it a few months before through someone I worked with who had it and told me I should check as my symptoms were same as hers! Stress causes so much you know, it’s mad what it can do to our bodies. I’m coping well too since the surgery touch wood but I do worry about what’s going on inside and all the time I’m not getting pregnant and not on any contraceptive to suppress the endo it could grow back which scares me. But got to try and just not worry and see how it goes, my ovarian reserve after surgery was barely detectable but it could have been due to surgery so got an ivf appointment end of month to see where I’m at. Guess time will tell! Is this the first time for you ttc? X

CLKELL · 03/10/2020 22:17

@Waitingforbabypage congratulations!! Can I ask did you have any symptoms other than delayed period? And how many tests did you do that came out negative and did you remember when you ovulated, was it late in cycle? x

Kirky658 · 04/10/2020 07:59

@CLKELL it's an absolute minefield isn't it, thankfully I was very lucky and the dye test they did while I was under showed clear which is positive, but it worries me that the surgeon came to me when I came round and said he was so surprised by the extensive endo he found! I'm with you on the concerned about not being on contraception too in order to stop the endo. It is our first time TTC, the whole thing is really making me worry tbh because we are desparate to start a family but have no idea if it will happen.. Anyway on a positive note we got a little puppy last week so he is keeping us busy, I would say great practise 😂 x

Waitingforbabypage · 04/10/2020 21:37

[quote CLKELL]@Waitingforbabypage congratulations!! Can I ask did you have any symptoms other than delayed period? And how many tests did you do that came out negative and did you remember when you ovulated, was it late in cycle? x[/quote]
Hiya,
So other than having cramps as if af was on the way, I have had no other symptoms.
The first day of my last period was the 9th august, I tested 4th sept, bfn. Tested 11th, bfn, had some very light spotting on 27th.
The only reason I tested again was because my jeans felt a little too tight and was making me feel a little sick, I wanted to see if another bfn would stop my brain making up symptoms.

But instead got met with 2 lines. Then later with a digital it says 3+

I still have some slight cramps as if af is on the way and today my boobs feel super heavy and tingly. But nothing else.

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