TTC Baby no1. The crazy lot. Thread 2!!

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New thread!!

Please tag anyone else I've missed as I have a terrible memory

@stabal
@mia1985x
@lt103
@lma27
@pippy20
@leobaby
@faith82
@butterfly5291
@stepmumsw5
@lozz22
@beckyBP
@crayon7
@jadeb1995
@nellyk84

AF showed her ugly face this evening, as predicted today, unfortunately.

Just starts but I am out. Onto the cycle 22... will be busy this cycle at least next two weeks so that should make it a bit easier I guess.

Will have massive g&t tomorrow.

@Crayon7 damn it 😩 I'm sorry. Enjoy that g&t x

@Crayon7 sorry that AF arrived. Make sure you enjoy your drinking for next couple of weeks, you never know it could be your last.

Still BFN at 13 dpo but still feeling so queasy 😭

Morning, sorry to hear that @Crayon7

I did a FRER this morning and thought I could see the faintest line. Typically when taking photos you couldn't really see it so I've increased the sharpness on one. Can you guys see it? I wonder whether it's just an indent line :/

After doing a cheapie home bargains test yesterday and it being negative I thought oh well that's it, then this morning had another one left so thought why not 😂 and I can see something?!

So sorry @Crayon7. Big hugs

I had an eventful night. Woke up about 5 with the worst cramps I’ve felt. Went to the bathroom and felt like I was going to pass out from the pain, sweat pouring off me, shivering and feeling faint. Lost track of how long I sat on bathroom floor. It finally passed, tiny bit spotting then but nothing since and still no af tho my temp dropped this morning so I think she’ll appear later. I’ve never had pain as bad as that. Had to wake OH up when it wasn’t going cos thought something was wrong. No pain this morning so who knows what it was. Just an unhappy uterus I think 😢. Just want af to come now so I can start it all again

@Crayon7 so sorry naughty AF came to you ☹️ hugs.

@butterfly5291 when is AF due? Can still have bfns for ages yet (everyone's different).

@Jadeb1995 I can see very faint line, like the one I got at 9dpo!

@mrsgtobe97 sorry can't see anything on that one ☹️ but could be the photo!

@LT103 omg so sorry to hear that that's horrible! Ive had that a couple of times but during first couple days of AF. I usually wake up in absolute agony for two night in a row, like you sweating, u bearable pain. I've had loads of tests and ultrasound etc and there's nothing technically wrong that they could find. So sorry though it's horrible. Hugs x

@butterfly5291 so frustrating! Everything crossed for you. Are you due on tomorrow?

@Jadeb1995 I see that little line! But so so wary of them frer's giving those. What DPO are you?

@mrsgtobe97 I can see what you see again. How many days has it been since your first faint line and when are you due on?

@LT103 oh god! How are you feeling now? Has the spotting increased?

Yeah it is really faint but it was completely white yesterday so god knows! I have really irregular periods so god knows, I think I would be due on today or tomorrow and I got my first proper faint line on FRER yesterday but hints of lines a couple days before that, I'm not going to mention it to my partner unless it darkens as we have been through this so many times 😂😂

@Livvi2021 @Stabal I'm 10 DPO

Trying to catch up on the messages, I've had a busy few days. Sorry to hear about AF guys and fingers crossed for the faint lines, may they become dark and strong! xx

@stabal. Feel ok this morning but spotting def heavier so I’m counting this cd1 😢😢.
On the plus point, we’ve booked a few days away to one of the islands In a couple of weeks and if my cycle Behaves itself this time then our holiday should coincide with my fertile window which is always good timing haha

How are you today?

@Jadeb1995 I'd say that's a fair line for 10DPO! Exciting! Have you another for 2-3 days time?

@mrsgtobe97 if it isn't your month I'd recommend some tracking so you'll know where you are in your cycle to make all of this easier! 🤞

@LT103 gah! So sorry. But good timing for the next as you say. It will feel less of a chore too when you're away relaxing! I'm extremely sore today. Only managed to get out of bed about an hour ago. Bleeding is horrendous. Feeling very sorry for myself lol couldn't even face the wine last night!

@LT103 omg that sounds awful. Can you have a sofa day today? Did you chat to OH about how you're feeling?

@Stabal@Livvi2021 AF due Tuesday but can only base that off last month. I want it to come tomorrow if it's going to so I can book to go to Alton towers.

Feeling a bit less stressed today, the house we wanted has gone back on the market but it might be for the best...I couldn't actually see us in that house and it needed loads of work doing so thought if doing that whilst I was pregnant was stressing me out.
I've had my bridal makeup trial today and our pre wedding photoshoot and all went really well.

@butterfly5291 that all sounds really exciting with the wedding planning!!!!

@stabal so sorry. Sounds horrible!!! And yes, housework and cooking done so I’m now having a relaxing day.

I did chat to oh last night (though when he was half asleep in bed which wasn’t best plan). We need to pop to shops to get a gift for his sisters bday so he suggested we go out for some food and relax while we’re out which sounds a good idea so that’s our plan for today.

@butterfly5291 maybe the house situation was a blessing in disguise in hindsight! All the wedding stuff sounds like the perfect morning, I can't wait until it gets closer to mine 💕

@LT103 sounds like a good plan for the day. Enjoy each others company 🥰

[quote Stabal]@Jadeb1995 I'd say that's a fair line for 10DPO! Exciting! Have you another for 2-3 days time?

@mrsgtobe97 if it isn't your month I'd recommend some tracking so you'll know where you are in your cycle to make all of this easier! 🤞

@LT103 gah! So sorry. But good timing for the next as you say. It will feel less of a chore too when you're away relaxing! I'm extremely sore today. Only managed to get out of bed about an hour ago. Bleeding is horrendous. Feeling very sorry for myself lol couldn't even face the wine last night![/quote]
Easier said than done for me I'm afraid, ever since coming off the pill I've had a 105 day cycle, 51 day cycle then a 67 day cycle, I'm still getting into a rhythm with my periods x

@butterfly5291 that's so exciting about the wedding planning and a great distraction!

@lt103 I'm so sorry you are experiencing pain and that AF is here. I felt so devastated last month so I know how hard it can be and how you want to protect your OH from the feelings but in the end I told my OH and had a cry and it helped us both.

@mrsgtobe97 I had irregular periods for years before I lost weight and OPKs were helpful to see when I was ovulating so I would know when a period was coming. Temping would be the best option though so you're not spending a fortune on OPKs every day. It may seem frustrating at first but eventually you'll see when you're ovulating

@Stabal I really hope so! Yes I've got another for Monday

@CAG14 @LT103 thanks...it was lovely bro see the venue again, always forget how beautiful the room is until I see it again.

@Stabal when is your wedding? We're going to see another house later today but will be in same position until ours sells again. Just annoying that I need to get it "show house" ready again.

@butterfly5291 November next year! Oh god yeah the show home set up would drive me crazy 😂 I wouldn't be able to relax

@Stabal had it always been then or did you have to move it?

@butterfly5291 no that's when it always was thankfully. We literally just booked everything in February when all this was kicking off. What about you?

@Stabal our real wedding is at end of Dec this year which is when it always was...just hoping they increase the numbers by then. We're getting legally married in Oct to take one element if stress away so just bought myself another dress for that too 🤣