TTC after MC - May 2020 Part 2

[VP91x]

Hey ladies,
Just doing a new thread as we are about to max out on the other one.

@SmileyT
@Mommybear05
@Sallyjo27
@HE88
@Ejb86
@Hayleylou89
@Renna
@Dipsy77
@mumoftwobeauts

Will keep tagging if anyone is initally not on this. Xx

Hi, to anyone else who would like to join. 👋👋
I am on Cycle 2 TTC and on CD15 following SMEP plan this month, tracking BBT and using OPKs xx

@VP91x when are you testing?? I've got another 5 days before I'm due on yet. I've never felt less pregnant in my life but I'm just taking it as it comes bc my body has messed around with me before

@2020wish FF moved my OV one day forward so saying I am 5DPO but Femometer is saying I am 6DPO. Xx

@VP91x how annoying. Just keep that in mind when you start testing incase it’s bfn and it earlier than you think

Morning @Hayleylou89 and @VP91x - just had amazon delivery of clearblue digital and a regular one - digital came up pregnant 2-3 weeks and the line test was a bfp. Still really sore pelvis and tingly upper thighs (exact same feeling with last miscarriage) and back ache again. So confused as I feel my body is telling me one thing and the tests another!!

Also I was so desperate to use FMU I collected some and put it in a pot in the fridge this morning to use once postie had been - what have I become?!

@Re6ecc4 @2020wish I know these apps are so frustrating 😂 I dont even know why it done it nothing changed from yesterday. If I have a 31 day cycle like last month AF will be due a week today. So, I think I should probably hold off until Wednesday? God help me waiting for that long 😂

My FRERs etc all arrive today so going to put them away.

@Re6ecc4 keep the faith!! Xxx

Pics for ref

@Diorissimo1985 if you continue to get symptoms or anything maybe contact your EPU on Tuesday once they are back open?

But honestly I think the strip cheapies are so fickle!! If the digi is telling you that result I would trust it. Keep positive ❤️

Oh great news today @Diorissimo1985!!! Omg maybe it’s twins and that’s why ur crampy cause those lines are strong and 2-3 when only 16/17dpo??

@VP91x they are arent they! Mine keeps changing my O date this month! Due period on thurs and I think I'm around 8-9dpo. really want to test but i know there's no point

@Re6ecc4 ahh, I think once I start hitting 8/9 DPO I'm going to be SO tempted to test 😩 xx

Thanks girls I will keep a tiny bit of hope ... this is a hard game isn’t it xx

Ahh so good to see all the digi confirmations... congrats again to those that got their BFPs and good luck @VP91x and @Re6ecc4 hopefully you can join these lovely ladies in celebrating Feb babies next week aswell. 🙌🏾🙌🏾

@Diorissimo1985 is this ur first pregnancy aftee ur loss they are def strong and I know u feel similar to last time but that might just ur bodys way of feeeling pregnant u dont know if thats necessary the feeling of losing a baby but maybe just ur only experience of pregnancy? Xx I say this bacause i had horrific and i mean horrific pain in the first 8 weeks of preganncy last time and i thought i was having ectopic but the baby was fine i went 23 week and it had nothing to do with them pains... Im half expecting them pains again but i wont assume its a bad sign its just the way my body deals with pregnancy... hope this makes sense 🤦🏽‍♀️ it does in my head x

@VP91x I did test and it was bfn 😬 dont know what I expected being how early it is and how late I got the BFP last time!
Thankyou @SmileyT feeling a bit disheartened now but hopefully!

@Re6ecc4 put that test to the back of your mind, you know it won't be accurate. Maybe wait for two more days? So then you know you'll be at least 10DPO and use a sensitive one xx

@VP91x I'm gonna wait until I'm due on I think, my fiancé gets down with negatives so I dont wanna hype him up and get my period.
I'm hoping I might be pregnant as no PMS either but we'll see! Usually I'd get PMS around now pre-miscarrage

@Re6ecc4 oh that is a good thing then, fingers crossed for you. Yeah, I would hate to see an BFN 😩 xx

Hi ladies, those of you that used calc fluor did any of you use these ones? This was the only ones I could get on amazon. Xx

Ah, I'm stressing myself out over this charting stuff!

This morning I woke up at 04:25am took my temp straight away - 36.49 so all good. Normally I temp between 05:00-05:45.

I didn't go back to sleep but stayed in bed. At around 05:00am I took my temp again out of curiosity because it was nearer my actual time. My little girl then woke up so I didnt get to check what it said. I've just looked back it was 36.15!! If anything I expected it to rise.

Which one do I take? This is my chart with the lower temp. When I put the lower temp it switched it back to being at 6DPO if I leave the higher temp in it goes to 5DPO.

Xx

@vp91x I had this the other day - I had done one as I woke up needing a wee, then went back to bed and napped for an hour, got back up then thought - I wonder how high my temp is when I’ve been up and about (I’m a bit random at times!) and it was lower than my first bbt of the day!! If I have woken up within the 2hour window, and had a similar amount of sleep, and haven’t got a cold, had a drink etc then I always take my first temp. If any of the other things have happened then I enter it but get it to discount it from the algorithm. The drinking one is only if I have had a bit than norm, although I drink so rarely these days I think even one now can make me giddy at times lol! xx

@Bellabubble it is so random isn't it it? I've done that before and it hasn't had much of a fluctuation, but I've ignored the second temp like you say.

It is quite a big drop between the temps in half an hour or so especially since I didn't get up or anything 🤔🤔 xx

@VP91x fingers crossed AF doesn't get me. It's so difficult to cope with

@VP91x I'd always use the temp after longest sleep as that will be the BBT I always find it confusing if I temp more than once so try to avoid it as it never comes out as I'd expect it to 🤔

@SmileyT yeah, so weird isn't it!! I thought it would have been higher slightly later on but such a big drop.

How are you? SMEP all going ok? Xx

@VP91x I would take the first temp after the longest sleep and discard the other one.

Weird question girls. Is it safe to have a hot bath in early pregnancy. Like not boiling but nice and warm. My mum is old school and telling me no lol but I love baths