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TTC after MC - May 2020 Part 2

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VP91x · 13/05/2020 18:09

Hey ladies,
Just doing a new thread as we are about to max out on the other one.

@SmileyT
@Mommybear05
@Sallyjo27
@HE88
@Ejb86
@Hayleylou89
@Renna
@Dipsy77
@mumoftwobeauts

Will keep tagging if anyone is initally not on this. Xx

Hi, to anyone else who would like to join. 👋👋
I am on Cycle 2 TTC and on CD15 following SMEP plan this month, tracking BBT and using OPKs xx

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Mommybear05 · 16/05/2020 19:41

@HE88 fingers crossed af stays away for you on Monday xx

peonyrose87 · 16/05/2020 19:42

@mommybear05 I know!! It's my first month tracking so I'm super confused about it, but I'll follow the lines! Feel like we've DTD almost every day this week 🙈 I'm exhausted, haha!! How are you?

VP91x · 16/05/2020 19:44

@Renna hopefully, normally we get things earlier in the day! So hope so.

Ahh so so close to be able to test, are you feeling any new potential symptoms? I know its good to be more chilled about it. But when you POAS you massively hope for that second line dont you! Got everything crossed for you that it's your month too.

Haha yeah, it needs to hurry up so I can have a rest 😂

@Hayleylou89 ah that would be amazing for you to have a BFP for then. You have done more than enough this cycle. Keep that positivity xx

@SmileyT 😂😂 they are both within 5 minutes of me so it's tempting to nip out. I have ordered another batch of the femometer ones. Definitely not buying more CB ones just yet. I have the final one for the morning. My temp came right back down again today from yesterdays 36.42 to 35.90 so god knows what happened there xx

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2020wish · 16/05/2020 19:46

Cant remember who it was on last thread we had talking about the hcg injection for men? Whoever it was can you tag me or PM me.

Mommybear05 · 16/05/2020 19:46

@Hayleylou89 glad you’re feeling positive this month and I really hope you get a bfp before 7th June too 🌈🌈🌈xxx

Mommybear05 · 16/05/2020 19:51

@peonyrose87 yes I know what u mean about feeling exhausted haha. Cd 7 here. We’ve been dtd every other day all month and then around the middle of the cycle every day. I’m really unfamiliar with poas and temperatures and tracking so whenever anyone has a question I’m the worst person to ask haha. Since we’ve started trying I only tracked once and none of my opks came positive so I was just like aahhh I’m just going to have lots of sex for a while and hope for the best! And then if it doesn’t happen in a few months I might get those sticks out again haha xx

Renna · 16/05/2020 19:59

@VP91x nah not noticed any symptoms but I didnt actually get any when I got pg last time until after AF was late so not expecting to see any symptoms any way tbh. I wont test until AF is actually late so maybe like next friday is AF doesnt get me xxxx thanks hun sending lots of luck to you too xxx

Hayleylou89 · 16/05/2020 20:12

@SmileyT Earliest i would test is next weekend as ill be 10/11 dpo then and thats when i got a bfp last time but i dont have loads of cheapies only have 2 cheapies and 2 frers so need to not waste them too early on x

@Mommybear05 thank u ... it would be such a blessing anytime but especially this cycle 🙏

@2020wish it was me who said my hubby started the hcg x

Hayleylou89 · 16/05/2020 20:13

@Renna when is AF due for u? Xxx

Renna · 16/05/2020 20:24

@Hayleylou89 Thursday or Friday next week xx Thursday based on last months cycle xx

Hayleylou89 · 16/05/2020 20:28

@Renna not too much longer for u ... my app is predicting a 32 day cycle this month with ovulating earlier so AF due a week on Monday for me, the cycle before falling pregnant was a 32 day cycle too so that can only be a good think and either way its less wait 🙏 x

Hayleylou89 · 16/05/2020 20:42

@peonyrose87

Def looks like you will get a peak soon id recommend doing a evening one, my darkest one happened at 9pm at night then went faint in the morning x

DBTJ · 16/05/2020 21:10

Hi All

1st time posting however I have been reading all the post since the 1st April thread.
I Mc on April 17th I was 6 weeks bleed for around 5 days. I decided to tct straight away started to use ovulation sticks for the 1st time however i had EWCM on 29th but no positive opks. I got positive on the 30th. I ran my brain cells mad testing everyday and got a faint line positive line on the 12th. Hoping this one sticks.
I just want to say what a fantastic group this is and it's so reassuring to see how many women actually go through this.Smile

VP91x · 16/05/2020 21:32

Hey @DBTJ ☺️
Congratulations on your positive! That's great news, especially after your loss. Fingers crossed you have a safe pregnancy xx

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DBTJ · 16/05/2020 21:56

Thank you so much. I noticed you were deciding what to do about your opks I personally would not bother with expensive ones. B&M Clear and simple did the trick same with pregnancy test. Good luck 🤗

Rainbowhope11 · 16/05/2020 22:16

@VP91x oh my gosh, I just got the flashing smiley again 😫 I have a few more of the cb sticks left, but starting to feel really frustrated! Just wish the peak would show up already! Did you buy more cb OPKs?

VP91x · 16/05/2020 22:31

@Rainbowhope11 it makes me want to snap it everytime it flashes at me 😂😂

No, I have one more CB but I ordered more of my cheapie OPKs, hopefully they arrive earlyish tomorrow. How many do you have left? What CD are you on? Xx

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Rainbowhope11 · 16/05/2020 22:38

@VP91x I'm only in cd 11, but have been getting flashing smileys since cd 7, so I've had a week of dtd with no end in sight 😂 if I don't get a peak by tomorrow I don't know what I'm going to do😫 what day are you on?

I think I have 3 cb sticks left. I have a box of the cheapies left, but it's just frustrating me even more to not see any change in the darkness of the test line.

My poor DH says we will give it all we have until next Tuesday/Wednesday and see what happens.

VP91x · 16/05/2020 22:46

@Rainbowhope11 I'm on CD18 😩 are you Dtd everyday or every other?

We are still doing every other day as I am meant to be doing SMEP this month. I know yeah, I think my OPKs have been a tiny bit stronger this afternoon/evening.

Will save my last CB for tomorrow morning and hope my cheapies come early or BBT confirms something soon. Xx

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peonyrose87 · 16/05/2020 22:52

@hayleylou89 thanks! I did an evening one tonight and it's back to being super faint 😫

peonyrose87 · 16/05/2020 22:53

@DBTJ congratulations on your positive Thanks

Rainbowhope11 · 16/05/2020 23:11

@VP91x we've been dtd everyday. I was also supposed to be doing SMEP this month, but then the early flashing smiley confused me on day 7 and now who knows what I'm doing😂

I feel like my eyes cannot even see slight changes in lines anymore😂 the both lines are pretty dark but I can see that the test light is still a tad lighter than the control line. Urghhhh!

Re6ecc4 · 16/05/2020 23:13

Hey everyone I'm glad you still remember 😍
@Renna I'm doing great thanks!
@Hayleylou89 and @VP91x thankyou very much! It deffo can get a bit much sometimes, honest I think the stress was stopping the babies!
@Mommybear05 thankyou! Yeah it's definitely done me good! I am CD16 today so I think tww now, my CM has started to become less egg white now

2020wish · 16/05/2020 23:15

@Hayleylou89 going to send you a pm

SmileyT · 16/05/2020 23:47

@Mommybear05 thanks lovely, I'm actually feeling great today strangely, very excited for the month ahead and as we are the same that makes us normal 😂

@Hayleylou89 oh yeah definitely makes sense to wait until you're pretty sure it'll come up to test if you only have a few 👌🏾

@DBTJ congrats 🥳 hope this is a sticky bean for you x