TTC after miscarriage - April 2020 part 2

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I've created us all another thread as we filled the last one!

@mommybear05 I had no idea how long I'd feed for. I never thought I'm definitely going to bf, once he was born though, all I wanted was to get bf right. Every time he woke in the hospital i buzzed for the midwives to check we had got the latch right.

He's already asked more today than he did yesterday and has been difficult to distract!

@Hayleylou89 ah I see, I am up at 6am everyday so should hopefully be okay to get a reading at the same time each day. I can imagine it is quite sensitive x

@francis05 lets see a picture to see if we can see anything xx

How r u @Renna ... feeling the need to test yet at 6dpo 🙈😂... i got bfn this morning 7dpo ...not feeling it this month atall ...hate the 3 ww until ovulation again though my cycles drag x

@VP91x Feeling better today! My AF is usually only 2-3 days but comes with awful cramp/backache so hoping to feel a bit more normal by tomorrow!

Keeping my fingers crossed for you for a BFP after the weekend xx

@francis05 can you upload a pic? X

Morning all xx sorry some of you seen BFNs but probably still could be too early for some of you to get a BFP so still hope :) and every pregnancy is different so even if you had certain signs last time you may not this time :)

@hayleylou89 haha noo feels way too early to test for me . Its weird as I'm only a day behind you on dpo but my AF due a lot later than yours. I probs caught up with you before as the period before ovulation for me is shorter but my wait for AF is longer.im not due AF for another 9 days at least, maybe 10 based on older cycles 😴
So I just know theres no point even testing now. I could even be pg and get a negative . My aim is still to hold out until AF due so we will see but maybe if I get couple days before and no AF symptoms I'll do a frer..

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@Hayleylou89 although I had a weirddd dream last night about doing 2 tests today and getting strong BFPs and then they were like negative the next day . So weird... I'm obvs thinking about it all too much !! Xx

@Renna I know ur probably right about it being too early some ppl dnt implant until after 7dpo but its my tenp and things dropping and my cp seems to b heading for AF last time my cervix was so spongy and squishy in the tww 🙈😂

my cheapy got a line but about 30 mins after taking it and i got excited but its def just an evap (iv put it up for those line eye addicts like me) 😊... also I was screaming last night that we had a leak.. we never... i was dreaming it all but shouting in my sleep.. thats because our house is having big renovations at the min 🙈😂 xx

@francis05 lets see urs even if its faint 🙏 xx

My phone won't let me upload any pictures annoyingly, do you guys upload via phones of a computer?

@francis05 By ur phone its a bit wierd u click the little paperclip the the + sign and then u have to ctake the pic or upload from ur camera roll by clicking on the blank square and ur camera roll will appear at the bottom x

Sorry to hear about all the bfns this morning! I know it is so disheartening. I’m hoping that some of you guys tested too early or perhaps ovulated later than you thought. Hoping you see ideally a bfp soon or if not other signs of a regular cycle to give you a good chance next time x

How you feeling today @Mommybear05 ? Xx

Getting quite a bit of ewcm today and cervix seems high & soft, glad we've continued to dtd incase I'm yet to ovulate!

@Renna I’m really good thanks. Cd 4 today. First period the first one post mc. Started running again today. No tracking this month other than just counting cycle days. Going to do lots of self care- just get back to my running, my projects in the house, going to make sure I’m eating right trying new recipes etc. And lots of reading. Hubby home so lots of dtd of course and I’m just going to chill and accept beyond that it’s out of my hands 🤷‍♀️ I’m feeling quite positive, not that I’ll necessarily conceive but of the process. We will see. How are you feeling? Xx

@renna has ur uti been troubling you still, mine is been for 123,0000 wees today except just little dribbles 🙈😂 sorry tmi. Really needs to go away now, drinkings lots of water to try and flush it out and been on a long bike ride to take my mind off the bfn this morning x x 😒

@Hayleylou89 you can take antibiotics even if you are pregnant. When I was pregnant I had so many utis and doctors would prescribe antibiotics even before the results of urine tests came back as they don’t like utis in pregnancy. Maybe you could see your doc if it’s bothering you so much? I have them regularly and they’re not nice! How you’re feeling better after your bike ride xx

@Renna ... iv got microbid here as i had a really bad one a few weeks ago but they prescribed me 10 days worth but didnt need them all so had one of them this morning and will have another now iv just eaten again as they do help, im waiting for a scan of my kidneys but not had anything through yet while all this is going on bike ride was lovely its so sunny here today. Hope ur well! X

@Mommybear05 aw glad to hear it , all sounds really good. And you often hear this is when people do get pregnant is when they relax about it ... but we all know that's hard to do ! Deffo focusing on other things like that helps! I'm in my first proper cycle after having AF end of March since MC too and if I dont get a BFP this month I feel like I may have to tone it all down a bit with tracking etc as I've thought about it all a lot more this time as dont want it being over whelming and probs feel more disappointing if I see a BFN. Not feeling positive this month but I am only 6dpo I guess .. and I dont think I really got any noticeable symptoms last time until AF was actually due /late .

@Hayleylou89 Haha yup funny you say that been troubling me too... its not terrible I've deffo had worse but still annoying . My friends a nurse and she says to try hold going for a wee and fill up the bladder instead of those little dribbles that sting haha... I've done that last couple days does help . But when I need to go I'm like running to the loo as it's so urgent haha. But she said obvs dont hold it too much to cause yourself more damage lol.... another method... which I have not tried yet and I said well that can be a last resort method.... is to have a warm bath with no soap and wee in it .... 🤣🤣🤣 gawd . I'm not that bad yet hah . I thought mine may just be cystitis but I think it probably is a UTI as I've had it a few days 🙄 dont really want to go to the GP for antibiotics so hoping I can flush it out. Been drinking loads. Of water and cranberry juice and cranberry tablets .. :( wow we are so similar I had kidney problems when I was younger went great ormond street for scans etc but they never properly diagnosed me with anything . I just seem to get UTIs a lot now I'm older.

Oo running and bike rides. Both sound good !! Weather seems to have got worse here but will be going out for my walk once I've finished working.. we live on the seafront so can be a nice walk :) xx

@Renna see being pregnant stopped any uti's ...mine was so bad after the baby in feb i had to go the walk in as my back was in agony and it was heading to my kindneys thats probably the worst one iv had which is why they gave me the 10 days worth of tabs but as i started feeling better i stopped so its probably hung around a bit as i didnt finish the course... it seems to have eased off this afternoon.. the wee holding for opks was too much this cycle so i know i wont be doing that until a few days before ov this time now i know i can get a peak on cb so not stressing half as much next time if there is a next time.. hopefully not and we both get bfps soon 🙏🙏

Afternoon ladies, sorry to those got a bfn today let's hope it was just too early to test fingers crossed.
I'm 12dpo today haven't tested yet as I'm scared too, but I had some pink tinge in my cm when I wiped this morning so have a feeling af is on her way 😢.

@Hayleylou89 ouch not nice. I've had them before bad too . Not nice . Makes you feel so rough too. See attached that was on my femometer app today .. good sign for you 😉

My frers just arrived 😁 .. deffo storing them away no where near ready to use them yet 😂 but would rather have them waiting there should I need them rather than having to go to the shop

@he88 when is AF due hun? Hope she stays away xx

@HE88 when is AF due for you? X

@renna ahh how wierd after us talking about teeth.. so strange cos they didnt bleed this morning only yesterday xx god know what my hormones are playing at x

Hi ladies could I join ?

I'm currently 10 DPO and have been TTC for a year after a miscarriage at 14 weeks in March last year

Tested this morning and as expected another BFN on FRER and a faint line on IC I'm Going with FRER results as they are more reliable

I'm usually a pretty positive person but after 12 months of TTC I'm feeling pretty negative and just down in the dumps ! Feel
Like it's never gonna happen again !

I hope next few days go quickly xx

@Renna @Hayleylou89 I'm not 100% sure when af is due before MC my cycles were anywhere from 30-35 days. My 1st period after MC was 5 weeks exactly so I'm a bit in the dark as to when she will show her face! X

@Donnat89 welcome 😊 sorry that you find yourself here after a MC and that you are still TTC after a year, that must be so hard. I can imagine that you must be feeling all sorts. From the first month TTC it sends me a bit all over the place it's very emotional.

Are you tracking with anything at all? Xx

@Donnat89 sorry for your loss... but hopefully you find some comfort in this thread. Must be so hard going through the trying, TWW and starting over for a year, especially after a loss. Have you spoken to your GP about TTC?

@HE88 I'm in the same boat as you, 11DPO not going to bother taking a test as I just don't feel anything and don't want to be staring at a blank stick. If you are 10DPO I reckon AF has to be due in the next 7 days what CD are you?Hoping she stays away for you and you get a nice surprise 🤞