TTC after miscarriage - April 2020 part 2

[Ejb86]

I've created us all another thread as we filled the last one!

@mommybear05 I had no idea how long I'd feed for. I never thought I'm definitely going to bf, once he was born though, all I wanted was to get bf right. Every time he woke in the hospital i buzzed for the midwives to check we had got the latch right.

He's already asked more today than he did yesterday and has been difficult to distract!

@Hayleylou89 I'm ok thanks. Fertile window starts today, so hoping to pin hubby down a few times over the next few days!

I have everything crossed for you hun x

@SmileyT nope no idea at all! Due to have some frer's delivered today or tomorrow feel like I should avoid taking them until 21/04 when it will be 4 weeks post mmc. Feel like a bfn puts me in such a bad mood for the day.

@Hayleylou89 yes that’s it. It’s the not knowing that gets me too. Like if someone told me you will conceive on this date even if it’s a while away I wouldn’t feel as stressed. But life doesn’t work that way! I really do hope that is girls on here are not in this position month after month! X

@Renna hey hope ur ok! It is dragging ... 6dpo and im the same with the cystitis still too its on and off, i think its because i was so used to holiding my pee for the ovulation tests and now im still doing it subconsciously... think all the dtd probably didnt help either and i do have antibiotics here that i know will clear it right away as i get this quite alot but dnt want to take them just incase i am pregnant 🙈😂 x

@Mommybear05 oh wouldnt that be ideal if someone could say ull get pregnant in x amount of time 😂 i wish !! X x

@dinosaur17 my new pack of OPKs just arrived wohoo x

@dinosaur17 hopefully i wont be needing them though 👌🏼🙄

My frer tests have just arrived.... '' must resist temptation''

@Ejb86 AF due 30th for me this month! So we’re still synced up 😆

@francis05 ... u waiting until tomorrow fmu? Xx

@TerribleImagination 30th would give me a 28 day cycle. Have only had 1 of those since September so I'll probably be out by then, or have already tested, but the theory is I wait until then

@Hayleylou89 Oooh yay! Hope you don’t need them!!

@francis05 I honestly don’t know how I’d resist the temptation!!

@Hayleylou89 yeah I think so, not sure I'll hold out until Saturday.

@Hayleylou89 I ordered some OPKs today too so I can use them with the femometer app in case I am out this month. Xx

Hope we'll be testing buddies @Ejb86 @TerribleImagination 🤞

@francis05 yeah maybe wait until it's at least 28days as think that's an 'average' cycle and then you if it's just too early you won't have the dissapointment of a BFN, how many tests did you get? Enough to just try every day? If you've got a few maybe you can try one 👌🏾 xx

@SmileyT I would love to wait until Tuesday but not sure I have the willpower!! I have 2 frer & 4 ic left although not sure I'm trusting the ic's this time around.

@francis05 ahh exciting... i couldnt wait either ill probably do a cheapy in the morning as i had 10 cheapys delivered with my opk delivery so might aswell but ill only be 7dpo tomorrow so not too optimistic with that but i love to pee on sticks so we will see x

So a question I've been meaning to ask but always feel too silly to post!... When people say they have sore or tender breasts do you mean sore to touch or can it mean they are more sore than normal when running/running up and down steps without a bra on?
Only asking as earlier in the week my boobs were sore and almost felt grazed, but nothing since. Although they do feel more painful when they bounce. I'm relatively small C cup btw x

@francis05 well if you have a couple to use and you think you may have ovulated on the 1st then could be perfect time.

I've never taken a HPT and it be negative so just feel like first month after MC probably isn't the time for me to face that, my friends often refer to me as emotionally unstable so that's probably why 😂

During my pregnancy my boobs felt like they were going to pop, they just felt achy and like somebody had injected water into them and the skin hadn't grown to accommodate. They also no longer fit into my bras but think that happens for me pre-AF aswell a bit xx

Excited for you all thinking of testing next few days xxx I've ordered some frer off Amazon... you're all bad influences on me🤣🤣 before I wouldnt think of testing until AF late .. I've ordered the frers in case I cave a few days before... 🤣 I'd still like to wait until AF due but I'm impatient already let alone another like 10 days I have to wait ..
Cant wait to see some BFPs as I reckon were bound to have some in this thread 🌈🤞😍

@francis05 .. The sore boobs I had when pregnant last time was like an achey pain and if had pressure on them would feel sore . I guess its similar to some pain people get with AF but was more so and more consistent xx

@francis05 my boobs were swollen, felt like they were going to pop! They would hurt even if not touched, and would hurt even more if they were not in a bra. I had to sleep in sports bras at night because it would be too painful otherwise. I also noticed that if I was in a cold place (freezer section in grocery store) or a cool breeze hit me, they would burn, felt like they were on fire!

Thank you @SmileyT @Rainboehope11 @Renna that's really helpful, but unfortunately nit really feeling any of that. Hmm think I could be making up symptoms in my head.
Husband wanted me to have a glass of wine with him tonight, lost count if the amount of times I've told him I'm not drinking at the moment!!

@Ejb86 30th would give me a 27 day cycle, so no idea if that’ll be right or not! Probs not going by the last 2 cycles! However I’m CD14 now and no peak OPK yet... so could be a longer cycle!

@SmileyT Hiiii other potential testing buddy! What CD are you on?

@Renna those FRER are way too tempting when you havr them in the bathroom cupboard!! Haha.

@francis05 ah, I have still been enjoying some wine until I know either way. Hopefully it doesn't effect things too much but definitely helps me relax! X

@francis05 I think I'm doing the same with the symptom spotting ... my boobs feel a little achey but not fully like they have before. And I keep getting heart burn last few days .. but that could be from drinking cranberry juice to ease cystitis symptoms 🤣 .. plus I'm only 5dpo so tell myself that's too soon to feel anything.. 🤣🙄
I still have the odd glass of wine here and there like @VP91x . I think I need it to de stress and relax during this mad time locked in doors symptom spotting 🤣🙄 xx