Back in the 2WW

[Kates21]

So, the subject says it all! Although I feel I may have more a chance this month.
I came off the pill December - last month we was out. But this month, I apparently ovulated yesterday 12/01/20. We did the deed twice 2 days before ovulation... so today Iam 1dpo.

Anyone in the same that wants to join?
I really want to try not symptom spot, but yesterday I felt the cramps - which led me to think it was ovulation.

Oh @macaz20 - I can't post about CM and then put my face up, hahaha! But @Kates21 its nice to see your face x

Hi - im newbie to this thread - iv recently lost a baby at 22.5 weeks :( heartbreaking beyond belief but we positive are not giving up our hopes of having a baby - iv started tracking using opks 3 weeks after losing my baby to see where things are at ovulation wise and they are a little confusing would u say ovulation occurred during this week of testing

So I just got this 😳

Oh @Hayleylou89 - I’m so sorry, I hope you are both doing ok xx

@Hayleylou89, so sorry to hear that. Must be completely devastating. I cant imagine.

I'm not sure on the OPK front. I'm wondering how long it will take the pregnancy levels from your previous pregnancy to decrease and whether this can skew OPK readings? I have no idea, sorry x

@Avocadoandtoast, amazing news. Congrats x

That's a nice strong one @Avacadoandtoast! Congrats x

@Hayleylou89 so sorry to hear about your baby, I know what it feels like to feel like your out of the danger zone then your world is ripped away. I lost my little boy 6 months ago. I started tracking my cycle once I stopped bleeding after giving birth, I had one postpartum period & fell pregnant again but it was a chemical pregnancy & haven’t been a day late for my period since. I would say wait until you’ve had your first period then start tracking from there, it depends on your cycle length when to start using OPKs, what’s your usual cycle length? Have you stopped bleeding after giving birth & have your periods returned, none of those OPKs look positive yet. There’s another thread on here which is ttc after stillbirth/loss which has got a nice bunch of women on there for support. Hope you get your rainbow, I know how shit it is to have empty arms xx

Yesssss @Avacadoandtoast

@Hayleylou89 very sorry to hear of you news, you too @sh84 - my fingers are crossed for you both x

@Avacadoandtoast - Brilliant news for you!! Did you 'know' and have symptoms, or are you surprised? Here's to a happy and healthy pregnancy for you x

Thank you everyone 😘

@polejunkie I actually thought I started getting my period a day late, but only bled very lightly and then it stopped. There was nothing else and I thought that was strange. That’s when I did the test. No other symptoms though - though this morning I have a banging headache and feel sick!

Thank you @polejunkie already feeling like I’m out for this month as had first positive OPK last night, even stronger this morning with mild cramps & OH is away till tomorrow night.

@Avacadoandtoast congratulations, always lovely to see when someone gets their BFP

@sh84 have faith - You may still catch tomorrow! Worth a try

@Avacadoandtoast - Super pleased for you, shame you feel sick already though! x

@Avacadoandtoast woohoo! Fab news! 🙌💕

I’m delighted - I’m hoping it’s one of many in this group 😘

How are we all?

@Kates21 I’m good! How are you? How’s everyone else? Ovulation day tracked for two days time so just trying to DTD as much as possible 😂

Hello! O day just passed for me... Not feeling overly hopeful this month, but if this month isn't the month I feel like we might have to skip next month (baby would end up due on 27th Dec...) Not sure it's the best plan lol, but we want a baby, so do we carry on...?! Thoughts welcome!

Oh tough call @polejunkie I’d just keep going every month is an opportunity after all ☺️ How come you don’t feel hopeful for this month?

@macaz20 - I dunno, my OH was ill Fri so we missed Fri and Sat, so part of me kind of feels this month is already out - We made the most of it Thurs and yesterday, so maybe, just maybe we have a shot. I think I just felt a bit fed up because the TWW is hard enough when you think you have a chance, let alone already assuming it's probably unlikely lol x x

Yeah I get you mate! Keep the faith though! You never know! Are you gonna test early? Xx

Probably not based on how I feel atm - He's away until 12th and I'm due AF on 15th, so IF I feel like there's a chance, I may test early - I knew I was pregnant with my first so who knows - Maybe he'll come home and i'll be able to surprise him, ha!

Yeah maybe! I guess time will tell! I’ve convinced myself it’s not gonna happen for next few months too so I don’t plan on testing unless I’m late for AF x

You never know @macaz20, you never know! How many months have you been ttc? x

I came off my pill mid/end of jan, had a withdrawal bleed and then I had my first natural bleed 20th Feb so this is my first proper cycle I guess that’s why I’ve told myself it ain’t gonna happen for months and months yet haha xx