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BFP now Knicker checking!

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BabyB19 · 18/12/2019 11:41

Now I finally have my BFP after a MMC and then 6 months ttc, I'm petrified that it's going to end in a CP or another MC. Anyone else wanna hang around and be anxious with me?

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Roxy8203 · 31/12/2019 16:15

Thanks @BabyB19. Technically 4+1 but ovulated on the 16th. After my last experience I'm not holding my breath and kind of expecting the worst but got everything crossed this is our time.

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BabyB19 · 31/12/2019 18:14

So sorry you're out @SoonToBeMrs91 good luck for next month! Xx
@Roxy8203 it's so hard to stay positive when you've had a bad experience but I am warming to it more every day and getting more and more confident. We just need to keep calm and take it easy the next few weeks ❤️❤️

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Roxy8203 · 31/12/2019 18:36

@BabyB19 I'm just trying to forget about it and get on with things. If I think about it too much I'll be stressed and also trying to stay a little detached until I'm further along. Kind of can't believe it at the moment but all the best to everyone who is in the same boat and to all the ladies still trying I hope you get your BfP soon xx

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BabyB19 · 31/12/2019 18:38

I get you completely, I'm only just starting to accept it and it's been over two weeks now since I found out. It's hard to let your guard down isn't it @Roxy8203 xx

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Roxy8203 · 31/12/2019 19:01

Definitely, last time I was really excited and planning things and looking into what I needed to do at work etc which made it all very real

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ec1993 · 01/01/2020 16:39

@BabyB19 she said I'm measuring on track so far so 🤞🏻 let me know how your scan does. Mine is on 14th and I have a private one this Saturday xx

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BabyB19 · 01/01/2020 19:42

That's good news @ec1993 I have a private scan booked on 22nd but then they gave me one on 16th so I might push my private one on a little bit so there's a bigger gap between them depending on how the first one goes! It's so exciting, I'm glad Christmas and new year has helped things go by a little quicker @Roxy8203 ☺️

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Holmes1990 · 22/01/2020 10:34

How did your scan go @BabyB19 ?

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BabyB19 · 22/01/2020 10:57

Hi @Holmes1990 my scan went amazingly thank you, I was measuring 8+2 making me 9+1 today. Feeling it this week too it's been a rough few days 🤢 how are you doing?

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Roxy8203 · 22/01/2020 11:03

Love sewing scan pics. I've got a private scan booked on Saturday morning and have everything crossed it better than last year.

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BabyB19 · 22/01/2020 11:25

I know the anxiety @Roxy8203 and was sure I would get bad news again but I hope my little peanut gives you hope, I have everything crossed and the odds are in your favour 🤞🏼 keep us posted when you've been I'd love to see xx

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Roxy8203 · 22/01/2020 11:29

@BabyB19 will do, I've felt very not pregnant for the last couple of days and the lack of symptoms so far hasn't helped but I googled my chances last night and it said 1-2% of two losses in a row so I'm taking hope from that. I'll post my scan on sat all being well 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

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BabyB19 · 22/01/2020 11:41

I was exactly the same as by 8 weeks I was expecting more symptoms and didn't get them, now I've had the scan they have really kicked in so I'm wondering how much was subconscious Cos I was burying it expecting bad news @Roxy8203 xx

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elc19 · 23/01/2020 15:16

Hi girls

Just wanted to say our babies heart stopped beating at 8.5 weeks. I had a D&C today.

Good luck with all of your pregnancies and wishing you all the very best xxx

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Roxy8203 · 23/01/2020 16:35

@elc19 I'm so sorry to hear that. Look after yourself. Big hugs xx

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BabyB19 · 23/01/2020 18:12

I'm so sorry @elc19 I hope you make a quick recovery physically and that mentally you stay strong and can try again when you are ready. GNGB to your little one ❤️ xxx

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Roxy8203 · 26/01/2020 07:53

@BabyB19 had my scan yesterday, saw a nice strong heartbeat and measuring a couple days ahead which is great to hear

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BabyB19 · 26/01/2020 09:16

Ahh how amazing @Roxy8203 so how far along does that put you now then? It's such a relief isn't it ❤️

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Roxy8203 · 26/01/2020 09:22

I thought I was 7+6 but she said 8+2, so only a couple days but last time they were worries about the size and the dates and the pregnancy failed so it's lovely to hear that it's bigger than expected and seeing the heartbeat. I feel better now as I don't really have many symptoms

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BabyB19 · 26/01/2020 10:02

I was 1 day ahead of what I thought and even that was a relief so I know you must be made up! My symptoms have gone off the last few days which has worried me but I'm currently in bed eating ginger biscuits! Never thought I'd be happy to be feeling sick 🤣 @Roxy8203

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Roxy8203 · 26/01/2020 10:51

Sounds like a good way to spend a rainy Sunday morning

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