Put down the pee sticks!

[BabyB19]

Hi ladies

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@bluetue @ceebee21 @dizzy85 @Jonesbabynumber1 @Tbug

And welcome to any newbies that want to join this mad mad world of trying to conceive x

@MrsCl19 it's silly isn't it, as if buying a T-shirt or a pair of booties would hold the control of wether we get a bfp/bfn! But still couldn't bring myself to do it 😭🤦🏽‍♀️

Oh I've seen so many bits I'd love to buy, I got my OH some Adidas trainers yesterday and right next to me in the queue were the matching baby ones it did cross my mind😁. Yer it's true it's really not going to jinx anything realistically is it but it still makes you think it 😂

@dizzy85 honestly it's lethal!! Dh wants a boy next so he can have matching trainers 😂

@MrsCl19 love it 😆 I will definitely be doing matchy matchy with the whole family 😂

🤣🤣 I'm not interested in matchy matchy but that comes from being one of 5 siblings and my mum trying to match us across a 10 year age gap 🤦🏽‍♀️😭 isn't it stupid hey the thoughts we have 🤦🏽‍♀️😭🤣 @dizzy85 @MrsCl19 @ceebee21

Hahaha well I will probably traumatise my child when their older looking back at all our matching outfits photos 🤣🤣🤣 yer it is funny what we think of but I think it's good to have these visions and then it will somehow turn itself into reality..positive thoughts and all that ☺️🤞🏻

@BabyB19 @dizzy85 @ceebee21 I just wrote a big message and it went! I was just saying how I had to buy baby clothes today as new baby in family I used to love looking at baby clothes now it reminds me what I haven’t got yet! DH wants me to go meet baby but I know I’ll feel envious. The baby wasn’t planned but very much wanted so she has no idea how hard it can be for others and I know we’ll get the you next comment or when you two having one! My app changed its mind and reckons I’ll ovulate tomorrow. Plan was to not bd tonight and do tomorrow and now I’m torn! I was in such a nice mood yesterday and now today I feel like going to bed and not talking to anyone!

Oh god I haven’t been tempted by any of that yet,but I do keep imagining wrapping a positive test !!!

Xx

@Jonesbabynumber1 that's crappy for you I'm sorry you have to do that. It's going to be hard but we have to try not to be bitter and remember there will be someone feeling the same about coming to visit us one day and it would be so upsetting if they didn't come! Be brave ❤️

@BabyB19 thank you for the great advice and reassurance ❤️

@Jonesbabynumber1 aw I'm sorry your feeling crappy. I know how you feel it's natural to feel envious when you want something so bad but try to think of it in a happy way that you'll get to hold a new born baby which is such a beautiful thing 🥰and I know how hard it is but try to pick yourself up and stay positive and get on your DH tonight just incase..I'm sure a good session will cheer you up rather than going to bed and not talking to anyone.

@BabyB19 that's really lovely advice! @Jonesbabynumber1 sending lots of hugs (because I'm rubbish at good words).

@dizzy85 yes that’s a good way to think about it thank you 😊

Yes what @dizzy85 said too @Jonesbabynumber1 you know if you don't BD, although you're probably more than covered with going every other day, you will stress yourself out if you don't thinking you've missed the chance. I think I'm going to again tonight just to be sure tbh, and also because I've had a coldsore so we've had sexual with no kissing which isn't at all nice, my OH asked before if we can have a kiss again soon bless him, so it's on the cards anyway haha

Thanks @MrsCl19 we have to try and keep eachother lifted don't we as we all have down days x

@MrsCl19 thank you ☺️ yes I’ll see how we get on. Funny enough we’ve been having no kissing sex due to the DH having a few mouth ulcers 😅 so hopeful he’s up for it.

It's not the same is it @Jonesbabynumber1 I'm petrified of giving him it so I don't normally go near him when I have one but it was the fertile window so no kissing sex was the only option x

@BabyB19 kissing is best way to initiate sex so no tthe same without it x

Omg How funny my OH has had 2 coldsores for the past week so we've also not been kissing it's so frustrating 😂 they're almost gone now thank god! It's definitely not the same without kissing it feels so abnormal.

We must be dedicated If we've all got the mange and we're still cracking on 😭🤣 @dizzy85 @Jonesbabynumber1

Still not OV I'm going crazy haha.

@Jonesbabynumber1 do you have a pic of your bbt chart from last month to have a look at? I'm temping this month so know it hasn't happened yet xx

@ceebee21 how do you you haven’t ovulated. How are you tempting? My bbt last month was very up and down and showed to dips and peaks.

@ceebee21 temping is not easy and I think the you have to do two plus cycles to get any benefit from it

I’m on another thread and she’s just got a bfp after finding out she didn’t ovulate until cd 22. How insane is that x

@ceebee21 what cd are you?
I'm 15 and I'm hoping I'm close but who knows? Opks are like half the way but I'm dtd every third day at least to cover myself ..... hopefully 🤣