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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Bfp?

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GeePipe · 25/09/2019 11:51

Hi. I have just taken this. It says its a midstream test for mid wee but i dipped it in a cup instead. Its a cheap £1 test and i dont know if this is a false line or evap or what? This came up after 30ish seconds. Should i take another one? Is there a chance this is invalid? Thanks for any help x

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cornplant · 25/09/2019 11:53

It's obviously positive

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GeePipe · 25/09/2019 11:55

But it might be a false positive? Ive never done one before and have heard evap lines can occur. If its really positive in screwed.

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cornplant · 25/09/2019 12:01

The line is pink so definitely positive

cornplant · 25/09/2019 12:01

False positives don't happen

ForGoodnessCake · 25/09/2019 12:02

That's not an evap line that's a blatant positive. Your eggo is preggo

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GeePipe · 25/09/2019 12:04

Ok thank you. That was my concern. I wad reading a thread last night saying false positives could happen and with this being a £1 test i wanted to make sure. Sorry if i offend.

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SunshineAngel · 25/09/2019 12:09

That's the most positive test I've ever seen on this site!

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GeePipe · 25/09/2019 12:12

I dont know how the fuck to tell him. He doesnt want it.

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Michellebops · 25/09/2019 12:13

Definitely a bfp? Guess that's not what you're hoping for?

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GeePipe · 25/09/2019 12:19

He is very against it. Said it will ruin our lives. He is still at work and i dont know how to say i can't get rid of it.

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GeePipe · 25/09/2019 12:24

Oh god and i was horrendously drunk throwing up around a week and a half after my last period will that effect it? Im freaked out.

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FatAndFurious7 · 25/09/2019 13:31

If you're really unsure (although that's clearly a bfp) then just go and get another test and put your mind at rest.

Just a heads up on your thread though - I'm sure your situation is uncomfortable and I'm sorry you've gotten yourself into it (I'm not going to lash out and condemn that you've managed to get pregnant without wanting children) however many many many women, me included, are desperately ttc and go to and enjoy threads like this as sharing bfp joy with others is wonderful.

Your comments about your 'D'P thinking it'll ruin your life and not wanting it are quite hard to read.

FWIW I'm sure your binge around the time of conception shouldn't have an effect as you wont actually have implanted by then so not technically be 'pregnant' but now you know you're pregnant you really shouldn't drink at all. You also need to tell your boyfriend - it takes two to tango and you're not the only one responsible here (unless you purposefully sabotaged your birth control).

cornplant · 25/09/2019 13:31

No the embryo feeds from the yolk sack for a while before attaching so being drunk before should be ok

cornplant · 25/09/2019 13:32

I agree that this thread is not in the correct place.

DamnaThatOnesTaken · 25/09/2019 13:36

Yes OP it's positive. And yes it's fine for you to be upset that it's positive. You did not post on someone else's thread that was struggling to concieve saying you are upset. Take one step at a time. The first step is to tell him. The second to give him some space to decompress. He will probably be shocked and act annoyed at first. But give him time to come around. He may end up excited. If not then that is a road to cross when the time comes.

DamnaThatOnesTaken · 25/09/2019 13:38

This thread was posted in conception. She has conceived. It was not posted in infertility.

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GeePipe · 25/09/2019 13:39

Im sorry if i have offended anyone. I looked at the other topics and thought this was the correct one to post in? Sorry if its wrong. Im just shocked and worried. Ive always wanted a child but i know dp is not keen and last night said if i was pregnant he thinks i should have an abortion which i know i dont want. Im worried about how angry he will be with me. This is a pill failure.

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cornplant · 25/09/2019 13:41

He's an arse if he's angry with you. Mistakes happen.

FatAndFurious7 · 25/09/2019 13:46

I just want to clarify that my post was more of a warning to OP that someone/people may lash out from anger or jealousy, as I've seen it happen to other innocent posters. I didn't suggest it was in the wrong place as it isn't.

OP, can I ask why you're with someone who doesn't want children if you desperately want to? If you want to keep this child (and you are well within your rights to make that choice) then you should prepare yourself to do it alone, and have that word with yourself before talking to your DP so if the worst does happen then you know where you stand.

Sunflower2019 · 25/09/2019 13:49

@GeePipe I would go discuss with your GP all of your concerns and they will go over your options. These things do happen and if you decide to keep it obviously that’s your choice.The test is an obvious positive of use these before and the evaps are never that strong. Good luck to you whatever your decision XX

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GeePipe · 25/09/2019 13:50

Thank you for replying. Its not that he doesnt want children. He has one from a previous relationship. Its that he said we cant afford one yet and we will be stuck in our little flat in dead end jobs for the next ten years. He is prone to catastophise as well. I have £5000 savings for a house eventually and feel we could easily save up a bit more before the end of the year. I just know he wont see it that way.

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Mooey89 · 25/09/2019 15:13

That’s positive OP.
Do another one to be sure. Good luck with whatever you decide.

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GeePipe · 25/09/2019 15:25

Thank you. I have bought a 2nd test so will do that tomorrow.

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Crimsonpetalandthewhite · 25/09/2019 15:44

Indisputably positive. Congratulations (if you were hoping for a positive that is) 😌

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GeePipe · 25/09/2019 15:47

Thank you. I just want dp to come home so i can tell him and get it over with. I cant stop thinking about the positive words the chemist said when i bought the test today and hope he is right and it does become good news.

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