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First cycle trying SMEP - Anyone else?

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Each2TheirOwn · 18/08/2019 16:26

I'm currently on CD8 so am going to attempt the SMEP plan this month.

I've been referred to the fertility clinic but would love to conceive naturally before my appointment comes through so this seems like our best chance!

Is anyone else currently doing this or planning to? Would be good to have a SMEP buddy.

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flossy12 · 06/09/2019 14:22

@Each2TheirOwn it's hard to tell 😅 woke up on the sofa today and OH has come home early and was sat playing PS4 on full volume and hadn't it hadn't even woke me up so must be quite tired but I have just finished a night shift 😅

Funny 'stomach bug' feeling in my tummy. It I generally feel fine, got a slight beach ache at mo, but basically no nothing substantial enough to suspect a BFP is coming x

Positivity2019 · 06/09/2019 21:02

@Each2TheirOwn that’s the plan, keep going every other day until I get a positive OPK or AF arrives. I am showing as being in my fertile window on the Ava app but OPK are negative at the moment. Does anyone do the OPK more than once in a day. I’ve been doing in the morning and then yesterday I did one in the evening too. I waited four hours holding my urine before that evening test but wasn’t sure if it’s necessary to test twice in a day.

flossy12 · 07/09/2019 09:15

ONG OMG OMG OMG

The SMEP has worked!!

OH doesn't believe it says we have to go get a clear blue!! 😱🥰 I'm in shock!! We were going to do a lil video of us reaching to the test and DSS went came over and picked it up before we had chance 😂👏🏼

Cannot actually believe it! Hardly any symptoms at all! 😱😱😱😱

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Coastaldreamer · 07/09/2019 09:54

@flossy12 gonna congratulate you on this thread too 🥳😘

I did another IC today... still faintish line... so it's either a chemical or it's just not dark enough yet. That or I counted my DPO wrong!

Each2TheirOwn · 07/09/2019 10:03

@flossy12 AAAAAAAAAGH...... Massive Congratulations!!!

I'm so happy for you 😀 How many DPO are you?

Our first BFP ❤️ Amazing x

@Coastaldreamer I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you 🤞🏼x

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Coastaldreamer · 07/09/2019 10:39

Yesterday vs today. Anyone see the difference?

@flossy12 @Each2TheirOwn

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Each2TheirOwn · 07/09/2019 10:42

@Coastaldreamer the second picture (the darker one) I can see a more definite line 😀 x

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flossy12 · 07/09/2019 11:52

@Each2TheirOwn thank you 💞

@Coastaldreamer 🤞🏻🤞🏻 your line gets darker! Maybe you OV a couple days later than last thought? Why not get a FRER there more sensitive that IC aren't they? Xx

Positivity2019 · 07/09/2019 18:52

Congratulations @flossy12 great news

SMiles14 · 08/09/2019 07:34

Eeeeep! @flossy12 that has put a massive smile on my face I'm soooo happy for you!!!

We are on our way to the airport now for 5 days in the sun so good luck to everyone testing this week! Might try and check in on you while I'm away. Xxx

flossy12 · 08/09/2019 09:40

@SMiles14 ooohhh enjoy your holiday!! And thank you soo much 😁💞

@Positivity2019 thank you darling 😁😁

Going to ring docs in the morning to see what happens next, can't believe it's actually happening

Positivity2019 · 08/09/2019 14:28

Well I got my first flashing smiley today and it’s absolutely accurate with what my Ava bracelet is telling me. It’s given me such a boost and we DTD this morning. Hope you’re all having a great weekend.

Each2TheirOwn · 08/09/2019 14:32

That's great @Positivity2019 fingers crossed for you for this cycle 🤞🏼 x

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Each2TheirOwn · 09/09/2019 18:23

Hi @Coastaldreamer how are you? Have your second lines got any darker? 🤞🏼 x

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Coastaldreamer · 09/09/2019 18:55

Hey @Each2TheirOwn yes the lines got darker :)) currently still not trying to freak out 😬 lol and allowed myself to join the May2020 thread!

How are things with you?x

Each2TheirOwn · 09/09/2019 19:07

@Coastaldreamer Ah that's amazing news 😀 I'm so happy for you!!

I'm good thanks, had some VERY light brown spotting Saturday and Sunday (10 & 11dpo), only there when wiping, tiny spot on liner. However, today it seems to have stopped 🙈 I'm REALLY hoping it was IB 🙏🏼 AF isn't due till Thursday but I'm going to test tomorrow with a FRER.

Hopefully I'll be joining you on the May 2020 thread 🤞🏼 x

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Coastaldreamer · 09/09/2019 19:31

@Each2TheirOwn thank you Hun

I've got everything crossed for you too!! Hopefully that was IB 🤞🏼 especially as AF not due for another 4 days! Will you test early to wait till Thursday?x

flossy12 · 09/09/2019 19:52

@Each2TheirOwn eeekkk sooo exciting!! 💞

Each2TheirOwn · 10/09/2019 06:55

Hey 👋🏼

Well it was a BFN for me this morning using a FRER 😔 not even a hint of a squint there 👎🏼 so I have lost about 95% of hope for this month. However, I'm not due on until Thursday going by my average 32 day cycle (although my last 4 have been 32, 30, 31, 36) so if she doesn't show then I'll test again then 🤞🏼 x

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Coastaldreamer · 10/09/2019 08:55

@Each2TheirOwn oh man. Sorry to hear that :( fingers crossed tho. Not out till AF shows! X

flossy12 · 10/09/2019 11:49

@Each2TheirOwn your not out until AF shows though sweetie 🤞🏻🤞🏻 I didn't test until the day before AF was due incase I got a BFN as some ladies have the day before they got their BFP I'd leave it till Thursday or maybe Friday then test again if AF doesn't show 💞

Each2TheirOwn · 10/09/2019 14:13

@Coastaldreamer @flossy12 Thanks guys 😊 Got more FRER ordered (arriving tomorrow) so will test again on Thursday (assuming AF doesn't make an appearance).

I'll keep you updated 👍🏼 Hope you are both keeping well x

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flossy12 · 10/09/2019 16:44

@Each2TheirOwn I'm fine ☺️ booking appointment isn't until the end of October now so a longer wait than that dreaded 2 weeks 😅

Coastaldreamer · 11/09/2019 11:30

Got this digital confirmation this morning so finally breathing a bit easy!

If it helps anyone - we used the Conceive plus lubricant as well as the SMEP obv no way to tell if that was what swayed it for us but it definitely helped in the "prep" of dtd too! Was just easier to use and get going 😂

Still here if anyone wants to chat about anything xx

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Positivity2019 · 11/09/2019 15:10

@Each2TheirOwn sorry about the BFN but @Coastaldreamer is right, keep up the positivity until AF arrives. I’ve everything crossed for you!!
Apparently I’m ovulating today according to my Ava bracelet but still got flashing smiley. So we are just going to keep DTD until the digital OPK goes back to negative. We’ve not really done well with following SMEP, basically been at it every night again but I’m determined to follow it next cycle if we don’t get a BFP. Also using preseed this month for the first time.

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