TTC buddies needed DESPERATELY

[MrsB899]

I desperately need some TTC buddies. We've just started trying for no.3 and we haven't told anyone. I'm bursting but with no one to talk to. I realise this makes me sound like a total sap

Erm...
I didn’t want to waste a FRER so just used a cheapie WONDFO...

I’m a bit in shock I think.

@Aberforthsgoat wow congratulations

@Aberforthsgoat ah wow congratulations!! I had a feeling it was gonna be bfp! Really happy for you 😊

Congratulations @Aberforthsgoat!!!

@Aberforthsgoat - I had a feeling too! Congratulations, so happy for you!

@MrsB899 that sounds tiring 😴 sorry af came for you, I just went to the toilet and I'm 99% sure mine has just come too..2 days early, the other 1% is hope that by miracle it's not but I'm pretty sure it's here now...😏onto cycle number 6 I go!

Thank you SO much, you’ve made me cry again
I genuinely 100% did not have a feeling this month after every other bloody cycle being utterly convinced - what are the chances?!

I have to say my Fitbit data is pretty accurate and has showed an increasing resting heart rate to usual now I’ve checked it so there’s definitely something in that.

I’m still completely shocked especially since I did a quick cheapie at night.

I’m going to lurk around because I want to see how everyone else gets on, REALLY hoping for BFPs for you

All my other cycles of symptom spotting have driven me actually mad Kinsella i haven't been able to think of anything else and would have SWORN I was pregnant about three times at least because I had so many symptoms, but nope just turned out to be AF. WHY do the symptoms have to be the same?!

Hahahaha, famous last words!

mrsb that sounds exhausting! sorry AF showed her face :(

dizzy oh I hope it isn’t AF

@squiff70 seems like you ladies knew more than I did! I really really thought it was out this month

When you said you'd been crying and weren't a crier, I thought "I've heard ths before in the last few days from another MNer and they got a BFP...".

@Aberforthsgoat Congratulations!!!! That's so awesome!!! Yay

@Aberforthsgoat Thankyou. Wishing you all the happiness ☺️x

@Aberforthsgoat congratulations!

Me on the other hand... when it’s time to get dtd my dh doesn’t seem in the mood. It’s going to be a long journey if it carries on like this.

@LuciBee omg tell me about it! He wants another wee one but when i try and say right we need to dtd around these dates especially ( and whenever poss otherwise) after a few times enthusiastically then he starts going ' can we do it in the morning?' No not with an 18month old that wakes before you do on the weekend! I kept trying to say ' the quicker we conceive the quicker we can go back to our old ways!' Lol

Can you not tell DH when the magic week is? Maybe it’s a pressure thing?

That was badly phrased, I meant don’t tell him about dates specifically perhaps? DH found that better, but I get if you have kids already it might be difficult just going with the flow!

Also is dreaming a symptom??? Because a swear the last few days every time I shut my eyes I have the most vivid dreams! Every time! This is not usual for me , At All

Only other 'symptoms' have been slight nausea ( but could be other factors involved) and some cramps maybe early signs of Af though.

I keep telling myself to just wait for the appearance of Af but parts of me just want to do a test!!!

@Aberforthsgoat just wanted to say a massive congratulations! 💞 what a lovely strong line for a cheapie 🙌🏼

@Aberforthsgoat having a little one makes it a bit harder plus the tiredness factor for both of us. It's all a bit 'quick he's asleep get yer kit off' I'm just lucky my LO sleeps so well through the night! I don't need to worry about him waking up at the wrong moment!

My husband is very good but just sometimes just not in the mood ... And yeah I become torn between my need to grab any opportunity and trying not to stress him out or take the actual fun out of the whole thing.

Just comes down to me being over stress again! I'm usually so laid back! I've no idea what has happened to me lol

Congratulations @Aberforthsgoat ! Amazing news xx

@Jonesydocandjr were the same. My LO is 22 months. I try it on or make hints and get nothing back. When we first started a few months back I put him off by saying it was the right time so I haven’t said anything since, but somethings got to change otherwise it will never happen. I manage twice in my fertile window if I’m lucky.

We found out last night our close friends are having a baby girl (we knew they were having a baby but they found out the gender yesterday) after they had gone my partner said to me, I couldn't imagine us having a girl and he went into plans about the front bedroom which my son is currently in (he'll be ready to move into bed 2 soon once we've sorted it) and even a name for a boy that he likes... he's never spoken about anything for number 2 until now, which is exciting but I'm just a little worried how long it could take us . Fingers crossed it won't be too long... congratulations to those who got their BFP this weekend and those who are onto the next cycle I wish you good luck.

Morning all, well that's me officially out..AF came properly this morning 😩 I'm feeling sorry for myself, I've just had 2 chocolate chip muffins for breakfast and I'm currently washing them down with a chocolate milkshake 🤦‍♀️😂 hope everyone is doing ok!

Sorry @dizzy85 xxx
I know exactly how you feel :-(