TTC buddies needed DESPERATELY

[MrsB899]

I desperately need some TTC buddies. We've just started trying for no.3 and we haven't told anyone. I'm bursting but with no one to talk to. I realise this makes me sound like a total sap

@Louise190 I know how you feel my OH is just sooo relaxed about it whilst I'm slowly but surely losing my marbles each cycle. Unfortunately men just can't fully understand what we go through. But lucky for us we have mumsnet 😄 it's definitely helped me talking on here.

@louise190 they really don’t get it. They don’t understand that if you actually really want it to happen you have to be like this and track etc, even when doing all this and dtd at the right times you still only have a 20% chance each month. If you took their approach it might never happen!

Good luck to the testers this morning! 🤞🏻

BFN on FRER for me this morning 😔...good luck to the others testing 🤞🏻

Ah no @dizzy85 I'm sorry. But like that it's still early days. I was looking on that countdown to pregnancy site this morning at the stats of getting a bfp this early so there's still time. I'm gonna do mine shortly. Glutton for punishment I am

Ahh sorry to hear that @dizzy85 is there still a possibility?

@Kinsella82 @Cupcakes1234 Thanks ladies, it was really disappointing to see but then it's still early so maybe a chance, although I had some more spotting just after which was slightly more so I'm starting to lose hope a little bit but I'm just gonna test now until either happens. Good luck @Kinsella82 🤞🏻, I was straight on google after looking for stories of people spotting and still getting pregnant😬going crazy again.

@dizzy85 sorry to hear that. BFN here too but I was expecting it x

Bfn this morning with frer and fmu :(

@MrsB899 @Kinsella82 sorry to hear that for you both too! It's not over yet though so let's stay hopeful 🤞🏻😊. I'm just gonna test again tomorrow and see what happens. x

Sorry to hear about all the BFNS! Hopefully it’s just too early for you guys?
I’m not testing as I think I’m definitely out so I’m going to wait for AF to arrive on Tuesday.
Normally I’m itching to test but I think I just know this month that I’m out.

@Aberforthsgoat hope you're right. I'm cramping like crazy though so I'm sure AF is on her way. AF is due Tuesday for me too

Hi ladies. I'm still checking in, sorry about your BFN but it is still early days. I had major cramping for days before BFP and was adamant they were AF cramps. You're not out until AF arrives xx

@Aberforthsgoat wishing you luck and hope af doesn't turn up for you either! Mines due Wednesday.

@MrsM18 thanks, that adds another glimmer of hope.

I just had abit of a breakdown on the OH, I had plans to go out with a friend today which was cancelled and I didn't really have anything else to do to distract myself from thinking so then I just felt massively emotional and it all came out..poor OH 😂

@dizzy85 I know exactly how you feel I'm so p%^#ed off today. I've done a major spring clean to keep myself busy

@MrsM18 I'm not holding out much hope I'm cramping on and off since I woke

@MrsB899 it's horrible isn't it! I've been in the worst mood today. My OH made me get up and dragged me out for a walk I actually feel a bit better for getting out now. Been having cramps on and off myself too..this is the worst bit I think these last days of the tww!

Aww ladies! The TWW is hard enough already without cramping and not knowing if AF is going to be late or not.

I'm soon to enter the TWW. For the last two days I've had pale second lines on OPKs and am expecting a much darker line by Mon/Tues next week.

@dizzy85 I've started spotting this evening so I'm def think I'm out. Oh well there's always next month. Fingers crossed for you x

@MrsB899 oh no I'm hear that but hopefully it isn't, Ive been spotting for days now but still holding onto a last hope. x

CD8 for me and I've got faint lines on OPKs too. Glow estimates Ov to be around the 12th for me although I suspect this may be incorrect.

Cd21 for me and not even a hint of a line on an opk! What’s going on?! I usually get a peak on cd15/16... I can’t have missed it as I was on my seriously long ridiculous period until cd12!

Morning all, another BFN on FRER for me again today 😏

@dizzy85 sorry to hear that. I've not tested this morning I'm sure AF is just starting

Ladies, I'm on CD 12 and been OPKing for 3 days. Yesterday I got stronger lines than I have today although they weren't blazing positives yesterday. Tuesday is meant to be my ovulation day so surely they should be geting stronger now? Where am I going wrong? I'm only using internet cheapies but usully they get very dark just before I ovulate. Confused! I'll try again later...