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TTC buddies needed DESPERATELY

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MrsB899 · 01/04/2019 21:48

I desperately need some TTC buddies. We've just started trying for no.3 and we haven't told anyone. I'm bursting but with no one to talk to. I realise this makes me sound like a total sap

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dizzy85 · 01/05/2019 09:55

@MrsPandigital it is definitely extremely hard to wait I think even Saturday might be abit early for me but I think that's as long as I can go. A lot of people do get early results with the FRERS but then I've read a lot of posts where people haven't gotten a bfp until after af due even with a FRER, so I guess we are all unique 😄 I'd be tempted to test now if my af due on the weekend but that's because I have minimal self control when it comes to poas, I'm surprised I've not done it yet and I'm only 7DPO.

Squiff70 · 01/05/2019 10:41

@@MrsM18 WOOHOO! Congratulations, I was wondering when you said you'd been crying at Jezza, lol! Fantastic news to start the week. More BFPs to come on this thread, I don't doubt...

@dizzy85 that's probably wise. I've POAS (OPK) this morning and I'm only on CD 8 - so I'm in no place to judge, lol!

dizzy85 · 01/05/2019 10:54

Hi everyone 😀so...I have an issue and just wondering if anyone else has anything similar happen to them? Basically I get spotting between ovulation and af, but it starts like a week before af due sometimes even earlier like in March it was 9 days before af due and then last month was only the day before but mostly it's at least a week before, I know pre af spotting is normal for some people but I just feel like a week or 9days before seems like a long time. I've had it checked out at the doctors and scans and blood tests all came back fine and the conclusion from the gynaecologist was that it's just one of those things. But it hasn't always happened to me that's why I was concerned. Anyway it's just happened now and instantly my head is thinking it's going to be another negative month for me and maybe this spotting is preventing me getting pregnant. Sorry not to sound all depressing there 😄 it just frustrates me. Do you think I should worry or do you think it's normal?

LuciBee · 01/05/2019 13:55

@dizzy85 I literally spot all month long pretty much, apart from the odd couple of days. My Dr said to me the only way that will stop is to get pregnant and it's just one of those things. I've never had it before either though, just since i came off my pill in January. Did happen last time i was TTC. It does make me think that it could prevent me getting pregnant too though, it must be hormones. And to be honest its just annoying!!

LuciBee · 01/05/2019 13:56

*Didnt happen last time i was TTC

Aberforthsgoat · 01/05/2019 14:16

Been absent for a while but just wanted to say YAY @mrsm18 so happy for you.

Bit down today as my heart rate has been steadily dropping over the last couple of days so I'm thinking I'm out this cycle and AF will rear her head on Tuesday.

I sometimes spot around ovulation @dizzy85 which I didn't before, and I have to admit I've had the same thought process about TTC!

MrsPandigital · 01/05/2019 17:26

I caved in, couldn't wait until AF on Sunday..

TTC buddies needed DESPERATELY
mynameisMrG · 01/05/2019 17:52

Oh my goodness @MrsPandigital that is a really strong line!! Congratulations xxx

Louise190 · 01/05/2019 18:08

@MrsPandigital OMG Congratulations!!! 🙌🏻

MrsM18 · 01/05/2019 18:09

Thank you ladies 💞 and @MrsPandigital congraultations!! What a strong line. How many DPO? X

Kinsella82 · 01/05/2019 18:10

Congratulations @MrsPandigital that's amazing! How many dpo are you??

MrsM18 · 01/05/2019 18:12

@dizzy85 no factual advice from me but i had months & months of spotting like that - but doctors said the same thing, it's just one of those things 🤦🏻‍♀️ Strangely the last few months it eased up & I changed absolutely nothing so honestly don't know - but if the doctors aren't worried I wouldn't worry too much! How long have you been trying? Xx

MrsPandigital · 01/05/2019 18:16

About 11dpo I think according to my app....but I didn't use ovulation tests so I cannot be certain!

Squiff70 · 01/05/2019 18:18

OMG @MrsPandigital that's AMAZING! Congratulations! Flowers

So excited to see who else gets BFPs this month!

MrsB899 · 01/05/2019 18:37

@MrsPandigital congratulations lovely. That's amazing

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Robbo93 · 01/05/2019 19:03

@MrsM18 @MrsPandigital congratulations ladies, that's wonderful news 🥰

MrsB899 · 01/05/2019 20:15

My FRER was negative this afternoon I think I'm 9dpo max. Shouldn't have tested really. I've got the right ump now 😆

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dizzy85 · 01/05/2019 20:43

@MrsPandigital wow congratulations what a great line that is too 😊

@LuciBee @Aberforthsgoat @MrsM18
Thankyou that does make me feel better knowing I'm not the only one, it is highly frustrating and does make you question things but then I guess your right if the doctors aren't worried then we shouldn't be too 😄 @MrsM18 especially now you've got your BFP that gives me more hope 😊 I've been trying for 5 months this time, we did try last year for 4 months but just casually then had a little break from it, how long did it take for you?

dizzy85 · 01/05/2019 20:46

@MrsB899 aw it's still definitely really early so stay positive 😄 I'm definitely waiting till Saturday but it'll only be 10DPO for me so I'm not expecting too much but ya never know 😆

MrsPandigital · 01/05/2019 20:50

Thank you @dizzy85 ! :) I hope you get your BFP ... 🤞🤞

cc1616540 · 01/05/2019 20:58

Ahhh congratulations to you both!!! @MrsM18 @MrsPandigital
That's amazing news! 😁😁

I've been abit quiet on here but have been keeping up to date with everyone! I am currently in the TWW and its killing me... ordered a FRER today online and that comes tomorrow but I've got a try and wait! No idea what I'm expecting this month :(.

We have been DTD every other day and taking pregnacare etc, but after my two faint opks I had nothing ever since but the readings were low according to PreMom so 🤷‍♀️

I REALLY need it this month, I feel like if it doesn't happen this month I will literally have a melt down 😣😔😂

dizzy85 · 01/05/2019 21:00

@MrsPandigital Thankyou 😄 🤞🏻

MrsB899 · 01/05/2019 21:01

@dizzy85 it's my own fault for being such an impatient cow. I'll retest at the weekend

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LuciBee · 01/05/2019 21:07

Congrats @MrsPandigital great line!

I’ve been doing OPKs for the last 3 days and nothing... I usually ov on cd15/16 and I’m on cd18 now and have had nothing ffs.

LuciBee · 01/05/2019 21:13

Congrats @MrsPandigital great line!

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