TTC #1 thread 1 2019

[Waiting2bMum]

Hi Ladies,

Thought it would be good to start a 2019 support thread for all of us who are trying to conceive. Any one welcome, please join!
I will start:
Age: 26
TTC: baby no.1
Trying: 20 cycles with 2 chemical pregnancies
Currently: 2 ww, due on tomorrow with negative HPT's so far

Would be great to hear your stories and support each other along the way. Wishing you all baby dust☺️💐xx

@FaithPeaceProsperityLove you will normally get an email saying you have been mentioned or there's a new post on a thread you are on but sometimes it comes after you've checked lol.

There's also a little pin in the bar at the bottom of the app which says I'm on and you can find all the threads you've posted on.

My OH and I have only been TTC since December so still early days for us so I'm finding this thread and all the people on it a wonderful support xx

@Tryingforno2 your not alone I promise, everyone is lovely on here. I started the thread for our journeys to be travelled together. You will be fine with us all xx

@waiting2bemum Congratulations on your pregnancy! Really exciting but nerve wracking for you I understand but please relax & stay so so positive as you rightly said to me....i believe it helps it stay & stick when we are.
So sorry to hear of your struggle & m/c's. Its a hard road. Praying this is the one for you. Thank you for your kind words

@Waiting2bMum thank you, I'm really hoping the faintest of faint lines I saw this morning was the start of a bfp for us 🤞🏻🤞🏻I have felt like AF is coming for the past 3 days it's so weird I keep checking and nothing, I'm not due on until the 7th - 9th cycles are a min 28 days max 30 x

@lizzie198 thanks for the info.
Yes its early days but I understand that even in the early days it still is so disheartening....i remember.

Really good to know this is a supportive thread with nice people x

@FaithPeaceProsperityLove thank you, that's very kind of you. We are all here for each other so you honestly have no worries xx

I lost my son in july2018, he was 6months old. He was such a precious, beautiful, happy, sweet baby. The memories torture me. I feel depressed z& grief stricken. Swinging/or fading between 2 states of mind... 1.) Absolutely Hysterical with grief..çrying, wailing, screaming & it feels like my brain is going insane,literally. I can't explain it its like shock & horror...like the REALITY of it all has FINALLY set in & its UNBEARABLE 2) I feel numb, intense shock & zombie like, it feels weird, again like I'm losing my mind. Again can't explain it.

Sorry to be so heavy with this but I've never spoken about it & i needed to just say Something...I have wanted to talk & "deal" with it but I have zero support system so it has just festered & festered to this state

I'm sorry not trying to turn this thread into a morbid grief thread

Please don't feel obliged to reply i mean it because I understand its disturbing & too much
I just needed to tell someone, say something

@FaithPeaceProsperityLove firstly huge hugs to you I can only make an attempt at considering what you must have gone through and still are.

However, I know from personal experiences with other types of grief if you can start to speak about it you are taking a step towards a more positive future.

Let's hope you get your sticky bfp soon and can start to enjoy the experience of a new baby and it will give you some hope xx

Hi everyone.
Thought I would join in on this thread. I'm new to netmums (infact im new to anything like this) still don't understand the abbreviations yet lol!
I'm 25 and this is the first time trying for me. We're in our first month of trying and I'm currently in my 2ww. I am due on on the 12th but I have been spotting for the past 4 days :( think I'll be probably be out this month! Xx

@sienna9522 and @waiting2bmum thank you

Wow yes @waiting2bmum looks a lovely BFP. Sticky bean XF xxx

Hi everyone can i join?
TTC our first since July, but we had an early miscarriage in October

AF was due yesterday but had a BFN a few days ago.
Although i am feeling super tired but do think i just look for any symptom around this time. Trying to wait out a bit before testing again but its so hard!

@FaithPeaceProsperityLove don't be sorry for letting it out, it's good that you are and we are all human, we need get things out. I am very sorry to hear that😔your doing a great job, I really hope that you get a positive soon xx
@Amy39 welcome to this thread☺️fingers crossed it's a BFP, spitting can be a good sign x
@MrsG7718 thank you!!😘I feel quite nervous it's like a waiting game. When shall I do a digital? 5 days before missed period at the moment xx

@Waiting2bMum Oh I really hope so! I didn't know if it was abit to heavy to be anything like implantation and I wasn't sure if it would have been abit to soon for that as my fertile window was the the 26th-31st xx

@Amy39 what colour is it and are you having to use something? Also have you had your first bleed yet? X
@nwlv welcome☺️☺️it might have been a bit early to test, what test did you use? X

@Waiting2bMum It was a First Response but I have a stash of these and some cheap ones so will try again soon although i may be being a bit optimistic because i know these can pick up a positive pretty early. I think i work myself up like this every month haha
Also big congratulations to you!!

@nwlv also sorry to hear about your MC. You may have ovulated late maybe that's why it's not showing. Are you using opks to see what you did? Thank you☺️☺️x

@Waiting2bMum Like a deep brown red although it does keep changing to bright red. No I'm not having to use anything just keep wiping when I go to the loo. I did use a pad yesterday for extra precaution but there wasn't enough to transfer on to the pad (sorry if that was tmi)

Hi all,
I have been quite for a while but I have been keeping up with your messages, which have been getting me through the annoying TWW.

@FaithPeaceProsperityLove I am so so so so sorry to hear you lost your beautiful son, I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through! sending you massive hugs. You are so brave for speaking out. Hopefully you can find some comfort with these groups
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I caved! I done a test this morning (7dpo with FRER) I know prob too early. Dreaded AF due on Friday, hurry up this week!!

Was lovely seeing all the pics of you all. I'll add mine too x

Me, my hubby and son at our wedding 18 months ago.

@HayleyD84 lovely photo x

@FaithPeaceProsperityLove so so sorry to read your story I can't even begin to understand what you must be going through right now, life is so cruel I'm so sorry xx

@HayleyD84 lovely pic 😊

@FaithPeaceProsperityLove I am so truly sorry. I cannot even begin to imagine how heartbreaking that must have been. Please talk about it as much as you want, we are all here to listen. I hope you have real life support too x

@HayleyD84 you think 7dpo is bad I've been testing since 1dpo 😂😂 I'm aware that's it's absolutely pointless and I obviously have some sort of problem 😬

@HayleyD84 glad to see you back, lovely picture!!💖was it negative you didn't say?? X
@Tryingforno2 I'm as bad as that!! I just done a third test because I'm worried x