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Anyone in Fertile Week?

178 replies

Merrz · 04/12/2017 09:32

I'm on CD 8 and just about to start the joys of fw and OPKS again for cycle 6 of ttc #1
Anyone else approaching/in fw and got any new tips/ideas you're trying this cycle? Or anything you did different which resulted in BFP? How often if everyone dtd?

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surreygirl1987 · 11/12/2017 23:06

Haha fake it. Fair play! Yeh I don't know. On one hand dtd all month long covers all bases in case of late ov... but not sure if it can cause problems! Maybe keep dtd until predicted implantation then stop? Who knows! 🤔

HellaBella0 · 12/12/2017 07:55

@Merrz I finally got a static smiley this morning (no flashing straight to this) This is 4th day of positives on internet cheapies, not sure what’s going on. How are you getting on? You’re also cd16 aren’t you?

Merrz · 12/12/2017 09:44

HellaBella that's good you've got static smiley today, strange it missed the flashing when you've been getting positive cheapies. Have you been dtd lots?
Yip cd 16 too, i've had Highs (i think same as flashing smiley but i have advanced monitor) since sunday so hopefully peak tomorrow fx, been dtd at least every other day since cd 11 so just going to try and keep that up until cd 20 then even if i don't get positive opk should hopefully have all bases covered. Just a bit worried i'm not actually ovulating Hmm
I don't think dtd in 2ww causes any problems even if you're pregnant but i actually didn't do it at all last 2ww just in case haha

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LostMyBaubles · 12/12/2017 12:27

Found this in our local chemist
Was only £2.50!

Same strength as benylin

Oooo some smiley faces are fab !

Been dtd every other day
Want to ramp it up to every day but will have to see lol I'm on cd11 so prob dtd every day from 13th

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Merrz · 12/12/2017 19:14

Good Luck LostMyBaubles I'm feeling the pressure this month like making a real effort to be nice to dh and look presentable to make sure he's up for dtd, I feel like I've gone crazy Blush

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LostMyBaubles · 12/12/2017 22:19

Merzz snap 😶
Been sending him 'nice' messages
Cooking him lots of diff foods lol
Trying to do my bit before he does his lol

Feel a bit bad like I'm using him lol but we need to dtd every day from the cd13 and I'm cd11

HellaBella0 · 13/12/2017 08:37

Haha yes I’ve had so many days of positive opks now that my poor DH is a bit exhausted as been dtd every day. Been trying to keep it fun but it’s tough when you’re both tired.

I think I may have ovulated yesterday although not totally sure yet. If so, AF will be due on Christmas Day!!! 😬🎁

Merrz · 13/12/2017 09:41

LostMy Baubles me too, think he's enjoying being used really though. I'm like couple more days of being super nice then i can go back to my normal self lol. Not that we argue much but i'm just desperate not to cause an argument of any kind that will put him in a grump.
HellaBella same I'm pretty sure i ov either last night or today, had twinges in my right side yesterday evening and pos opk this morning, dtd last night and hopefully again tonight. So af should def be due boxing day for me. Will you test before xmas day?

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LostMyBaubles · 13/12/2017 16:31

I'm sure I've ovulated today or going to ov soon as I've broke out in a few spots yesterday, lots of back ache today like can't stand for long as it hurts a lot
Getting ewcm! More than last month (still not loads though but a lil more each time I go)
Opks are still faint but not complete no so something is building hopefully

LostMyBaubles · 13/12/2017 16:33

Think I'm gonna have to sit and explain today lol dtd twice last night (well he did his bit twice lol) and had a good read about it each time he does fresh load of sperm so still got good amount lol (can't believe I'm actually writing that lol)

He's going to be like ok wtf is going on if I pounce on him today.
Will tell him I just need sex everyday for the next 3/4 days and will leave you alone for a few days after that lol

Merrz · 13/12/2017 17:02

Lol this is what I love about MN no-one knows who you are so everyone's so honest

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LostMyBaubles · 13/12/2017 17:18

Yhh lol

Been trying to keep my water intake up as apparently that helps a lot as well

Owlpatrol · 13/12/2017 20:06

@LostMyBaubles that's so funny I'm the same with the plan. I'm casually dropping hints we need to do it at least tonight or tomorrow then Saturday 😂 I'm out Friday night so I'm hoping I don't get the positive opk then

LostMyBaubles · 14/12/2017 10:47

As we had a very good session the night before yesterday hubby was all tired out lol

I did say to him for the next 4 days we need to dtd every day lol and he smiled lol
He was knackered but still managed to do his part lol
Hopefully this continues!

Still getting light opks will test around 2ish again if I can

Merrz · 14/12/2017 10:50

What cd are you Owlpatrol? I've had pos opks yesterday and today, dtd tuesday night and this morning, maybe try again for tomorrow then fx will be covered. I'm just a little bit concerned, we dtd like 10 mins before i had to get up this morning then when i got up and went to the toilet i feel like it all just ran out of me (sorry tmi) was it a waste or do you think some swimmers would already be on their way? Hmm

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LostMyBaubles · 14/12/2017 12:27

Merrz

That's what happens with me nearly all the time

I have to get up to pee and have a shower quickly after I do try to lie down for a few mins kinda tilted lol but I'm sure some swimmers should be going the right way

I've also heard when the woman orgasms it helps pull them up or something? So fx doing ok

Last night was up early

The night before from the first time I think I got up around 20mins after so fx it's something to work with lol

Merrz · 14/12/2017 13:30

fx LostMyBaubles I'm sure 20 mins is plenty time, i read somewhere that it actually makes no difference but when you see it all dripping into the toilet it surely can't be helping!

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LostMyBaubles · 14/12/2017 13:41

My my thoughts exactly lol you just can't help but wonder!

Fx hubbys in the mood again tonight lol

Cd13 here ovia moved my dates to yesterday was my most fertile 🤔

Merrz · 14/12/2017 14:43

That's good though, sounds like you've dtd enough if you did ov yesterday! I don't really ever instigate sex, usually dh is up for it more often than me but this fw i have had to be a bit encouraging and it's hard going lol, I'm actually so glad fw is almost over! I was so determined to make sure we dtd enough and at the right times this cycle so felt like a bit of pressure.

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LostMyBaubles · 14/12/2017 14:57

I'm really hoping I do and everyone else falls pregnant this month

It would really be a lot easier as I could hopefully have the baby in the summer hols and recover a little bit before I have to think about getting 4 kids ready in the morning for the school run.

I have very bad deliveries and the midwives advise me to rest for 8 weeks lol Yh 🤔

With my youngest I found out I was having him on the 27th of Dec had him 19th Aug (was induced)

I lost my grandma this year and I want to start 2018 with a positive outlook hopefully

Sorry that's a bit personal lol

LostMyBaubles · 14/12/2017 15:00

Getting weird nipple pain lol 🤔
Hopefully that surge is building up!

Still not got a strong positive opk yet
They are diff at diff times of day so I might be missing them

I have 6 opks left
Today is cd13 don't want to buy any more

When's best time to opk

Im getting better result around 11am

Merrz · 14/12/2017 15:17

Aww sorry to hear that, yes i so hope we all get bfps what a lovely start to a new year!
I think you're right with the good results around 11am.
The last few cycels i've been using cbafm with fmu then cheapie opks late afternoon but today and yesterday i used the cheapie opks mid morning, 10am ish, this is the 1st time i've had a proper definite pos on opk so i'm assuming it's because i'm doing it in the morning rather than afternoon?

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louella99 · 14/12/2017 15:59

I read on another thread that the best/strongest swimmers will get to where they need to be pretty quickly. Some can swim to the fallopian tubes within minutes apparently. What 'falls out' is probably the stuff that never would have made it anyway.

I found it reassuring! But I still lie down if I can, just to be sure haha. I'm in my 2ww now, AF/BFP due on 22nd or 23rd depending on which app I believe. Would be the most amazing Christmas present. I feel like I've got sore boobs, twinges in womb etc but I had all of this last cycle and clearly wasn't pregnant! So I'm paying no attention.

Merrz · 14/12/2017 16:55

Oh well that's promising about the swimmers Louella
Ahh good luck, so just over 1 week to go fx.

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LostMyBaubles · 14/12/2017 17:33

Depending on how much we dtd I'm hoping I can test early fx

Last month we dtd 3 out of 6 days of fw according to ovia
Ended with what seems like cp as i got positive on the 23rd then neg a few days later