November bus #2

[HoneyCake86]

Thought id start a new as the last closed. Congrats to lostmybaubles 😁👏🏻🥂

I know me too.. I had a mc in September and the thought of ending 2017 and not being pregnant really upsets me. I would of been 17 weeks today

I know the feeling I should be at home with a newborn now with the one we lost at 20w, then also had a mc in sept so should be same as you. It's so crap. After the late loss I'd said as long as I'm pregnant again before my due date in nov I'll feel like it happened for something at least. Never in a million years did I think I'd be now past that and not pregnant x

That's so sad.. I am so sorry to read this! Everything will work out

I’m so very sorry @fia256 that must of been so tough for you life can be so cruel at times!. X

Aww sending @Fia256 and @Kkk87 plenty hugs
Feeling crampy and sore boobs this morning due af next Monday so had symptoms since ovulation again for the second month which is not fun for the tww at all. I'm sure I'm out due to not dtd enough. I may do an ic test Friday to be sure.
I did this meditation last night which helped chill me for a bit

@owlpatrol meditation sounds like a good idea. I might look into that. I’ve been having monthly reflexology for a while now. I’m not pregnant but it is lovely and relaxing!
kkk and fia I’m so sorry for your losses. This time of year does make everything feel a bit harder to handle I think. I also wonder if I didn’t even ovulate this month. Just a suspicion based on the randomness of my symptoms. I think will probably jump onto the January bus after this as I suspect my next af won’t be due until then. Perhaps I’ll be able to celebrate the new year with a BFP. I certainly hope you all have something extra to celebrate soon.

Fingers crossed we both get our rainbow babies soon @Kkk87

I just keep telling myself that while it's frustrating when it doesn't happen each month, when it does eventually happen, all those months of trying will be forgotten and everything seem perfect. We will all get there, even if it's not this month. Although I hope it is for all of us I also couldn't think of better people to be on the same pregnancy thread with, so I hope we get lucky the same month lol x

Hi ladies this is the meditation I did

Fia it really is shitty
I'm getting lots of pains today
My back is aching
Lots of stomach pain
Right at the bottom in the middle like pinching pain

Tried my digi test and it was fucking invalid
😐😑

Thank you everyone.. yes @fia256 FX for us both and evesybody else would be lovely for us all to get our BFP together.. I hope that when I we do get our BFP that we can actually enjoy the pregnancy instead of worrying the whole time.. X

I'm out guys, bfp arrived yesterday, early too
What cycle ttc is everyone one? Beginning to feel like it's never going to happen

Sorry about that merrz , I'm on cycle #3 since mc in September af due today tho so will be starting cycle #4

Here's my chart today, still looking really good. What do you all think?? Am trying not to get ahead of myself though as I had a BFN yesterday at 10 dpo. Will only test again if AF is late.

I'm sorry @Fia256 and everyone else with bad news.

AF arrived yesterday, based on the fact I was supposedly 16 DPO and I didn't drop below coverline the main takehome is that the dual hormone clear blue ovulation test and the FF app both got my ovulation date wrong and put it five days early, which means while we DTD the day before ovulation we weren't trying on the day/day after. Though really we should still have had a decent chance.

Next period due on Christmas Day, my due date was supposed to be 3rd Jan, we've now been trying over a year. Am going to try for a cancellation on the day with the nurse to get day 3 bloods tomorrow- I have PCOS but was told a few years ago it shouldn't be a problem as my periods are relatively regular. I'm feeling pretty annoyed at myself for listening to that and not at least starting the testing process earlier. I'll be 35 soon enough, I feel like I've been letting things go for too long.

I am feeling bereft, empty and a bit afraid of the next steps.

Ah I'm sorry af arrived @Merrz  I'm on cycle 3 since miscarriage too, however we started all this probably 18 months ago now

Chart still looking good to me @BandhaAid

Really sorry all those with af

Hopefully you get your bfp next month

Was feeling really shit this morning
Then my black Friday stuff arrived which cheered me up a bit

Now feeling a bit more optimistic than before but feel I'm clutching on straws still

It's crazy, @Baubles. I've missed a few bits of your story but basically you've had a faint positive or negative every day?

Thanks, @Fia256. I'm too nervous to test again yet!!

Thanks Fia it's hard going isn't it.

Bandha I've had around 3/4 faint positives and now negs

Did a clear blue yesterday slight faint line could be evap
Might ring gp tomorrow morning I think

I defo got those positives

I don't think it stuck 😔
Or chemical preg

Rang gp they said drop off urine here so we can do a test and will take it from there

Hope you get an answer @LostMyBaubles although I work in a hospital and can tell you now, Drs ones aren't as sensitive as a hpt x

@Baubles, request a blood test! They're more sensitive

I was clearing out the bathroom bins 😶 lots of tests in there and the ones that were faint positives still there

I know I know you shouldn't read them after 10mins and that but atleast I wasn't seeing things lol

They want to do urine test first then will ask for bloods

Has anyone ever used co op tests? I bought some today and stupidly used one this evening even though I got a negative frer this morning. There was a scratch on the screen so I took it apart and there's a shadow of a line. I'm sure it clearly is just a shadow but wondering how good they actually are!