November Bus

[Aph413]

October has only just begun but it's not the month for me so here is the November Bus ready for anyone to join me

Age: 26
TTC: #1
Cycle: #2
BFP due: 5th November (go me)

Somethininthewater

I took an FRER test and got a BFN but 4 days before AF.

I got a BFN when I was pregnant with the same test 4 days before AF as due last time so like to think I’m still in the game! It’s to nerve wracking

Don’t give up if it’s negative guys if you’re testing early x

Not sure really. There’s no point though with me. Already under miscarriage clinic, plus chemical pregnancies happen all the time, most people just don’t realise it if they aren’t serial testers like most of us here lol!

AF was due in Tuesday but no sign of it and none of the usual symptoms (I'm usually like clockwork). BFN this morning but had what felt like implantation on Tuesday. Also got high temps, a high soft and closed cervix, soft and swollen vaginal walls, lotiony CM, sore boobs, nausea in the mornings and an increased appetite. Am going to wait till Saturday or Sunday to test again.

Fia I didn't know that.
Tbf I don't know what chemical preg is really?
I've heard of ectopic as I was once checked for it while I had the coil in thankfully it wasn't that but a nasty kidney infection

Hope everyone is having a better day than yesterday

It’s just a very very early miscarriage. So it doesn’t implant properly but releases enough hormone for a positive test but then you end up miscarrying around the time af was due. So goes undetected quite a bit if people wait it out instead of testing early z

Yeah I was late once @Fia256 by about 7 days and when af came it was super super heavy so was an early mc for sure because I'm luckily like clockwork. Not ovulated till this month....potentially could test on Sunday again whether AF shows up or not early. Got this weird taste in my mouth today...could be the garlic last night

Starting to get peeved now, CM is still nothing like it should be and if my cycle had gone back to normal I should have ovulated on Tuesday. Doing OPKs every day and all negative but there’s been a faint second line each day... which apparently means naff all so I dunno why I’m even... sigh. BBT is still low as well although Flo has decided I must have ovulated last week so that’s not even encouraging me now!

Back at work on Sunday and our work schedules make DTD as often a lot more difficult, I was chuffed to have been ovulating while on holiday, we have DTD 5 times since Saturday but it’s starting to look like it’ll be another mega long cycle for me... the coil really appears to not be as easy to get past as they say!

Forever which coil did you have in?

Just had my mirena taken out yesterday

Opk was positive yesterday (and for a few days before that) and today it's neg

Have really bad back ache today and crampy pain which is most likely gonna the coil coming out

Fia ahh thank you. Didn't know as you said most likely because people wait until af to test

I had a Mirena coil. I didn’t do any OPKs in the first month because I was told that the coil messes up the levels of everything in your body, they do say that you ovulate pretty much as soon as it’s out but I for sure didn’t. It was 45 days before AF came and tbh there was no signs of ovulation (from tracking my BBT) in the 2-3 weeks before that... so I have no idea.

I had taken AF as a great sign and just assumed things would go back to normal (Things used to run like clockwork) but it’s looking like I was being overly optimistic. We’ll see, it could happen any time I suppose I’m just impatient!

I keep thinking af has arrived but it’s just cm-gross! I slept for 2 hours this afternoon, all I’ve eaten today is a piece of cake, the cats food made me 😖 before, feel so sickly. Cramping has eased off a bit now. But, still getting negatives. Feeling pretty fed up 😔

@LostMyBaubles also re pains - I had niggling pains on and off for 2-3 weeks after it came out, your body has to figure out wtf is happening I suppose! I hope they ease for you soon and that you’re back to normal quickly - so many people get pregnant straight away after removal so fingers crossed for you

@Somethininthewater How many dpo are you? When was AF due?

Positive opk on 15/10
Spotting in 10/11/12 dpo
Another positive OPK on 31st and 1st...
So I was thinking af was due yesterday?? And I’m 18dpo but I’m not so sure now?

Have you got a chart? It's tough, isn't it! I'm 12 dpo today but have a short luteal phase and AF was due on Tuesday.

I’m using the Ovia app but even that is a bit 🤷🏻‍♀️ Over my crazy cycle!! I’m a standard 28 day girl. Always have been. I’ve never used opks before though

If you always have a cycle of 28 days then I guess it's safe to say you're overdue but, like you say, you may not actually be 18 dpo

Making my head fall off thinking about it constantly! I just want to sleep til it’s all over

I'm in a similar situation, I am almost certain I'm pregnant and AF was due on Tuesday, but still BFN. I had what felt like implantation cramps on Tuesday though, so perhaps it's just too early. Argh!

Forever thank you
I was really just assuming once it's out everything would be normal lol but obvs not

My sis in law had hers last year and took her 5months for normality and she had a miscarriage . She fell pregnant not long after and has a little boy now

Somethin do try and get into Drs tomorrow
This is drive you crazy over the weekend

My back is bloody aching 😔

Well AF has arrived so I'm out again! Currently deciding if I can take another month of ttc or if it's better to take a break.

It's so funny to see other people's ovia apps it's telling me I am CD 27 but due on Sunday which is weird. Says I can take a pregnancy test today but I'm not wasting it and I forgot to poas opk this morning so I'm going to try and remember tomorrow morning. No proper symptoms today. Boobs and cramps have eased and ate a loaf of chocolate so all normal pre af symptoms lol sigh think I'm out for November but it's not over till AF arrives!

Load * of chocolate not loaf!!!

Wouldn't mind a loaf of chocolate lol

Wtf is going on lol

Errrrr?!