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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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202 replies

Julybug · 19/06/2017 23:40

I'm due to ovulate anytime from today to Saturday and then af will be on the 8th! Anyone else at a similar stage and want to buddy up??

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Flashinthepan · 21/06/2017 10:17

Can I join? Think I OVd yesterday. AF due 3rd July. I had an ectopic last year, got pregnant first time round. Now I've been trying since January with no luck, however, was stressed about trying again so this is the first month when I feel we've really DTD more than enough times prev-ovulation.

I have spotting almost entire LP, but have had tests and doesn't seem to be anything wrong, but that makes it a bit more stressful!

AdrianaWeatherwax · 21/06/2017 10:22

Good point about the heat Muffin!

Tell me about it McTufty, we seem to be the same! I was 36.68 (peak OPK day) then 36.27, 36.56 and today 36.67. Which is pretty shit all in all. You detected LH surge too didn't you? Would we still get that if it was a fail on the ovulation front?

But also my boobs are aching. But could be because AF is 10 days away.

McTufty · 21/06/2017 10:27

adriana yes I think so - you can get an LH surge but no egg actually be released. However I also have been reading about how unreliable it can be as a method because it depends on so many factors e.g. how much sleep you've had. How long have you been charting? Do you normally get a thermal shift?

Also an odd anovulatory cycle is normal - fucking frustrating, but normal so I'm trying not to think about it.

AdrianaWeatherwax · 21/06/2017 10:30

Yeah best to give it a few cycles before worrying :-/ I've only been charting for just over a month. I did get a half degree temp spike last month but I'm paying no attention to it. My sleep and temping time is constant during the week and not far off on the weekend, what about you?

Best to try ignore all these things throw all these methods in the bin and just shag no matter how impatient I am

excitedandnervous1 · 21/06/2017 10:37

I've been using Ovia and more recently converted to Fertility Friend as well, OPKs and temp, although I'm not too sure I'm good at the whole temping thing. I don't think I have the right thermometer either.. do you need a specific one? I have just been using one we have in the house!

excitedandnervous1 · 21/06/2017 10:41

I definitely need to upgrade my thermometer by the sounds of it as mine is only to once decimal place compared to your temps adriana and mctufty Confused

I was thinking the same muffin regarding the heat!

AdrianaWeatherwax · 21/06/2017 10:45

I got mine off Amazon Excited, throw in Basal Body Thermometer in the search. Think it was on offer for ~£15? I believe that the temp shift after O is 1/2 a degree so not much Smile

McTufty · 21/06/2017 11:18

I got mine off Amazon for £5.95, maybe it's just a shite one!

KittyKat73 · 21/06/2017 12:32

Hey everyone! hoping to join!

im 28
CD 43
Cycle no idea what cycle but been trying for nearly a year
CB peaked on CD33 so I think AF is due monday the latest!

since coming off the pill my cycles have been irratic and AF disappeared for 3 months with no explanation! took provera and this is my 2nd cycle since then.

HazelRah · 21/06/2017 13:32

Hello I'd love to join too please I'm going crazy waiting!
Currently 7dpo, cycle 5.
Praying for a bfp this month as I'm 37 and super worried.
Good luck everyone!! :-)

McTufty · 21/06/2017 14:14

Hi kittykat and hazel!

Sorry it's not been a quick conception for you both, hopefully joining this lucky thread will help Smile

Sunshinesaz86 · 21/06/2017 17:28

This is my ovia app ovulation is down as 17th but could of been the 18th as I had positive opks on 15th/16th but I don't understand why is decodes u only have 1 fertile day after opk when u can ovulate up to 3 days after? What's everyone's thoughts?? I think we give it a good shot. X

Sunshinesaz86 · 21/06/2017 17:29

Sorry photo would help x

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Mrsjones17 · 21/06/2017 17:31

Can I join too please?
Age:29
TTC #1
Cycle 7
I've ovulated today I think strongest opk yet. I'm trying to not be as wound up this time but the tww just seems to take forever! It's so hard DTD in this heat!!

HazelRah · 21/06/2017 17:57

Thanks McTufty, fingers crossed all round. Also doubt BBT but it wasn't working that well so I've just splashed out for a clear blue fertility monitor from eBay and this is my first month using it.

@sunshine I thought after a positive opk you ovulate 12-24 hours after? But not 100%. Also I guess the sperm should live for a few days in there anyway!

HazelRah · 21/06/2017 17:59

Also welcome MrsJones!

AlexsMum89 · 21/06/2017 18:01

Has anyone else on here started going crazy looking at symptoms yet? I've got really sore boobs, nausea and bloating but of course they can so easily be pre-AF things. Plus I've found out today that I've put on a couple of lbs (pre-AF weight?).
I'm acting like a lunatic poking my boobs every 5 minutes!
Not due to test for another week tho...

HazelRah · 21/06/2017 18:09

Hahaha @Alexsmum i've also been poking my boobs! And squinting in the mirror trying to judge if they look fuller although it's way too early!

Sunshinesaz86 · 21/06/2017 18:29

Thanks hazel I've googled on a few occasions 😂 and have read from 12-36 hrs and that's what it says on my clearblue opk leaflet. But who know for sure, I know I can only guestimate as I don't temp.
I just feel as tho the app should count the two days after positives as fertile days really and it doesn't.

alex I don't tend to symptom spot until 2nd week (then I go a bit silly) sore boobs has not been a symptom for me until 7/8 weeks however dizziness definitely is and the bloat and peeing more.

mrsjones dtd in this heat is a bit gross with all the stickiness 😂

AlexsMum89 · 21/06/2017 18:43

I'm so glad I'm not alone @hazel! It's driving me nuts. I know it's too early but I can't help myself. And then of course I'll test next week and it will be a bfn, so I'll test the next day, and the next day, and I'll have no money or brain cells left Confused.

@sunshine the bloating has been really bad. I blooming look pregnant if nothing else! I don't remember having that with my son but I've heard it can be different and it was 7 years ago

Mrsjones17 · 21/06/2017 18:44

Yep is a bit gross but needs must and all that haha! Wasnt going to miss a chance (cue lunatic face!) Jumped in the shower after the obligatory 30 mins post coital rest! 🙄

AlexsMum89 · 21/06/2017 18:48

@kittykat I was on provera, how have you found it coming off? It's been a real nightmare for me. Last injection was Sept last year and it took me until Feb to have an AF but then didn't stop bleeding for 3 months! Had to have Dr intervention and now AF symptoms are terrible every month Blush

AdrianaWeatherwax · 21/06/2017 19:31

Hello new folks! Hope you're all well and trying to keep a firm grasp on your sanity!

My boobs still hurt. It's way to early to have symptoms though...

hellybellyjellybean · 21/06/2017 21:37

Can I join? Due on tomorrow and tearing my hair out. Did a pt on Monday early Superdrug one and think it was a false positive, did a frer yesterday and negative. This is cycle 8 and fed up so hope tomorrow is a good day!!

McTufty · 21/06/2017 22:31

Sorry your cycle was playing up alexsmum I hope it has settled down now!

What's the 30 minute rest mrsjones?

hellybelly oh how confusing! Sorry this is happening - all the best for tomorrow. Let us know!