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PMA Express to BFP Thread #5

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Hippychic79 · 11/04/2017 12:55

So we are rolling on to thread #five –
We are not giving up, our PMA is still alive.

Put pure and simply,
We want to have babies,
God, please help everyone of these lovely ladies.

We support each other,
We are funny and kind,
And we will not be giving up,
Until we see that thick BFP line.

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Hippychic79 · 20/04/2017 10:02

loa yes yes yes please join in the banter and chatter ... we do all empathise with the moping scenario ... cd1 your definitely allowed to be pissed off and the Pma is generally always absent for most of us at this time .... but yaaaaaay ... you've got some good things going on and it sounds like getting pg will be the cherry on top of the lovely cake that is your life.
#wewillgetthereladies
#pmatobfp
Xxx

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Flashinthepan · 20/04/2017 10:29

Ok I'm confused but trying to keep up PMA. Bleeding stopped yesterday morning soon after starting and have had nothing since. Boobs still sore. Tomorrow I will consider myself later so will test in the morning if still nothing.

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Hippychic79 · 20/04/2017 10:36

Oooooh flash sounds promising .... be sure to keep us posted .... have you not got a frer? Xxxxxx

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Flashinthepan · 20/04/2017 10:46

No I will buy tonight I think. I'm trying to be hopeful but at the same time not too hopeful! Lol.

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Hippychic79 · 20/04/2017 11:47

flash .... totally get the cautiously optimistic approach xxx good luck xxxx

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MissMagpie · 20/04/2017 15:28

Hi everyone - I'm back! Not been on here for more than a week as went offline in Italy so have just tried to have a major catch up during quiet periods at work. Had a relaxing time away, save for a bad cold, annd really got to chill out with my OH for the first time in ages.

So... congratulations Bella and Phase - amazing news. So, so happy for you. All this PMA is really working!! It is so good to see more BFPs on this thread. We all really deserve it (living through yours in the temporary absence of my own!).

Sorry to all those who got AF - onwards and upwards. You can do this!

TTC can be such a trying time. Trust me I know. It took me 12 months to conceive my DS and I am on cycle 10 now - I hear ya Archies. We will all get there.

So I took my opks on holiday and ov'd about cd21 so am definitely back to my longer cycles now. About 5dpo now. Got my static smiley on my last stick so that was lucky! Though the copious amounts of EWCM seemed to perfectly match so I knew what was going on anyway.

God luck testing Flash. Who else is due to test soon?

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Hippychic79 · 20/04/2017 16:29

Welcome back magpie glad to hear you had a lovely time in Italy. Wow that was lucky getting a static on your last stick, going to Italy is lucky .... and it happens in threes so fx you get your bfp too xxxx

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Moo31 · 20/04/2017 17:21

@Phase - yes 1st cycle drinking RLT was the cycle I got my bfp - same for you?

@Loa - interested to hear what your side job is? Inspire me!! :)

@Amanda - hope you survived the nightshift ok and are feeling a bit better today!

@Hippy - ride 'em cowboy!! Grin

@Flash - keep us posted, I am watching in eager anticipation of #pmabfp7 eek!!

@Magpie - welcome back! Glad you had a lovely time :) I love Italy

ArchiesMamaBird · 20/04/2017 19:34

Flash I have everything crossed for you (well not my legs because I'm approaching FW Wink) that you had an IB rather than AF and that you get your BFP Smile

CakesALot · 20/04/2017 19:46

Oo good luck @Flashinthepan! Really hope it's not af playing tricks on you xx

Just broke the news about afs arrival to DH and he's proper gutted 😔 wants to do more to help so has agreed to take supplements this month and watch his diet and alcohol intake a bit more. #everylittlehelps He's also suggested takeaway for tea! Winner!! #backonthehealthwagobtomorrow

Almost the weekend ladies! Happy jumping to those heading into fw!!

My 3 things today (I like doing this!)

  1. I diagnosed and fixed a problem with the car this morning. All by myself!
  2. The blossom on next doors tree is beautiful. Like springtime snow!
  3. My little girls gorgeous curly mop of hair. It's just adorable 👧🏻
CakesALot · 20/04/2017 19:49

I mean, come on ... 😍😍😍

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Moo31 · 20/04/2017 19:53

Ah @cakes! Gorgeous curls! Enjoy your takeaway!

My 3 things today

  1. Started today with a 17 item to do list, ended it with only 3 items
  2. Just had yummy risotto mmm!
  3. The nights are definitely getting lighter hello summer! :)
sarahboro1 · 20/04/2017 20:10

Ooo cakes those curls are lush!! #curlenvy!!

Flash got everything crossed for you!! (Including my legs cos I'm in tww so I can!! 😂) xx

Mmm moo what type of risotto?? I love it but do find it a bit sickly when it's my main meal !! 🤢

Magpie good to have you back!! 🙌🏼 #girlgang

I'm 7dpo now, got myself some ic's this cycle, what's the earliest I can realistically test with one??!! I've had tummy ache all day, really down low, not a good sign!! 😏 Xx

Itsjustaphase84 · 20/04/2017 21:52

@Moo31 sure was my first month on the RLT

BellaMoon · 21/04/2017 06:07

morning mofo's, how y'all doin?

@MissMagpie welcome back... i have never been to italy which i feel is shameful. i must go! glad you had a super time away #vitaminD

@Flashinthepan ohhh now that does sound like IB, have everything crossed (including my legs as i'm not letting DH near me for some reason - #bellathenun)

@CakesALot OMG that hair! those curls! awww you've just for me all emosh, which doesn't take a lot these days #hormonemonster but still, she looks delightful 😘

@loababy hope you're feeling a tiny wee
bit better now that cd1 is out the way, i say tiny as i know the mood doesn't lift at the click of the fingers but a small step in the positive direction leads to another etc. yes totally interested to hear what your side dream job is, please share #noseyfucker!

@sarahboro1 i am the bloody last person to ask about when to POAS cos i do it every day haha. although this cycle i went for 10dpo evening (so i had an excuse to ignore the BFN cos it wasn't FMU - some warped psychology right there) but by 11dpo with FMU i was upduffed! all other cycles i POAS from about 4-6dpo cos apparently i now like pissing on things! i'm still doing it, actually just did an IC this morn #isthiswatersports #fourteenthPOAS #pictureattached

@ArchiesMamaBird ohhh good luck now that FW is on the horizon #megapumpage what's your approach? x

@Hippychic79 such an exciting time for you too now that you're cd14 i hope wee peggy has felt your #PMAvibe and i'm sure she's decided she's ready to welcome a doreen into her life! #itshippyscycle #yougotthis

i didn't list my 3 things yday so i'll try do 6 this morn:-

  1. i celebrated my very special aunts birthday with her last night #love
  2. my DH is gearing up to start a big contract on monday and i'm so proud/excited/looking forward to the £ lol
  3. i'm off work today - belter!
  4. iv averaged 9.5hrs sleep every night this week - yaldy!
  5. my cousin offered me his holiday home for a wee break which ill be booking soon #vitaminDpleasethankyou
  6. it's the freaking weekend - whoop whoop
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olicat · 21/04/2017 08:22

Morning, 11dpo and poas earlier, BFN. I told myself to wait but it didn't happen! I have to say I don't really feel any different - I guess I'll just wait til af is due I will obviously test on Sunday

My 3 things:

  1. it's FRIDAY
  2. still blissed out from the loveliest wedding ever for my very dear friend last weekend
  3. I have a wonderful DP who I'm very grateful for every day 😍

cakes I have major hair envy!! This was what I dreamed of as a child, except after I'd begged my mum to put my hair in rollers it came out poker straight 😢

Moo31 · 21/04/2017 08:34

@Sarah - butternut squash risotto. I halve the squash and score it diagonally. Roast. Make the risotto. Scoop the chunks out of the squash, stir them in. Serve in the half squash (so you can scoop it all out while eating!) I rarely make it as it takes so long but it's so yummy.

Also I tested at 11 dpo. It seems to be the ballpark!

@phase definitely something to be said for the RLT - I think @dolly drank it on her positive cycle too?? Ladies get on the RLT!

@bella - I am still testing lol! Down to one a week now and only have a few left and once they are done (and I've had my 12 wk scan) then I'll relax a bit. 7 weeks today since me and @dolly got our bfps!

Moo31 · 21/04/2017 08:39

My 3 things

  1. It's friiiiidaaaay!
  2. I have a lovely day with my mum planned tomorrow - getting our feet done and then lunch and shopping
  3. It's almost pay day!
CakesALot · 21/04/2017 08:40

@Moo31 rlt is arriving today! I'm on it!!

@olicat I had the exact same curls as a child and always wanted straight hair! They've grown out now and I just get a kinky wave instead. I adore her hair but she hates having anything done to it so I spend a lot of time chasing her around the house with a brush!! She does let me clip it out of her face though. She is also the bed head queen #cuteness

Yay to Friday! Someone just took an order for breaky cobs too!! Winning!!!

CakesALot · 21/04/2017 08:43

This mornings 3 things

  1. A sausage and mushroom cob with brown sauce is on its way to my gob!
  2. I'm seeing my bestie tonight and I have a large bottle of sipsmith gin in my bag for us to enjoy #clinkingonthewaytowork
  3. I'm staying the night at my friends which means lie in tomorrow! Boom!!
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Hippychic79 · 21/04/2017 08:55

Morning you lovely ladies 😊

Cakes Great news that your DH has agreed to start taking supplements, I give my DP his every morning – a men’s multivit and zinc to help with his doreens 😊 Loving the curls, your DD looks adorable. Loving your plans for today #getonitwhilstyoucan

Sarahb I really hope this is your cycle, tummy ache could be anything, as soon as I get through the weekend I will cross everything for you.

Phase How you feeling?

Bella thank you for your kind words… you’re right I have got this!

Olicat sorry to read you got BFN, hoping your BFP is just being elusive and it turns positive next time you test.

Moo Your risotto sounds delicious… wow 7 weeks …. I’d like to say the time has flown but I feel like time is on go slow since ttc 😊

Right my 3 things for today –

  1. My PMA has skyrocketed in the last few days
  2. Got my second flashing smiley this morning which is great because DP wants to dtd tomorrow night, so a static smiley tomorrow would be perfect timing
  3. My DP is off Saturday night and Sunday so aiming to get x2 pumpage sessions in #thiswouldbeamazeballs
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Flashinthepan · 21/04/2017 09:35

POAS this morning and BFN. FRER too. 14 dpo I think, so think it would show by now. CD30, longest cycle ever, it must be the B vitamins.

My 3 things are:

  1. Homemade pizza for dinner!
  2. Had a really good night's sleep and woke up 1 min before my alarm.
  3. Can't think of another one, think my bfn has reduced my PMA! I'll come up with 4 tomorrow.
notparticularlypatient · 21/04/2017 09:38

Morning all! And sorry for my long time absence. Had to step back a bit to make sure that ttc became a bit less overwhelming. My cycles are sooo long, so I really have to wait a long time for Peggy. She arrived cd 25 this cycle, and there had been a lot of poas during those prior weeks... anyway, I have been reading along most of the time, and am thrilled for our latest bfps!

Hippy, lovely to hear that Peggy is behaving and due to make her appearance when dp is in the mood. I join Bella in her optimistic vibe on your behalf this month!

Bella very impressed by your sleeping abilities! It's probably a symptom though, it was for me those first weeks. Yayh for an early start of the weekend for you #welldeserved

Magpie welcome back! I also love love Italy. The food is amazing! We will spend our summer holiday in Sicily, so looking forward to both d vitamins and yummy pizzaSmile

Cakes, that hair is adorable! Definitely hair envy from a very straight haired meSmile

Flash still keeping fingers firmly crossed for you! At least your lp is working properly. I am
also trying b vits this cycle, and really hope they work!

And the positives of today is

  1. We had a very smooth morning with the toddler behaving like a saint (this is very very rare)
  2. I am 4 dpo and actually enjoy this first part of the tww. Too early to symptom spot and no poas.
  3. Friday!!
Flashinthepan · 21/04/2017 09:43

Oooo Not. We're thinking of going to Sicily! Have you been before? Where would you recommend?

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Hippychic79 · 21/04/2017 10:04

Awwww flash how annoying, however I still have my hopes up for you. I do like to look at the 'Is it a line' pics on here and it often astounds me at how faint some of the lines are even at reasonable dpo's.

patient welcome back Hun, we've missed you!!! I completely understand the taking a step back thing though ... I love you ladies to bits but the thread is obviously and understandably so ttc focused ... it can and does sometimes stress you out which isn't the point of it but it does happen... I'm not a fan when it gets to 'who's next to test' and I know it's me .... makes me real nervous lol
Thank you for your kind vibes Hun I'm on LUCKY 🍀 cycle number 6 whoop whoop cxxxxxx

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