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All aboard the May Train!

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Bubblegum89 · 04/04/2017 09:52

So yet again, af has got me. Brown spotting this morning after a cycle where I was actually genuinely convinced I'd done it this time. Oh well.

Only on month 5 of actively trying. I'm ttc no2. I'm awaiting a referral for a hospital appointment to investigate scarring in my uterus so every month that goes by without a pregnancy, the more I can't deny that there's obviously something wrong (I've conceived twice, both just after a missed pill so 5 months is long in comparison!)

Just thought I'd say hi and hope THIS might be our month and we have a chance at a baby in 2018 instead :)

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BlueeSpottyTiger · 03/05/2017 18:31

So so sorry cookie Flowers

BlueeSpottyTiger · 03/05/2017 18:34

I am getting very stabby pains kinda near my left ovary. It's making me feel worried, 6dpo! Xx

ImBreakingBad · 03/05/2017 18:52

How is your temp looking blue? sally we are! I've just went and had a look at mine... wtf it's about three times the size as my right one!

Viletta · 03/05/2017 18:56

@BlueeSpottyTiger could be tubes pushing the egg? If it's a really sharp pain and it gets worse, I would go to GP to exclude tube pregnancy

BlueeSpottyTiger · 03/05/2017 19:03

Here's my chart breaking ? Dno if that's a normal looking one lol
They aren't really painful i can just notice them especially when dd is sat on me feeding, i say stabby.. its like twingey/pokey 🤔

Xx

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MrsHandles · 03/05/2017 19:21

Sorry to hear Cookie

Bluee I have a chart somewhat similar to yours, I've no idea what it could mean.

Can I ask, and I feel a bit silly, but what's a chemical pregnancy?

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Viletta · 03/05/2017 19:27

@MrsHandles it's when an egg is fertilized by the sperm but won't develop and gets out with af. Apparently a very common thing that passes most of the time unnoticed. It's called chemical because the only way to detect this is Hcg test. Body scans the zygote and basically decides it's not good enough.. could be because of many reasons, defective egg, spermatozoid or error in exchanging DNA, endometrium not being thick enough. I see it as a positive thing, at least we know that the egg was there and spermatozoid did the job! The rest is easy to fix

Waitingonasmile · 03/05/2017 19:36

More pink spotting today 😫. Tests were darker this morning but it's still so worrrying. I was reassured when I got a positive on a digital but this spotting panics me.

MrsHandles · 03/05/2017 19:38

Viletta thank you! A very comprehensive answer

sallywiththegoodhurr · 03/05/2017 19:41

I'm off to buy more tests. I just can't shake the feeling that they are just a bad batch

mrsb87 · 03/05/2017 19:50

pebble?!?! I have no idea....Grin Any clues?!

Viletta · 03/05/2017 19:58

@Waitingonasmile spotting could be an absolutely normal thing.. my mum had it and though it was her AF when she had me.. so realized she's pregnant when had 12 ww.
@sallywiththegoodhurr hey, and what about #WaitToSee campaign? :)) good luck with new test, make it with fmu. Keep us updated! Xx

Ava1985 · 03/05/2017 20:13

Good luck sally! Fx ! And waiting I hope the spotting is implantation and all is well!

I am roughly 5dpo today and so bored of the waiting 😂 Boobs are still a little tender but not as bad as previous months Hmm feeling less and less hopeful as the days go on and even counting down to next fw so if I'm out this month I have mentally prepared myself for the blow! X

sallywiththegoodhurr · 03/05/2017 20:30

I just can't help myself @Viletta
Thanks @Ava1985

I think it doesn't help that I 'feel pregnant'. My nipples are absolutely killing me Blush

Good luck to everyone who's waiting! What day are you all testing??

BlueeSpottyTiger · 03/05/2017 20:59

Good luck sally 🍀 x
Im 7dpo tomorrow... and i know it's tooooooooo early but i think I'll prob end up doing an ic everyday now until af 🙈

sallywiththegoodhurr · 03/05/2017 21:04

Thank you Blue, you too! Smile

I admit, I started testing at 7dpo Blush why do we do this to ourselves hey?

Viletta · 03/05/2017 21:25

Do you know what I am thinking about, ladies? If only somebody could create a reusable pregnancy test, this person would be a genius! And a very wealthy person as well as a consequence SmileSmileSmile

sallywiththegoodhurr · 03/05/2017 21:32

That would be amazing! Or even just an IC that was as reliable as they claim

boatrace30 · 03/05/2017 22:04

waiting - try not to worry. I bled throughout my first trimester with DD. Everything from spotting to heavy clots. In fact I also thought I'd had a period and got very drunk when I was 5weeks pregnant!! Bleeding in early pregnancy is remarkably common.

Waitingonasmile · 04/05/2017 06:16

Thank you viletta and boatrace . Tested this morning and there is progression so fingers crossed. Just dreading going to the toilet and seeing more pink or for red blood to start.

Hope everyone has a lovely day and there's lots of bfps or babydancing for the people ovulating. Sorry to anyone who starts af today. Flowers

MotherofBoy · 04/05/2017 06:42

So sorry to hear about your bfn cookie, life can be so cruel to taunt us like that.

CD13 here and a v strong positive opk this morning. Always at really inconvenient times though - PIL are staying the nigh tonight argh awkward! Dtd last night but really need to dtd tonight and tomorrow to catch the egg. Blasted PIL I will have to persuade dh to dtd anyway just really quietly haha!

sallywiththegoodhurr · 04/05/2017 06:46

I've just retested and there's a super faint line like the last pictures but nothing significant or stronger.

I think they are just a bad batch of tests. They are 15miu (I think) and I'm only 11dpo so I'm not out yet 🤞🏻

mrsb87 · 04/05/2017 07:32

14 dp(suspected)o. According to my app, af due tomorrow! Anxious to test, will wait til tomorrow and see what happens.

MotherofBoy · 04/05/2017 07:35

Good luck mrsb!

BlueeSpottyTiger · 04/05/2017 07:36

waiting i too had 3 pretty heavy bleeds with dd the first one i had at 9 weeks was so heavy the epu thought i had miscarried... until my scan showed a wriggly bean. I then had 2 more bleeds every 4 weeks (ish) when af would have been due.
Its so scary and stressful though xx