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May BFP Bus

718 replies

Kellz92 · 08/04/2016 16:18

Thought I would start a thread for the May BFP bus...

Name: Kellz
Age: 23
Cycle: 10
ETD: 2nd May

Good luck ladies

xx

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SunnyDays1987 · 11/05/2016 10:12

I'll keep everything crossed for you! It was a lovely BFP if it was in the right timeframe!! Evaps just shouldn't exist Angry!!!

Cosmicbird · 11/05/2016 14:16

Can I jump on? Not so much ttc as not not ttc but finding I'm getting much more caught up in it than I meant to and Dh very relaxed so don't want to be driving him nuts!

Just a day or two after ov and convinced I can feel AF symptoms already but we did dtd around the right time I think.....the 2ww never gets easier!!!

Mrsp2011 · 11/05/2016 17:56

It's so hard not to get caught up in it cosmic! I'm a control freak, so it helps me to do loads of research, but also makes me hyper alert in the 2ww!! Confused

Cosmicbird · 11/05/2016 18:13

Mrsp I'm an awful control freak too!!! Driving myself crazy, so aware of every little twinge!

Rosey135 · 11/05/2016 18:39

Got more tests in the post, trying so hard not to cave in don't want to go through another bfn, period due on Saturday should I try in the morning?

Cosmicbird · 11/05/2016 19:15

I would wait until Saturday to test tbh, I've never had definitive positives from early tests and they only made me more crazy wondering! Easier said than done though I know

Mrsp2011 · 11/05/2016 20:14

Rosey It really depends on how it effects u. If a bfn sends u into a negative space then I would try and hold out. For me a bfn before af is due are ok, cause I can hope I might still get my bfp!!

Mrsp2011 · 11/05/2016 20:16

cosmic up until recently I had no idea how my body changes through the month!! It's amazing what u miss when you're just going about your normal business!! Shock

SoozC · 11/05/2016 21:40

Agreed, MrsP! I have all sorts of twinges and itchy patches and soreness for no reason over a usual month that I was never aware of before I started logging them all!
5dpo. Hate the wait!

frobskottle · 11/05/2016 22:00

hey very late but brand new to mumsnet...can I join you all?

Name: Katharine
Age: 30
Cycle: 3 (I had a 12 week miscarriage in Jan)
ETD: 24th May (but might try to hold out until 26th as it's our wedding anniversary! and we found out on Valentines last time)

I have one son. he is going to be 2 in October. Just need some company in the TWW. I think I am ovulating today, I dont test but it feels like I might be and the dates add up. DTD earlier as husband has gone to London so hopeful.

Mrsp2011 · 11/05/2016 22:05

Welcome frobskottle fingers crossed for u!

frobskottle · 11/05/2016 22:34

and you...how long are you waiting to test? I hate those last few days.

Mrsp2011 · 12/05/2016 06:53

Will do my best to wait until the weekend!! That would be 14/15 dpo!

Seahawk80 · 12/05/2016 08:43

Still no AF (was due mon) an BFN yesterday - wondering whether to waste money and buy a FRER or to just wait and see for a week! I was so resigned to AF coming on Sunday and ok about it so this just feels like my body is playing tricks on me!

Kellz92 · 12/05/2016 12:14

Appointment didnt go well. Nurse took all the info and went for advice from thr GP, he said i have to stop stressing and it will happen, i am young and have had a baby before so there is nothing wrong with me. And in a few months we can go see the GP and be referred, We have decided to wait until after our holiday in August and if we still havent conceived we are going to make a joint appointment

Im temping again this cycle and the temps are just weird compared to the other times ive temped but going to carry on with it

xx

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SunnyDays1987 · 12/05/2016 13:13

How disappointing Kellz. Hate unhelpful doctors. I really hope temping helps you to work out what's going on xx

wispaxmas · 12/05/2016 15:54

Hiya, I'm 1dpo now so thought I'd join the May bus tentatively, even though I'm sure we aren't pregnant this cycle. I thought I might as well update the list since it hasn't been done in a couple weeks..

MAY BUS:

Nimisha - Cycle 1 - etd 2nd May
Ivoryshoes - Cycle 3 - etd 4th May
Rarotonga - Cycle 2 - etd 5th May
Sophronia- Cycle 1 - etd 5th May
TryingToWait - Cycle 4 - etd 6-18 May
Dutchy88 - Cycle 2 - etd 7th May
joydgreen - cycle 1, etd 9th May
Cheekychicksss - cycle 2, etd 9th May
Everdene - Cycle 1 - etd 11th May
Blueandpinklove - cycle ??, ETD 12th May
Lucy - Cycle 1- etd 14th May
Twinniesmumma - cycle 3, etd 14th May
Rosey135 - cycle 1, etd 14th May
GiraffesCantDoMentalArithmetic - Cycle 4 - etd 15th May
Carrotvan - cycle 2, etd 16th May
WildBandit - Cycle 3- etd 20th May
Babybee88- Cycle 1 - etd 21st May
jpeg28 - Cycle 3- etd 22nd May
SunnyDays1987 - Cycle 1 - etd 23rd May
Tabitha78 - Cycle 2 - etd 23rd May
BoBo 90 - Cycle 4 - etd 24th May
Frobskottle - cycle 3, etd 24th May
hanflan - Cycle 1 - etd 25th May
SpreadOnToast - Cycle 2 - etd 25th May
NottaLotta- Cycle 1, etd 25th May
Wispaxmas - cycle 1, etd 25th May
Dustycorners - cycle 1, etd 26th May
Kellz92 - cycle 11, etd 28th May
GinandJazzHands - Cycle 4 - etd ?
broodypsycho - Cycle 11 - etd ?
Lillybugg - Cycle 5 - etd ?
ProseccoKiss - Cycle 1 - etd ?
iwillbemrsminty- Cycle 4- etd?
Seahawk80 - Cycle 1 - etd mid May
Londonberry - cycle 8, etd ?
Happysunshineandrainbows - cycle 2, etd ?
Karryk - cycle 6, etd ?
Chuckading - cycle ?, etd ?
Babydances - cycle 1, etd ?

BFPs:
ProseccoKiss - cycle 1, BFP 27th April!

(Only 1 so far??? SadSadSad)

wispaxmas · 12/05/2016 15:55

kellz, has he never heard of secondary infertility??? Just because you've had one child does NOT mean everything is in working order now. How ignorant!

Kellz92 · 12/05/2016 16:08

Thanks Sunny i have temped a few months, took two off as i was on holiday then my daughter wasnt sleeping well, Ill get there.

Wispa Even i have heard of it, i knew more about TTC than the nurse practitioner, she seemed concerned that my last 2 AF have been extremely painful, light but quite clotty and only one day. instead of 6 days most being heavy and pain free. But GP didnt, when i do go back if i dont conceive soon i will not be seeing him.

xx

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SunnyDays1987 · 12/05/2016 16:39

Thanks wispa! I started doing it and then DS got ill and I couldn't keep up, great job!

Yeah sounds like you maybe need to see someone else. Hopefully if you have a few temperature charts it might help. Have you seen anyone else before?

Seahawk80 · 12/05/2016 17:34

Sorry Kellzl, doctors can be so unhelpful xx

LillyBugg · 12/05/2016 19:21

Hi all, not been on in a while...

I ordered opk's as I promised myself I would if attempt five was a no go. I'm on cd10 of a 25/26 day cycle and still no positive on the opk. I think we should dtd just in case but it is a little concerning that I've still not had a positive. Fertility friend reckons I'll ovulate tomorrow, and the signs for that are certainly starting but not quite there.

I'm getting so bored of trying now...not sure I can explain what I mean. I really want it to happen but I'm starting to get annoyed and bored of it all.

redstrawberries101 · 12/05/2016 20:51

Got my
BFP today albeit on a superdrug early and I'm 4 days late. It wasn't FMU though so hoping that will explain the faint positive ...

May BFP Bus
LillyBugg · 12/05/2016 20:57

Definitely a positive, congrats cheeky 👍🏻

everdene · 12/05/2016 22:13

Congratulations Cheeky! Smile