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Starting 2 Week Wait

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Lovewatchingrainfall · 01/04/2016 21:16

Just as my title says as of today I am starting my TTW. I wish I could just sleep until now till then. Good luck anyone else starting there's.

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lightcola · 09/04/2016 08:23

It ain't over till the witch sings love

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Lovewatchingrainfall · 09/04/2016 08:40

Thank you light i will take another test on Monday. My AF can be anything from 26/28 days apart so i could be testing early. But don't think i am. So will hold out on the wine till Monday.

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cnchapmanxx · 09/04/2016 09:04

Morning girls :) still no bowel Movement! Nothing Else to report haha! How is everyone? Xx

Frantasic · 09/04/2016 10:03

Sorry about the BFN Love... I felt disappointed too yesterday. But as light says it ain't over til AF.

lightcola · 09/04/2016 10:22

Haha chap I'm sending you poo and pregnancy vibes.

Everyone else just has pregnancy vibes, unless you need something else

nataliefruit · 09/04/2016 10:26

How are we all today? Congratulations lighthouse, such great news!! Lucky thread :)

I'm still symptom spotting like a good un. I had cramps on my right side last night in addition to all the other 'symptoms' so I'm desperately willing the next week to go as fast as possible so I can find out if it is all in my mind and I'm going loopy!! Off into town today so I'm going to buy a of test in case - does anyone have any recommendations on good early testers?

Baby dust and a good weekend to all :)

nataliefruit · 09/04/2016 10:27

Sorry bloody autocorrect - congratulations lightcola!

cnchapmanxx · 09/04/2016 10:52

Well a quick update I've managed to pass something which is a relief! But wasn't as much as I was expecting!

Light cola did you actually go or have you still not been??

Thanks for your pg vibes I need all I can get Hun! 😂

Sorry about your bfn love your not out til the witch shows! Could be its still to early to pick up fx Hun xxxx

nataliefruit · 09/04/2016 11:11

Cn not to get your hopes up but constipation is a frequent problem with pregnant ladies so maybe your body is trying to tell you something! Wink

Frantasic · 09/04/2016 11:39

Thanks for the support re MY bfn guys!!!!! Only one person acknowledges it while the rest talk about constipation at 6dpo.

cnchapmanxx · 09/04/2016 12:01

Fran I don't feel there was any need to be like that? I genuinely didn't see your post.
Sorry about your bfn, and sorry that I asked a question. Thought this was for support not bitchyness!

Frantasic · 09/04/2016 12:42

So did I! And I'm not being bitchy, I'm making an observation. We all come here for support. It just surprises me that of the 8 or 9 people who has posted on this thread only one person has responded in 24 hours. It's a poor show really. I have been happy for the bfpers and cyber hugged the Bfners and I'm a bit miffed that it's not been reciprocated. I think that's fair enough and doesn't make me a bitch!

lightcola · 09/04/2016 14:19

Wow. Well that's just ruined this for me. I'm out! Great talking with you ladies, but life's too short to get involved with attitudes like that.

Best of luck with all the upcoming tests everybody and for frequent bowel movements.

Frantasic · 09/04/2016 14:49

I think it's a poor attitude to accept congratulation from the people waiting to find out and not acknowledge them when they've tested and it hasn't worked out for them. Blame me all you want but that's what you did.

LittleHeart2014 · 09/04/2016 20:12

Thought I'd hop online and see how everyone's getting on. First chance I've had to catch up in a couple of days! Sorry about the BFN Fran, I genuinely am. Inbox is busy enough with work emails so I don't have notifications turned on! Still time for AF to do one so you get your BFP. A friend had BFNs until day 16. Good luck to everyone else too x

Frantasic · 09/04/2016 21:11

Thanks Little... It wasn't directed at you, I promise. The BFN was a real let down but as AF is now late (according to my period tracker which is bang on every month) so there's still hope. I said that because there was a few people who completely ignored two posts about my BNF and it came across as insensitive given that I'd congratulated the BPFs and supported the BFNs. Sadly I probably killed the thread if Lightcola is anything to go by, which is why I DMed you instead. :0/

How are you feeling? Is bean settling in nicely? X

LittleHeart2014 · 09/04/2016 21:26

Not to worry, I can empathise with you, but don't think it was personal. It's so easy to get caught up in your symptoms and forget about what others are experiencing. You PMd me? I haven't seen anything Confused

I'm anxious so trying to focus on the positives. My GP was rotten and mentioned the high possibility of miscarriage. Why I don't know. We go from one fear to another on this journey x

Frantasic · 09/04/2016 21:58

I thought I had but it went public... It's fine it was nothing I hadn't said publicly anyway.

Why was your GP so negative about your chance of MC? That's terrible! I'm not surprised you're stressed. Big hugs... I can totally empathise. X

LittleHeart2014 · 09/04/2016 22:08

I don't think it we was in relation to me. She just didn't choose her words very wisely! Angry

Frantasic · 09/04/2016 22:20

Oh I see. Well you know that without any health issue that could obviously impact on your pregnancy you risk is no higher than anyone else of your age. Maybe ask for a different Dr for further visits?

I was thinking about the age thing... I'm no spring chicken and have accepted that my chances are through the roof of having another MC even if I am pregnant so I'm not going to try again after this cycle. It's one of the reasons I was so fed up with the BFN.

LittleHeart2014 · 09/04/2016 22:33

I can't imagine how disheartening that must've been. Seeing the BFNs wasn't easy for me but I haven't been in your shoes Sad x

Frantasic · 09/04/2016 23:04

The way I see it is I have two lovely DCs and one more would have been a blessing. My biological clock has probably caught up with me and I left it too late. Luckily I had my DC when I was younger, if I'd been in this postion without them it would have been awful. I'm lucky to have them and I'm grateful to be a mum. :0)

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Lovewatchingrainfall · 10/04/2016 08:24

Aww fran i am really sorry to read that. sending hugs Its never too late until your AF arrives/stops for good.

How are you doing little

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Frantasic · 10/04/2016 10:33

And speaking of AF... She's arrived.

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Lovewatchingrainfall · 10/04/2016 16:18

Sorry to hear that Fran.

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