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KittyandTeal · 22/06/2015 15:45

I am now 5 days away from my period being due. It's my first month ttc after our tfmr in jan.

I fell fairly quickly with dd1 as wasn't really tracking or watching symptoms.

With dd2 (who ended up having T18) we weren't actively trying but had stopped preventing iyswim.

We're now ready to try again. We dtd every other day around ovulation time. Since then, around 3dpo I started getting pretty bad abdominal cramps, like prior to period. They lasted around 3 days. Since then I've had a really achy lower back that I just can't shift.

No other real symptoms other than an increased appetite but that could be down to my running. Oh and fatigue, which I really suffered with both my other pregnancies.

It is possible that the cramps 3dpo were actually ovulation pains and that the app I use calculated my fertile time wrong which would be really annoying but nothing I can do now. I'll get opk next month.

What on earth is this back ache though? It's driving me mad. I've never had to do the traditional tww thing and I've been driving myself mad with the 'am I? Aren't I?' questions.

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KittyandTeal · 24/06/2015 18:21

Well I'm feeling bloody rough. Backache is still here, I thought I'd got over the fatigue but it's back, I'm shattered! Plus I've had some cramping pains in my abdomen. Plus unrelenting headaches!

I think it may well be the run up to AF. I'm due sat so I'll just wait things out. If nothing happens I'll take another test but I'm fully expecting my period to arrive. I'm hoping it's a virus tbh, I don't fancy this every month.

Saying that my counsellor (who is an ex screening midwife) did say tues is very early to test if due on sat. Although the first response says its 87% accurate on day 5 so that's more than likely a negative.

Either way I'm no further on than the other day Smile

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dreamingofmynextsleep · 24/06/2015 18:40

That's so frustrating!! :( only a few more days to go though?

My backache has calmed but still there. Cramping continues and brown spotting for 4 days now. No AF though.
Gonna leave it until after the weekend I think :)
Let us know how you get on! :)

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KittyandTeal · 25/06/2015 19:09

I'm very impressed with your willpower dreaming!

I'm getting those pre AF type cramps and heavy feeling iykwim so I'm not too hopeful.

In other news; I've just done my sciatic nerve! Very sore and annoying but in some ways a welcome distraction!

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dreamingofmynextsleep · 25/06/2015 19:21

Still got the dreadful backache and cramping.. But just brown spotting maybe once a day?
Was due on Sunday, so no idea. Still gonna leave it until after the weekend that way I'm 28-35 days in my cycle. My usual cycle is 35 days but I ovulated a week early so should have had AF Monday... We shall see :)

And the sciatic nerve kitty is god awful! Here's hoping that sorts itself out pretty soon!
I've had AF type cramping and bloating for 7-10 days now... So it isn't over until AF arrives! :)

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KittyandTeal · 25/06/2015 20:50

I've had some pink spotting when wiping today so I think between that, the negative test and that fact that I always spot a few days before I come on it is pretty much a done deal.

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KittyandTeal · 27/06/2015 08:23

So AF arrived last night, not surprised but it's a really painful one.

Fingers crossed for next week.

How are you getting on dreaming?

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dreamingofmynextsleep · 27/06/2015 09:35

Oh, I'm sorry to hear that kitty :(
Woken up this morning with a pressure into my groin and awful backache. Still only spotting brown icky stuff (tmi, sorry) .. So I have a feeling AF is on it's way nearly a week late! Which is just strange, but what can you do?
I shall let you know :)

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